IF YOU WANT TO FIND YOUR PATH? YOU’RE GOING TO HAVE TO GET ON YOUR PATH
The only way you’re going to possibly figure out what it is you’re meant to be doing –
What your truest and deepest message is –
What your next level fuck yes offers are –
And exactly how your business and life will look when you’ve finally connected to that piece you’ve not quite yet been able to figure out yet which is missing –
Is by jumping headfirst onto the path you’re trying to first find.
It might seem as though it makes sense to brainstorm and vision and plan, so that you can feel clear, certain, and ready, but the reality is the only way to find your path? Is to be on the damn path. Literally creating each next step right in front of you as you take the one that went directly before it!
Can I tell you something which you may not have realised about those who you look to, perhaps including me, as ‘having their shit sorted’?
This NEVER stops being true.
No matter how far along you are and how much experience and success you’ve already got under your belt, we are ALL still trying to clearly see what that next step is.
Until our heart stops beating we never stop knowing there’s a next level to go to, and wondering exactly what it is we’re not seeing that is gonna get us there!
Sure, at a certain point message clarity does really drop in, but even then, there’s always more, there’s always deeper, there’s always that next breakthrough and WOAH around what you didn’t notice until you noticed it.
You’ll get there when you’re willing to show up every day even when you’re NOT there.
On the other hand, you literally will NEVER get there if you’re not willing to dive headfirst into the resistance, the stickiness, the awkwardness, the YUCK and I CAN’T and ‘who am I’ that comes along before that.
If you want to be clear on who you are, what you stand for, and why people should listen to you and buy from you as a leader, you need to be willing to get down and dirty and in the thick of it during the parts of your OWN journey where you feel you’ve NO idea what the fuck you’re doing or where you’re going.
I mean really – if you don’t do that then how the heck are you meant to relate to your people when they’re on their journey?! But that aside –
It’s just how it’s done.
It’s just how it WORKS.
And it’s the only way.
You find your way by being on the way. Exploring. Adjusting. Being willing to bare your soul and to create or launch something even when it feels clumsy … and you’re not sure … and the resistance is so strong, it’s got you by the throat, and you ALMOST believe your own bullshit that you need to wait until you feel certain, a certain soul fuck yes.
Imagine if everybody who wanted to develop a fitness habit waited until their ass felt soul led to get off the couch and go into a new and likely intimidating environment at the gym, where they had no idea what they were doing and it was WAY outta their comfort zone. No! You have to act FROM where you want to be.
You don’t freakin’ wait till you’re certain of the exact specifics of the next level leader you and everything she says and does, you show up NOW –
With who you are NOW –
And with what is available to you –
you guessed it –
now!
You set and trust in the intention that it WILL CLICK IN.
Just like with fitness.
Just like with ANYTHING which we commit to and then EMBARK upon without knowing what TF we’re doing and feeling pretty resistant to even starting.
Don’t you see? You have to be bigger than your own resistance or you’ll NEVER find your way. You have to see beyond it. You have to go into the place where it’s done and you ARE that person, and you have to look back from that place and ask –
“What would have got me here?”
And NO girl, the answer is not “oh, I got here because I waited till I was certain and till I had no resistance and until I knew exactly what to do and exactly how to do it”.
No 🙂
It’s going to be because you dove in.
Messy.
Chaotic.
Flying blind!
Learning not just about your soul aligned BUSINESS on the fly but learning about who YOU are on the fly!
There’s no other way.
And no matter which part of the journey you’re at right now, you could be just starting out or, like me, perhaps your business is already turning over millions each year and others look at you as an example of someone who has figured it all out and knows their shit, either way you STILL WON’T KNOW YOUR NEXT LEVEL TILL YOU GET THERE.
You may have an idea, a vision, an indication, and that’s great. I certainly recommend you keep tuning in and asking what it would look like and what action you feel guided to take right now. But DON’T FUCKING BELIEVE YOUR OWN NONSENSE if you keep on coming back with an idea that you’re not yet sure what action to take and so you gotta dig in more.
At a certain point it’s time to put down the damn journal!
And know that there is ALWAYS action to take.
YOU just need to let go of the idea that said action should present itself in neat and organised format and in such a way where every part of you already feels willing and ready.
It’s about living IN to who you’re meant to be, and want to be, in order to become that.
So –
Whaddya know you need to do then?
What is it time to just COMMIT to?
Where are you going to decide to SHOW UP FROM THE MESSY?
And where do you need to just START, and trust that the flow and the certainty will click in along the way?
This is not a dress rehearsal gorgeous.
If you don’t start now, when will you?
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