Success Mindset

ON FIRING STAFF, WALKING AWAY FROM ‘LOVE’, BEING A TOTAL DIVA AND QUEEN, STAYING MOTHERFUCKING STRONG AND INSISTING ON HAVING.IT.ALL!

Do you ever notice that the more you evolve and slip ever deeper into flow, the more OPPORTUNITIES for growth you get to experience?

I remember when I used to think that making a certain amount of money, or having soulmate clients and a soulmate team, or really ANY of those ‘next level’ things I used to dream of, would really just be a reflection of me having all my shit together and being evolved BEYOND discomfort, uncertainty, fear.

I look back now and smile at the me who didn’t realise that actually the greatest part of this ENTIRE journey IS the chance to step into discomfort, to face up to what we’d rather not, to do the fucking WORK that most would never even contemplate, let alone action, let alone action, FAST.

And as much as this is really ‘hard’ to do sometimes (hard is perception!) I also know that I MUST, always, follow what’s inside. For me, sure. But also … it’s about what I get to teach via example. For you. For my entire community. For my freaking CHILDREN. So really … a lot of reasons to be committed to alignment, or NOTHING, don’t you think?

I’m thinking primarily of how I had to release two of my team yesterday, a new employee and also one who has been with me for a reasonable while. Both of whom I in some way did view as family, and had connection with, respect for, still DO.

What’s interesting … what I notice … is that any time I have the chance to GROW in business, there is some reflection that plays over right away in life. Or, you know – vice versa. Or, you know – same same!! But it really is true: how we do one thing is how we do EVERYTHING, and it’s not uncommon for growth opportunities to present themselves to you in batches.

Like sneaky little tests, really! Just TESTING you to see how much you actually believe what you preach and teach, in my case how committed I AM in fact to hell yes –

Or nothing.

I was thinking about this just now as I listened to a few WhatsApp audios from clients while on the drive home from the school run. And in doing so, I had the opportunity, just now, to hold a mirror up on my own shit and see where I get to call BS.

Around my visions beyond my visions, for my business and life, on the deep truths of what I know I am yet to step up to and am maybe still a bit scared to admit or ACTION.

Around TRULY letting it ALL be easy, flow-based, of course, automatic.

And also (and here we go AGAIN!!) around love, and men, and being committed to hell yes there ALSO, or nothing.

It’s so uncomfortable a lot of the time, isn’t it?! The doing of this work. The leaning INTO discomfort or even pain. The constant and relentless need to be BRUTALLY honest with ourselves around the tough decisions or stuff we’d naturally rather just avoid, hide from, or run run RUN from as fast as possible.

But if we’re really going to have it all … a business and life which is FULLY aligned and completely ‘on our terms’, where EVERY different aspect of how we show up and what we get to experience is a HELL to the YES, then guess what?

We GET to be the ones who live like this. Who face up to WHAT’S up like this. And who do the fucking work like this, day in. Day out. On repeat. No matter what.

Of course we wouldn’t have it any other way … can you imagine?! But yet … sometimes it DOES feel a little tiring, don’t you find? Of course tiring is a choice, tiresome is a choice, finding it ‘hard’ to do ANYTHING, no matter how quote unquote uncomfortable it might be, is a motherfucking CHOICE.

And in the end … the hardest choice REALLY, would be to live your life, CREATE your life, in a way that is anything less than absolute pure alignment and flow. Might feel easier in the surface! But that’s a cop out, right?

RIGHT.

What I find is … the futher into actually creating your dreams you grow, and go, the easier it is in some ways. Because you have EVIDENCE. You have multiple WAVES even, of evidence, of where you’ve stuck to your guns, done the work, INSISTED on receiving what your heart really desires.

And look – ANYTIME YOU MADE IT A NON-NEGOTIABLE AND STEPPED FORWARD IN FAITH, it worked!!

Just like Tony Robbins … and God before him … SAID it would.

So – there!!

And with that being true, and I KNOW it is true, and YOU know it is true, and what’s more when you DO act from pure absolute faith and flow it’s also when it just works like WOAH … then why on earth IS it, do you think, that we continue to drag shit out, make it hard on ourselves, create unnecessary sacrifice, settle, suffering?

Why?

