Success Mindset


If you want to raise your income, fast, and not only that but also your actual WEALTH, for real, then the most effective thing you can do?

Raise your fucking vibe.

When I look back at all the years I’ve been in business, and I think about the periods where money was coming in consistently, day by day, and also growing steadily, sure, it WAS when I was doing the work. I had my routine ON, and shit was getting done.

Message, content, value, SELL, that’s it in a nutshell! And always of course the inner work and the fitness in and around all of that.

Honestly, the things I DO haven’t really changed over the years. When I was making 3k a month and when I was making 300k a month and even now beyond that it REALLY still all just comes down to these few things on repeat.

But here’s the deal –

YES you can ‘get there’, start to make money and then pick that shit up, build a business, a brand, and even a life by consistently getting yo shit DONE, but what if there was a way to make it next level MAGICAL?

I look back and see that because of CONSISTENCY I started to consistently make money and GROW that money, but I also look back and note with interest the periods when money just seemed to FLY in, appear in absolute waves, and in large amounts that made no sense, and where I truly had the feeling that I had the Midas touch.

These are the periods which I’d describe as being in the zone … in TOTAL flow … and most of all? Where I knew that I was creating the results from IN me, and that I was IN abundance.

If you think about abundance – and I hope that you do! – then you’ll know that abundance isn’t something you DO. It’s also not something you GET. It’s something you’re either IN, or, well, not.

Think of it like jumping into a river. A big ass money river! Even if you GOT the river, like somebody appointed it to you or something, that doesn’t mean you’re in it. And you can stand near the river or talk about the river or paint the damn river all day long if you like, you still ain’t in it and you still ain’t getting wet.

If you’re not in the abundance river, you’re not IN it, and you ain’t getting paid or RECEIVING. You might be getting 1% of what’s available to you, probably a helluva lot less though. Maybe 0.001%!


lol. I got carried away. But YES – and let’s talk how:

You’ll receive, as much as you like, when you jump in, plain and simple. Get it? Got it? Good!

And then the shit that you DO – i.e. message, value, content, sell, etc, in ALIGNMENT and from flow, is what actually sets your direction and even is what CREATES the landscape of the river ahead of you in a way.

The point of all of which is to say, if you’re serious about true wealth, then you want to be addressing BOTH areas:

Be IN abundance.
And do the fucking work.

The COOL thing is, that when you’re IN abundance and in alignment with who you’re meant to BE, as a creator | messenger | leader | artist | etc, then you will AUTOMATICALLY wanna do the work, because it’s who you ARE, to create, to unleash, to show up, to message, to sell.

It just kinda HAPPENS, even though sure, you may need to learn the basics first or actively create a habit / get over resistance / etc.

But really – for me and also for anyone who was truly born to create and lead and shine, the ‘hustle’ or ‘do’ is an outcome of being who you’re meant to be. This is why I roll my eyes at people who talk against the hustle, they don’t get that hustle isn’t something you think you HAVE to do, hustle is doing what you are CALLED to do, and the purpose of doing it is NOT in fact ‘to make money’ or to achieve anything else, but instead, because it’s the best fucking thing ever to DO.

Of course you could say that DOING that stuff, consistently, as I talked about earlier, IS what gets a result, but I’d argue that that’s a product of mindset. Technically though, sure, of course – even without any sort of abundance vibe doing the do WILL still move you forward in some sort of a way.

But let’s come back to that whole abundance vibe thing, yeah? The FLOW shit, the times when something just clicks and everything works! These are the times when you truly feel UNSTOPPABLE. Your confidence is next level, and you just KNOW what to do and how to move, it’s like all of life is a dance and you’re just floating your way through it, doing what you can’t NOT, being fully you, receiving on REPEAT.

HOOOOWWWWWWW do you switch from JUST doing what you gotta do or even WANT to do each day, being consistent about how you’re showing up, to being in that flow zone where it’s just working?

And the answer is simple:


You wouldn’t ask HOW you get in a fucking river, would you? I mean, even if there was a rocky or steep cliff-face to get in there, the how is clear:

Get the fuck in.
Jump, leap, walk, whatever!

But – maybe you’re scared! Maybe it DOES look too tricky to get in! Maybe it looks fucking FREEZING! Maybe you just wanna sit on the side and tan, but you’re torn because you also want to be in! What to do what to do what to DO?

Well, long story short, you gotta find a way to make it just normal, automatic, how it IS, that you’re in the damn river every damn day, and swimming around blissfully like a happy little mermaid!

To make THIS happen, what I would be doing if I were you, is some sort of mix of the following:

1) Recognise the river is ALWAYS THERE for you. No fear, it’s not going anywhere! You can GET IN ANYTIME!

2) Surround yourself with people who regularly hang out in rivers. Their river vibe will rub off on you and before you know it you’ll be the first one in each day! You’ll stop seeing it as weird or scary, ’cause EVERYBODY’S DOING IT! Hint: you can apply this tactic to tribe growth if you like.

3) Decide and commit. Do you WANT to get in the God damn river or not? Stop being so wishy-washy about it! You wanna be a mermaid, yes or no? I may be mixing my water analogies here, but you get the point. Decide, and then COMMIT – it IS going to happen!

4) When the moment comes, at least for the first few times, you may have to psych yourself into it. Get amped up! Do a dance! ROAR! YOU CAN GET IN THE RIVER, YOU’VE GOT THIS! Psych psych psych, feel the fear, then do it anyway and JUMP! You’re now so FREE!

5) Speaking of free – and this bit is probably MOST relevant here to why people don’t allow flowy good times in the river … aka abundance … accept that you WILL have to let go. You will have to be PART of the flow. This means – you literally can’t try and hold up every particle of the environment around you AND also expect to flow. Give in to what is coming naturally WHILE also realising that ultimately you will always go wherever you’re looking and that of course you can direct the COURSE of flow.

And look, if all of this feels too much too soon, then sure, you can first hang OUT at rivers all the time, spend a lot of time talking about it or listening to other people’s stories of what it’s like, you could even paint pictures of it and hang them everywhere, like river affirmation boards, but at some point?

You are gonna have to get in if you want to be, well, in.

And if you’re wondering where the fuck the ‘actual’ river of abundance is then, because God damn it, you’re ready to jump in and if only I’d give you REAL WORLD ANALOGIES then you COULD, then shut up and listen:

It’s IN you.

And how you get in? You decide. You decide, in this moment, to be IN abundance. You state it and claim it. You repeat that DAILY, ’cause one thing with THIS river is that if it recognises you’re not acting (thinking, showing up) like you ARE in it then it’ll spit you out automatically. And then meanwhile, WHEN in, you act like you fucking know you’re in.

You consciously CHOOSE to think in abundance.
Practice that shit.
Figure it OUT.
Be COMMITTED, and consistent.
You CHOOSE your beliefs.
You reinforce them ’til you no longer have to.
And as for action, and how you actually show up?
Exactly as you would if you were in the river, had the thoughts, had the beliefs.

Still not sure how it’s gonna feel, what you’d be thinking or feeling or believing or DOING in the damn river?

Well that’s kinda my point …

Quit standing on the edge and trying to figure it out.

And then float, swim, play, BE, WHILE ACTUALLY IN.

This sidelines shit is getting old.

And sooner or later it’s gonna look like that’s where you plan on staying.

LEAP, baby.

The inner you already knows exactly what to do.