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Success Mindset

YES. YOU’RE GOOD ENOUGH, YOUR MESSAGE MATTERS, YOU WERE BORN FOR IT, AND NOW IT’S TIME

It’s time to accept that the validation you’ve been waiting for your entire life was never needed and that you already have everything you need inside of you to show up the way you dream of.

This small-playing thing you’ve got going on? This hiding of your light? This giving of your time, your energy, YOU, your LIFE, to so many things, all the things, except for THE thing which you so desperately want to let out, be known for, get rich from, show UP with …

There’s no reason you need to continue hiding that way for even a moment longer.

The thing you have to understand, is that YOU are the only one who knows all of your fears, your resistance, your doubt, the oh so many reasons why maybe you’re not good enough, why your message p’raps doesn’t matter, why you CAN’T yet, and what will people SAY?

This might surprise you to learn, and maybe you just won’t believe me, but all of that stuff you feel each day? I feel that too. Not every day, but enough of them that if I allowed it to, the fear could ABSOLUTELY sway me. In fact, had I not shown up each time I didn’t feel good enough, or questioned whether what I was saying was REMOTELY interesting or if there was ANY fucking point to it, not only would you hear from me probably only about half as often as you currently do, but I think I wouldn’t even HAVE the business and life I do today.

Showing up even half of the time just isn’t enough to build momentum and get results.

You have to be all in, and you have to show up DAILY.

But if you think that in order to DO that, or in order to produce content and share your message and live your truth as I do, you have to somehow evolve to where you feel READY and completely fucking SURE of yourself, and not just once but every DAY, you’ve got another think coming.

I don’t feel that way every day!

Not a single successful person I know has got to where they are without learning to act DESPITE fear and resistance and the very real worry that maybe they AREN’T good enough and were NOT born for anything special.

It’s funny, because even as I type this right now, I notice that today is a day where I feel clunky. The words aren’t flowing that freely. I re-wrote the title and the intro for this several times. I nearly deleted the whole thing. I don’t know if what I’m writing is ANY good or if it will help a single person! But yet –

As I so often do –

Because I COMMITTED to –

I’m showing up anyway.

Because I’ve learned that that’s the only way.

The truth is that I might act like I don’t give a fuck and as though I’m SO certain of who I am and of my right to be here, but inside I question EVERYTHING, and sometimes I feel so insecure and self-conscious it almost tears me apart! I just don’t let that stuff get to me, and the truth is it’s never much more than a passing thought which I brush away, much like swatting a fly, because I’ve learned that if I INDULGE in these sort of fears and insecurities I’d never achieve anything!

So I act as the version of me who I WANT to be, and the version of me who I, underneath all the uncertainty and the ‘who am I to’, I actually DO feel I was meant to be.

And I remind myself, as often as needed –

My message is not supposed to be shared based on whether or not I’m getting caught up in a bullshit story of self-worth or resistance or not FEELING like it.

It’s supposed to be shared because it’s supposed to be shared, and even if THAT weren’t enough, then heck –

In order to be successful, be followed, get paid, it HAS to be shared!

So I want you to know:

If I can do this, show up like this, choose to let my dreams be bigger than my bullshit, then so can you. It’s a CHOICE. It’s NOT about being ready. It’s NOT about reaching some sort of mysteriously-determined place of worthiness. It’s NOT about ‘having something interesting to say’, it’s not about whether or not others will judge you, and it’s also not about HOW.

It’s about –

What do you want your LIFE to be about?

What do you want to CREATE?

Who do you want to BE?

A year from now, you can look back, and see that you continued to float along, progressing a little along the way as you already do, but yet remain FRUSTRATED by your lack of action and commitment to your cause.

Or you can look back and see that because you made a CHOICE, you’ve changed your entire fucking life, created a business based around what you REALLY want to do, and learned to be one of those who others look to and wonder HOW you can be so bold, so brave, so disciplined, so what EVER.

Those of us who were born for this, with a message, are all EQUALLY capable of actually getting that message out there and becoming known in a big way, impacting in a big way. Every artist, every creator, every leader, every REVOLUTIONARY who has this stuff running through them CAN DO WHAT I DO AND FAR MORE BESIDES.

The ONLY thing that will determine whether YOU become one of the so-called ‘lucky ones’ who makes it to the top is whether or not you decide to be outcome-focused, every day.

If you want to change your life, then ALL you need to do is to identify the small handful of daily tasks which you’d need to start doing today, to create whatever it is you dream of.

If it’s build an online empire, be known for what’s inside of you, make money on your terms, it’s SIMPLE:

Do your mindset work. Every day.
Share your message, from the heart and no matter what YOU think about it. Every day.
Hustle and sell. Every day.
And take care of the body, soul and spirit you have. Every day.

It’s NOT that difficult. It’s just about deciding that you want it badly enough to do it ANYWAY, despite all the reasons why you’re scared to.

Please don’t look at me and think I have something you don’t.

I just decided I wanted it badly enough.

Please know, also, that when I look at you, I see the true power of what’s inside of you and I SEE that you were born to shine.

I hope you can decide today that you want it badly enough to actually just do it. There is literally nothing else you need, to bring your every dream to life, except?

To choose.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/