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THE THING WITH BEING WHERE YOU WANT TO BE

If you’re trying to flip into superflow, desperately waiting and hoping to get to that place where things just WORK, creativity and magic are yours and the WHOLE world seems to be helping you out, the VERY first thing you need to do is be honest with yourself about what’s not working.

I don’t mean making a list of all the stuff you wish was different! Well, you can, for sure. But no, what I’m talking about is being honest around the stuff you’re PRETENDING is a fit when actually – 

REALLY – 

It’s not.

Look, I know what it’s like to not want to let go of something because of the time you’ve already invested … the effort and emotion and attachment which has built up around it … the stubborn refusal to admit that what you thought was SO aligned, and would DEFINITELY get you to where you want to go just … isn’t.

It’s easier to pretend, or at least it can seem that way on the surface of it. It’s easier to keep insisting that you ‘just have to tweak it’, ‘just give it a few more days, or weeks’, ‘it’s only not flowing because of this other thing over here, and that’s the ACTUAL problem!’

When really what’s going on is that you’re scared to let go, scared to be back in the void not having an answer or a solution even if it’s the wrong one! Scared perhaps to deal with the fallout, of walking away from something not aligned. Or just that you’re scared your INSTINCTS are wrong, and that maybe this IS the thing and the problem is just YOU!

Am I talking about business, about money, about life, who knows?! Could be relationships, love, heck, maybe it’s whether or not you should hire that mentor, book that trip, buy that car!

It’s everything.
And nothing.
It’s THE thing which has already come to mind for you.

Where you know – 

THIS
IS
NOT
HOW
IT
IS
SUPPOSED
TO
FEEL!

Wanna know how you can know for sure when something is not THE thing you’re mean to pursue? It don’t matter if it’s your offers or your lover we’re talking about here, regardless, the body response and CERTAINTY is the same!

Either you feel expanded, excited, lit up and LIGHT when you think about this thing – 

Or,

Well – 

You don’t!

And speaking of the idea that maybe your instincts are wrong and you can’t trust them … yeah … nah! That’s not a thing.

The PROBLEM is not you. The problem is also not you just didn’t fight through enough, keep pushing enough, or that some kind of external circumstance is tryna mess with you.

The thing with success is, and accessing flow no SUPERFLOW, sometimes yes it IS a matter of staying the course. Sometimes it IS just keep on keeping on, be patient, release release release, and so on! 

Of course.

But even when that’s the case, you DO KNOW.

You know.
The whole time.
What’s a hell yes.
And what you’re trying so.damn.hard to convince yourself and the world is one.

You can continue to mask over, cover up, distract, avoid, pretend – !

But you still know.

And if you would JUST rip the damn bandaid and admit this to yourself, I can promise you that even though yes you WILL end up back in the void OH so unsure perhaps, and with nothing to know or do or act on, you will FINALLY feel what you’re meant to be feeling.

Proud of yourself for backing yourself.

SURE that you’ve done what you need to do.

And CONFIDENT that because you’re now being honest with yourself and standing in INTEGRITY that ONLY good things can now flow.

It’s a horrible feeling, living day after day after day knowing you are giving your LIFE for stuff that is contracting you, dragging you down, causing you to sink and shrink energetically, physically, in all ways. It literally MAKES YOU LOOK AND FEEL OLDER, too! THAT is some scary shit!

But, it’s also all a choice.

If you continue to lie to yourself, telling yourself that just because you embarked upon a thing in your business or life that you should have to keep going with it, when deep down you damn straight KNOW that this is not what it’s meant to feel like, and you KNOW there is a different way, an expansive way, a way ON YOUR TERMS – 

Then just don’t be surprised when you continue to find day after day so relentless, so exhausting, so never-ending, all the while feeling continually alarmed at how damn fast your LIFE is going and you’re still not where you wanted to be.

The thing with being where you want to be – 

Is it’s been inside of you – 

The whole time – 

It’s there right now – 

It is FULLY available do you – 

But if you want it, then like anything you ARE gonna need to take it, and part of that?

Means drop the damn shit that’s filling the space where flow lives.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!