Well … I guess it’s just that whole ‘wrong school of life’ conditioning we grew up with, probably, and which we GET to continue learning to release

The shit that tells you that to strive for absolute pure perfection and YES is unrealistic. That it makes you a diva, a princess, a narcissist, or just selfish. That life is about COMPROMISE, but hey – don’t worry, you get to have something ‘pretty awesome’, but you can’t have it ALLLLLLL. It’s so sneaky, isn’t it, how they try and get you? Tempt and seduce you with something VERY close to, and explain with a solemn face and nod of the head that duh –

Of course you can’t get to have your COMPLETE hell yes. I actually even saw a dating coach say this once, encourage people to settle. So much wtf!! SO much wtf about the idea of settling in ANY area, and say what you want, but I find I’m doing pretty nicely just insisting on having my own beliefs about how I GET to let life work and vibe and flow for me.

Which means that when I consider or even NOTICE a little area of sacrifice, of settling, of playing SMALLER than what is actually being TOLD to me from within?

Well –

I call bullshit.

As I did this morning, when I listened to my client notice her own scarcity around love and men. … yes, a lot of the conversations with my 6 and 7-figure badass entrepreneur clients are around NON business related stuff … but as we said on the audios … EVERYTHING relates to business … and she was noticing how she was in a state of ‘trying to hold ON’.

To a particular man.
To an idea of love.
To fear, really, that if she once more chose to let go, act from faith, insist on having it all, that maybe she’d fall.
And have nothing.

And because she IS a badass she DOES notice and she WILL release.

As I said to her: “this is an exercise in faith. this is a growth opportunity. you get to practice detachment. you get to practice creating IN you all of the things you desire … love, romance, fun, etc … and you don’t need ANYBODY else to offer that for you”

Stay strong.
Insist on having it all.

Of course, as soon as I started preaching to her over return audio I realised I GET to once more face into my own stuff around this. Actually it’s not even ‘bullshit’, is it? It’s all perfect and exactly what it’s meant to be and I get to keep growing.

And what I find is …

In any area of business, with money, with fitness, with LOVE, with life, with ALL of it, that there are stages and phases.

There is the place where you totally do NOT have it all, nothing like it, and it’s just freaking AWFUL and you just want things to CHANGE. So you rail and you push and you repeatedly get caught up in why it’s not working for YOU, but at some point your commitment and action pays off, your thoughts start to shift to where you are focusing more on what you DO want, and so you create it.

This is where … you find yourself definitely ‘ahead of the rest’. You have results. You are SUCCESSFUL. You feel proud of yourself, and excited. You’ve done the WORK!

But yet …

There are things that are just … hmmm. Not QUITE right. Just a little bit off.

99.99% of even the 1% OF the 1% will stay in this place.
For their entire fucking life.

And what I notice is …

I actually do want to have it all.
Fully.
Complete alignment.
Complete hell yes.

So I choose to WALK THE FUCK AWAY even when something is 99.99% aligned.

Because 0.01% off? Is all the way the fuck off.

And also, by the WAY, your gut is NEVER wrong, so make the tough.fucking.decisions NOW, and FAST, or 6 months from now you’ll be kicking yourself for more time lost and a stickier situation to deal with.

THIS is where we separate ourselves.

And I said that, yesterday, on the phone to my brother who is also my COO and one of my trusted advisors, as we discussed the termination of two employees who ‘did not thing wrong per se’ … who I love and appreciate FOR their efforts … but who made it clear through their actions and words that they are no longer a fit for my personal values, for the role they were hired for and the agreement that was made, and for my HELL YES OR NOTHING vision for my entire company, and by default, you.

It would have been easy … normal … to ‘have a talk’. Re-state boundaries and values. Clear the air. No big deal, actually. But also –

Once the red flag is up, it’s up.

And maybe that’s brutal … harsh … most people would think so, I suppose.

And my answer would be …

Most people don’t get to have it ALL baby. Because they will not MAKE the tough decisions. Not in business. Not in life. Or – they’ll ‘make them’, and say in their head that this is how it needs to be.

And then they won’t follow through.

We? We choose to be different. We make the tough decisions. We rip the fucking bandaid. We do it with respect and honour and gratitude, because EVERYTHING is perfect and aligned, for all parties, and so there ALWAYS gets to be thank you.

And we do it fast, because life is now, so why wait?

This is true in business.
It’s true with men.
It’s true with all of it.

The thing is … it’s actually REALLY easy to create a successful life. It just requires focus, follow-through, discipline, hustle.

