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Success Mindset

YES. YOU’RE GOOD ENOUGH, YOUR MESSAGE MATTERS, YOU WERE BORN FOR IT, AND NOW IT’S TIME

It’s time to accept that the validation you’ve been waiting for your entire life was never needed and that you already have everything you need inside of you to show up the way you dream of.

This small-playing thing you’ve got going on? This hiding of your light? This giving of your time, your energy, YOU, your LIFE, to so many things, all the things, except for THE thing which you so desperately want to let out, be known for, get rich from, show UP with …

There’s no reason you need to continue hiding that way for even a moment longer.

The thing you have to understand, is that YOU are the only one who knows all of your fears, your resistance, your doubt, the oh so many reasons why maybe you’re not good enough, why your message p’raps doesn’t matter, why you CAN’T yet, and what will people SAY?

This might surprise you to learn, and maybe you just won’t believe me, but all of that stuff you feel each day? I feel that too. Not every day, but enough of them that if I allowed it to, the fear could ABSOLUTELY sway me. In fact, had I not shown up each time I didn’t feel good enough, or questioned whether what I was saying was REMOTELY interesting or if there was ANY fucking point to it, not only would you hear from me probably only about half as often as you currently do, but I think I wouldn’t even HAVE the business and life I do today.

Showing up even half of the time just isn’t enough to build momentum and get results.

You have to be all in, and you have to show up DAILY.

But if you think that in order to DO that, or in order to produce content and share your message and live your truth as I do, you have to somehow evolve to where you feel READY and completely fucking SURE of yourself, and not just once but every DAY, you’ve got another think coming.

I don’t feel that way every day!

Not a single successful person I know has got to where they are without learning to act DESPITE fear and resistance and the very real worry that maybe they AREN’T good enough and were NOT born for anything special.

It’s funny, because even as I type this right now, I notice that today is a day where I feel clunky. The words aren’t flowing that freely. I re-wrote the title and the intro for this several times. I nearly deleted the whole thing. I don’t know if what I’m writing is ANY good or if it will help a single person! But yet –

As I so often do –

Because I COMMITTED to –

I’m showing up anyway.

Because I’ve learned that that’s the only way.

The truth is that I might act like I don’t give a fuck and as though I’m SO certain of who I am and of my right to be here, but inside I question EVERYTHING, and sometimes I feel so insecure and self-conscious it almost tears me apart! I just don’t let that stuff get to me, and the truth is it’s never much more than a passing thought which I brush away, much like swatting a fly, because I’ve learned that if I INDULGE in these sort of fears and insecurities I’d never achieve anything!

So I act as the version of me who I WANT to be, and the version of me who I, underneath all the uncertainty and the ‘who am I to’, I actually DO feel I was meant to be.

And I remind myself, as often as needed –

My message is not supposed to be shared based on whether or not I’m getting caught up in a bullshit story of self-worth or resistance or not FEELING like it.

It’s supposed to be shared because it’s supposed to be shared, and even if THAT weren’t enough, then heck –

In order to be successful, be followed, get paid, it HAS to be shared!

So I want you to know:

If I can do this, show up like this, choose to let my dreams be bigger than my bullshit, then so can you. It’s a CHOICE. It’s NOT about being ready. It’s NOT about reaching some sort of mysteriously-determined place of worthiness. It’s NOT about ‘having something interesting to say’, it’s not about whether or not others will judge you, and it’s also not about HOW.

It’s about –

What do you want your LIFE to be about?

What do you want to CREATE?

Who do you want to BE?

A year from now, you can look back, and see that you continued to float along, progressing a little along the way as you already do, but yet remain FRUSTRATED by your lack of action and commitment to your cause.

Or you can look back and see that because you made a CHOICE, you’ve changed your entire fucking life, created a business based around what you REALLY want to do, and learned to be one of those who others look to and wonder HOW you can be so bold, so brave, so disciplined, so what EVER.

Those of us who were born for this, with a message, are all EQUALLY capable of actually getting that message out there and becoming known in a big way, impacting in a big way. Every artist, every creator, every leader, every REVOLUTIONARY who has this stuff running through them CAN DO WHAT I DO AND FAR MORE BESIDES.

The ONLY thing that will determine whether YOU become one of the so-called ‘lucky ones’ who makes it to the top is whether or not you decide to be outcome-focused, every day.

If you want to change your life, then ALL you need to do is to identify the small handful of daily tasks which you’d need to start doing today, to create whatever it is you dream of.

If it’s build an online empire, be known for what’s inside of you, make money on your terms, it’s SIMPLE:

Do your mindset work. Every day.
Share your message, from the heart and no matter what YOU think about it. Every day.
Hustle and sell. Every day.
And take care of the body, soul and spirit you have. Every day.

It’s NOT that difficult. It’s just about deciding that you want it badly enough to do it ANYWAY, despite all the reasons why you’re scared to.

Please don’t look at me and think I have something you don’t.

I just decided I wanted it badly enough.

Please know, also, that when I look at you, I see the true power of what’s inside of you and I SEE that you were born to shine.

I hope you can decide today that you want it badly enough to actually just do it. There is literally nothing else you need, to bring your every dream to life, except?

To choose.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!