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Success Mindset

I JUST WANNA REMIND YOU, YOUR SOUL ALREADY REMEMBERS WHAT TO DO

I just wanna remind you, that whatever problem it is you’re trying to figure out, you think you don’t know, you have no clue, it’s scary, and HOW –

Your soul already remembers.

It’s been in you the whole time.

You were literally BORN with it already deeply imprinted and waiting, for this moment.

I just wanna tell you, that when they tell you –

How to play life
How to play business
How to play money
How to play love

“Here is how we DO!”, they say, and “here is how you MUST”, and “this is how it IS” –

And you feel –

Your heart sinking …

Your soul shrinking …

Your shoulders slump a little, because it feels so HEAVY, and do I really HAVE to?

– that actually, no

You do not fucking have to
Do anything

I was thinking of a problem just now …

(although, of course, nothing is ever a problem, and I remember THAT…!)

I audio’d and asked somebody for help …

I don’t know what to do, I feel stuck, I feel a little scared, I feel confronted, and I also feel PISSED, to be perfectly honest.

I’ve actually been allowing this thing to hang over me for some months now, is the truth of the matter! Which is kinda embarrassing to say, since I am ALL about that ‘take aligned action RIGHT AFUCKINGWAY, no matter how uncomfortable’.

In this particular conversation, even as I write this, I still feel like BUT I DON’T KNOW!

I don’t know!

One day my soul says this, another day it says that!

And so I remain, going around and around in circles, stuck and unsure, QUESTIONING my own judgement or ability to tune in.

But here is what I know for sure about THAT –

You always know
You always know
You always know

Your soul REMEMBERS, and you always know

I KNOW fully that I DO KNOW THE ANSWER for this uncomfortable situation I’ve chosen in to my life, chosen, always, of course, to grow.

Of course I know.

That’s how it IS, and how it’s always BEEN, in all things.

So, why do I feel that I don’t know?

Ego
Self-doubt
Pride
Fear of judgement, fear of other people’s perception of me
Fear of not being good enough
Underlying belief that maybe I’m NOT good enough
And definitely, a need to prove myself (ergo, ego)

These things and no doubt other fabulous emotional and energetic things, all mixed together in some kind of Thermomix blender within my soul –

And I feel it churn and churn and churn, and the uncertainty or mild irritation or annoyance or fear rises in my throat, and so what I HAVE been doing, is pushing it aside –

Easier to not think about, then deal with

Here’s something I’ve learned, about not dealing with yo SHIT:

The same God damn lesson will just keep on circling back around to bite you in the ass!

“Saying, hey – hey again! Good to see ya! Sooooo … y’know that lesson you refused to learn last time, you know about the thing? And the woman? Who did the thing? And how you then avoided it and flaked out and didn’t wanna listen and so you didn’t DO any fucking thing?? Yeah … that. Just gon’ serve it on back to you baby!”

I always laugh a little bit, I guess in a slightly sad but also compassionate of myself way, when people ask why I didn’t leave such a deeply unhappy marriage sooner, especially given I was repeating the pattern of my marriage before that, anyhow –

People wonder why I would have STAYED.

And I say to them, with a smile and a shrug –

“Well. I guess I just really needed to learn that lesson!

And eventually, I learned”

And so it is fucking DONE, the cycle broken, and I have NEVER been more sure of anything … except for everything else I am always so damn sure of 🙂

And now I know, that in love I ONLY get to have expansion, deep soul connection, that a relationship only ADDS value, and joy, and love, and flow, to WHAT I ALREADY FINALLY FOUND AND GRANTED MYSELF IN SIDE OF ME.

I grounded myself in me –
And from there I can choose ANYTHING

In THIS situation, a business thing of sorts, let’s say, I am being that confused ‘I don’t know’ version of myself.

Just like in my marriage for years I acted like I wasn’t sure … even though this, and that, maybe I should, well –

The details don’t matter.

And the thing is, I felt that way.

I don’t look back and say I should have forced action sooner.

But, I do know I spent a lot of time making choices, and continuing to create my God damn LIFE, from fear.

James Altucher taught me that everything, every action, comes from either fear or love.

It was one of the most transformative pieces of his I ever read.

I like to think of it as every decision or action comes from either fear or love / alignment.

I do like that word 🙂

The truth is, so many of the decisions I made, the DAILY ‘pretend I’m not making a decision, I’m just letting time pass’ decision I made to STAY in my marriage, was from fear.

Of so many things.

But mostly, I would say, the fear that I COULDN’T TRUST IN ME.

In this situation, I am saying I’m scared to not trust in me. My submission to the fear is allowing me to easily FEEL, that I don’t actually KNOW, and therefore I can NOT, take action.

You know?

And, I still want and desire and get to choose to lean on somebody else, on someone I trust, and hear their perspective.

These things help … and of course you ONLY take or invite advice from people you have consciously chosen because the way they do LIFE, aligns with your values and beliefs … just on a side note.

So, basically, you’re asking someone who you know can help you access your own soul, because they came from the same soul place; so THEIR soul knows.

And THOSE ARE THE ONLY PEOPLE TO ASK THINGS OF.

But,

I also know that I do know.
That somewhere in there the answer is already CERTAIN.

I know my soul REMEMBERS, because everything was already written and all available choices have already been mapped out, and ALL we need to do ever, is tune in to our soul, and ask –

What would you have me do?
What do you desire?
What do you require, no matter how uncomfortable or scary; no, not just when soul desire is fun or easy!!

Here’s the thing though –

To know, for when you do this –

And for me to remind myself of write now in my tuning in process ON this –

It’s okay to still feel you don’t know
It’s okay to be unsure
It’s okay to sit with something

What’s NOT okay (for me … what I have chosen for me … you get to of course choose for YOU …) is to NOT FUCKING ASK.

Every day, I tune in daily to my soul.

My closest friends see the change in me becoming deeper and deeper with every month that passes.

They see how I now live SO deeply from inner guidance, how I never question or doubt myself, and I always just KNOW, who I am, what to do, and I find the ‘how’ through the flow.

This is how it is …

Yes, sure, of course, things might come up from time to time which throw me.

I might allow myself to not know how to act.

But, I know fully and with zero doubt, that at the perfect time I will allow the truth to bubble up, and I will take IMMEDIATE action, no matter how uncomfortable or scary.

It’s what we DO, we who play life this way.

But in the meantime?

To live like this?

To know the answer to everything?

To know ALWAYS, how to make money, how to sign up perfect soulmate clients, how to stay in EFFORTLESS shape, with ease, how to know ALL the things about ALL the things?

All you gotta do is take just a lil bit of time each day, and ask –

What does my soul have to say right now?

That’s all.

And then you leap.

And then you wake up and you have a fucking empire, the body and life and love of your dreams, and, well –

All the things.

It’s REALLY fucking easy.

Just tune in.
Listen.
Take aligned action as best as you can.
Repeat.

I’m just gonna keep on asking –
And soon enough I’m gonna remember what I always KNEW

I guess all I have to ask you is, well –

Do you trust enough, to live this way?

And if yes –

What would be true right now?

That’s all.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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