The thing ALSO is … it’s actually REALLY easy to have a HELL YES 100% perfectly aligned life.

It just requires motherfucking honesty.

And always, of course, remembering:

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

PS

Aligning to Your New Money Normal is coming!

I am so excited!!

For the first time ever I am bringing together over 13 years of soul-led multi-million $$ biz creating money ENERGY shiz, and teaching it to you all in one brand new live 6 week course!

Piece by piece and bit by bit EVERYTHING I got to learn, tap into, download, and figure out around COMPLETELY rewiring money beliefs, and then upleveling financial reality on repeat.

This course will include all the practical things I do to continually grow real wealth (boy oh boy was that a minefield for me to wade through, and find soul alignment with, at first!),

my personal daily and weekly money routines and practices,

also what I get my team to do / the behind the scenes of how we create and also manage cashflow in my biz,

the quantum side of it, the energetics of the thing,

everything you ACTUALLY need to know about clearing shit, and how to know when there IS action to take on that, what it is, how to take it,

how to know when it IS time to align to your next money goal, what that goal is, how I myself would know (and then what to do about it),

how I do my money energy work, my own feelings and relationship with money, and how I created that

as well as a literal ‘what to do and how to do it’ process to align YOU to your next money goal, right there and then together in that course. Yep, you will actually be implementing and shifting shit with me there right by your side kicking your hot ass as needed (gettin’ you soul aligned baby!)

and a whole bunch more which you is gonna have to wait to see 🙂

Be sure to drop a comment here on Facebook if you’d like to be one of the first people to know when it goes live!

PPS

I HAVE SOME BIG NEWS TO SHARE!

As of today, I’m opening up the doors to my Inner Circle, my private client mastermind.

This is THE most badass high level mastermind in the world for women who want it all – and are prepared to do what it takes to get it! Really what we’re talking about is being prepared to be the PERSON.

And that’s what I do. I help you remember ALL that you were, and then become it. ALL Of it.

This is my highest level private mentoring circle. The exact place where I have personally mentored dozens of this industry’s most elite female entrepreneurs to break income barriers ranging from 10k months to multiple 7 FIGURE months, and everything in between. But more importantly than that – to become who and what they always were.

But know that this is not only (obviously) not just for the masses, this is also not just for someone who can afford to invest in a high level private coach. Being willing to throw money down is something which has absolutely zero correlation to being somebody who has what it takes to TRULY go next level as a leader.

If anything, in this industry, investing in a high level coach such as myself, is a rite of passage which veers just a little too much on the side of ‘trend’. It’s become something which ‘everybody does’, almost as a way of proving they play business and life a certain way.

Maybe even of trying to prove it to themselves.

Here is the reality which those who I am truly here to personally mentor and lead KNOW, the reality which my clients and all women like me as well as of course me personally have ALWAYS known:

We are VERY VERY DIFFERENT.

We are simply, smarter, faster, and have more presence. We can do more in our minds before breakfast than what most people can do in a freakin’ WEEK, a month, a year.

We are not basic ass coaches trying to heave ho our way up a few extra thou a month.

We are the ones who have ALWAYS known we are 1% within the 1% within the 1% in terms of how we think, create, operate, how and WHAT we are tapped in too.

This is not arrogance, this is fact.

And there has NEVER been any question but that we will go all the way.

My clients are high level badasses who do the work, who have a proven track record BEFORE coming to me, and a BEING-ness which unquestionably separates them from the rest. They don’t come to me to save them or lean down and hold my hand out so they can clamber up. They come because they are, quite simply, ready to go to the next level, already absolutely on their WAY there, and see in me something which they recognise because it is in them.

That ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ fire, and a level of ‘unapologeticness’ which, when truly understood and applied, can literally be the difference between 5-figure or low 6-figure and 7 or multi-7-figure entrepreneur.

So if you know who you are and it is THAT –

And you feel certain that you are ALREADY well on your way to to precisely where you’re meant to be, but that being in MY energy could help you to drop in and get there even faster, and that with a couple of simple tweaks your current revenue could be doubling, tripling, heck QUADRUPLING and beyond in months, as it has done with numerous of my clients previously, well then –

PM me here http://m.me/katrinaruthofficial and we’ll see if it’s a fit. I’m excited to talk to you, and maybe – do biz and life with you.

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