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I was on the stair-master this morning, glancing at my phone screen about to change my tunes, and caught myself stopping to really take in the image of my amazing man on the backdrop.

Who am I kidding, I do this basically all day. I have one of my fave ‘manly’ pics of him as the lock screen, and my fave sexy one as the backdrop. #ofcourse

As I floated away on a little bliss bubble for the gajillionth time this year, looking happily at his face, it hit me how FUNNY it is that I truly felt it was so separate to me, for so long, to be this loved and in love, in a relationship with a man who makes the concept of ‘soulmate’ seem like some kind of very drab dried up basic husk of an idea.

Our relationship is the ‘beyond what I even was capable of dreaming of’ reality my soul ALWAYS knew would arrive.

And yet, for so long – an eternity, or at least a good chunk of one – it felt far away –

not for me –


At my core, I never believed it was impossible and I always had faith.

The smallest mustard seed sized bit of it, it felt!

But deep down, yes. I believed that HE would show up. When he did, it felt like – “oh, there you are. OF COURSE. It could never have not been you. It always WAS you, and it’s always been ‘us’. We just managed to avoid each other for 40 years in the physical”. Plus, goosebumps and chills and an 8 hour vortex on a plane, and several direct spoken guidances from God.

It all just fell into place so seamlessly, as though it had never NOT been in place. Fast forward til now, and despite the fact that we’ve now spent over 230 days separated due to the fight for full communism in the US, sorry, did I say that? Due to Coronavirus … despite what EVER has been thrown at us and the world, and that we still have no idea when we’ll get to physically be together again, it ONLY gets more seamless.

More of course.

More yes.

I looked at his face on my phone this morning, and I thought – isn’t it just so funny? How we so truly let fear, uncertainty, impatience, dominate our thoughts such that we ACTUALLY CAN’T FEEL WHAT IS ALREADY OURS.

We can’t feel it –

and so we question whether it’s true –

even though that deeper lil mustard seed of faith part of us has ABSOLUTE belief and trust –

but we live on the surface, fighting to try and find what’s within, and fighting ON said surface to try and ‘get there’.

Do you do this?

With money, perhaps? With having the business you actually want? With calling in the kinds of clients you truly desire, and know you’re here for? With love?!

Trying to get there by being enough.
By doing enough.
By somehow proving ourselves.
Or, worst of all, by slowly sadly and OH so surely slipping in to the dance-bitch routine of ‘this is how I obviously have to act’.

– I obviously need to be more feminine
– I obviously need to slow down more, be still more
– I obviously need to hustle more, push more!
– I need to do proper marketing
– I need to do proper lead gen
– I need to do it like her
– I have to be better
– I need to be more organised!
– I need to be more careful with what I say, more considered!

Do you know what I hear, when I hear you say these things, and similar?

I can’t trust myself.

I can’t trust myself.

I can’t trust myself, I can’t trust LIFE, and I DO NOT DARE.

I do not dare to relax.
I do not dare to be led ONLY by inner guidance.
I thus do not dare to trust I have my foundations right, and CAN therefore trust inner guidance.
I do not trust I am taken care of.
Or perhaps even worthy to exist, let alone worthy to receive!

But darling –

what if you did?

What if you just knew –

You’re worthy to receive.
Everything you see and feel or have even a whisper of is for you.
GOD is for you.
LIFE is for you.
And you.are.taken.CARE of!

What if you just trusted –

That you can’t get it wrong.
That the moves you make are the right moves BECAUSE YOU MADE THEM.
Meaning that every move you worry back and forth about whether TO take is the right move, stop wasting time and your life, take it!

And so on.

What we’re talking about is simple:

Knowing that the things you dream of are already yours. Signed sealed and delivered. Amen!

Knowing that this does not mean you need to figure out HOW, make it WORK, push yourself TOWARDS it, worry back and forth over getting it wrong!

Knowing that what you dream of one day having, of being lucky enough to have, or good enough, or of somehow ‘tricking’ your way into, is NOT SEPARATE TO YOU.

It’s within you.
It’s within you.
It’s within you.

Specifically what is within you, which will allow the OUTCOMES you dream of to just roll on in like a sandy messy surfy friend off the beach who didn’t realise they’re 2 hours late for lunch and is all just ‘heyyyyyy’, is this –

You realising that YOU already have it within you to be the person who is ‘of course’.

Of course I make money like this.
Of course I have clients like this.
Of course they show up like this.
Of course I show up like this.
Of course he / she / they showed up like this.
Of course LIFE showed up for me like this!

Of course I am the person who has the motherfucking things, done DID the motherfucking thing, and IS the motherfucking thing.

And if you knew already that it was ‘of course’, then tell me –

pray –

what bullshit would it now be time to drop,

and what glorious unveiling of TRUE you would the world get to see?

Make no mistake gorgeous.

What is for you is already there for you.

And your expectation around that or no is literally dictating your reality.


maybe what you need right now,

is lessons repeatedly learned.


maybe you’re done with Groundhog Day-ing your way through the same mofo growth on repeat, the same mofo trust issues with God and soul and LIFE, and the same mofo lessons learned,

Thank you very much.
Your services have been SO helpful.
But no longer required!

And maybe you’re ready to just go to the place within,

where it’s already ‘of course’.

Either way –

today is a great fucking day for a lesson.

Choose yours.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.