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Success Mindset

THIS IS WHAT’S MISSING, AND WHY YOU CAN’T RELAX INTO SUPERFLOW

I know you’re working so damn hard, and you wonder what you’re doing wrong, what’s missing, why you’re not there yet and why it’s not WORKING exactly as you thought it should be by now, and also –

Why you have that slight constant feeling of unease, you can’t seem to quite settle, relax, you’re restless, something …

Something.

Something you can’t quite put your finger on.

Something you’re not sure of.

Something which, you’re quite certain, if you could JUST figure out, you’d, well –

You’d be able to fucking relax, enjoy your life, and be in SUPERFLOW baby, yeah!

Well, good news:

I have the answer for ya! I know EVERYTHING, actually, about EVERYTHING, as well as NOTHING about ANYTHING, but mostly I know EVERYTHING, so I can definitely tell you what’s missing!

Wanna know a secret? So do you. But more on that in a moment 

First off, let’s just take a moment to honour the fact that you are INDEED doing the work.

I KNOW you’re doing the work … ALL the damn work, and then some girl.

I see you showing up.

I see you messaging your heart out.

I see your HUSTLE.

I see your blood.

I see your sweat.

I see your tears, and I am right there WITH you; the me of only a few short years back on my journey feels your pain and frustration and WHY am I not breaking THROUGH.

So, real quick now, I just wanna tell you:

IT’S GOING TO HAPPEN.

It WILL pay off.

It is ALL fucking worth it.

ALL you need to know?

1) Do you believe you WILL make it and it’s DONE; big picture – do you have faith in that, at your core?

(The answer, of course, is YES, or else you wouldn’t be here)

2) Can you show up and press play for your life TODAY?

(The answer, always, is YES)

So! That’s all you need to know, and do.

JUST SHOW UP FOR TODAY. Not even that, actually! Just show up for this MOMENT.

Man, those years felt endless for me. It was SO painstaking, and relentless. But somehow, I just kept on pressing on. I stayed the course. I KNEW I would get to where I was making millions of dollars each year ON MY TERMS and impacting in the way. I was BORN to, living and creating and doing biz AND me from pure flow.

I knew that all I had to do was just.keep.going, and that success was inevitable!

And?

I was right.

But here is what a BIG part of it was.

There were so many parts of it!

Freaking focus, and discipline, and relentless manifestation, and doing the WORK, and detachment and surrender, oh God, the surrender!

All of this daily! Just to name a few things 

But the biggest missing link …

The greatest one of all …

The thing I just SO wish I had have somehow been able to ‘get’ earlier …

It’s one of those things which may kinda sorta ANNOY you, when I tell you …

Don’t say I didn’t warn ya!

Here it is:

be
there
now

The WHOLE fucking answer to getting EVERYTHING you want, ALL of it, is to

be
there
now

Want to be hot as fuck in your physical self, to love your body, be able to eat how you want in a way that FEELS good, workout just based on what also feels good, have never a ‘should’ or a ‘have to’ again?

Then figure the fuck out what THAT version of you would have going on right now already.

How would she think?
How would she feel?
How would she eat?
How WOULD she workout?
What sort of emotions and energies would she be bouncing around town with?
What else would she do, not do, lean into, or let go of?

The version of ME who is hot as fuck and owning that shit, being it with EASE and flow and ONLY high vibes, and also feels fucking amazing inside and out?

She listens to her body on what to eat. She trusts in herself to know what is the right move to make, literally, in the gym, or out, or just in life. She feels GOOD about herself. She is happy! She is bouncy! She loves and accepts herself regardless of whether the pounds are up, or down. She knows she can just DECIDE her physical outcomes, and it’s done, but it sure as all get out doesn’t have anything to do with her self WORTH.

When I decided to just BE THERE NOW, and be that version of me, I let go of decades of body shame, and a prison I’d created for myself.

I became the me who I was longing TO be, and then I practiced fucking being her until it took.

When it took on the inside, when the practice became automatic, and I didn’t have to think about it, it BECAME TRUE IN THE SO-CALLED REAL WORLD TOO.

Of course the REAL real world is the one you see and design inside of you, which is kinda my point here yeah?

For so long, with MONEY, I was so desperate and sad and confused and frustrated and ashamed and ANGRY, that I just couldn’t seem to get there.

I fought so hard!
I did the WORK!
I was RELENTLESS with my hustle!

IT
WASN’T
FAIR!

I just couldn’t seem to crack it …

I asked ALL the questions …

But no matter how hard I tried, and REALLY I fucking tried, I was SO freaking scared. I lived in terror, of being somehow ‘found out’, found to be not good enough, not worthy. I lived in terror of people not LIKING me, or judging me. I lived in terror of one day really REALLY falling, to where I actually DID bottom out and not manage to pay stuff, rather than just the constant exhausting juggle and always being late.

And most of all I lived in terror of the idea that maybe I WASN’T born for it after all, maybe I would never be one of the ones flying high, and with ease.

One day … one day, I thought, I will be there.

IMAGINE HOW FREE I WILL FEEL, AND BE!

I’ll dance through the meadow like Julie Fucking Andrews!

I’ll get to just write and create and speak more, just what I WANT!

And no fucking way will I do a single ‘nother sales call | webinar | hour long client call | painstakingly put together NOT hell yeah for ME offer or teaser or optin ETCETERA

But for now … WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GET THE DOLLARS IN THIS MONTH?!

It’s funny to think about now, isn’t it? I think that even if you’re still caught up in the cycle I just spoke of, it looks FUNNY. It is GLARINGLY idiotic.

Of course the only way I could GET there, get HERE, was the same way you get to ANYTHING –

Soulmate clients rollin’ on in
Money with ease and from flow
Booty and abs on point
Fuck yes LOVE and romance
Life of fun and adventure and more
ALL
THE 
THINGS

– you get there by being there.

PERIOD, THE END.

You figure the fuck OUT

The emotions
The energy of it
The beliefs you’d be embodying
The thoughts and feelings you’d be having on a day to day basis
The viBRATION of it baby!
And of course, you do the aligned ACTIONS you know you’d be doin’ if you were there.

NOTHING MORE AND NOTHING LESS.

ALLLLLLLLLLLL of ALLLLLLLLLLL of it!

And then?

What’s missing still?

What ELSE d’ya need to do, or worry about?

Freaking NOTHING, but that’s a choice.

What we’re TALKIKNG about is of course FAITH.

The entire converSATION is simply about faith.

If faith were ruling me –

Versus fear –

WHO WOULD I BE TODAY?

Be that person now.

The INNER bit.

And watch the world bow down before you.

If you think that you can’t …

Or it’s taking too long …

You don’t want to have only the INNER shit going on for as long as is required until the outer bit shows up –

Then you’ll never get there.

But also –

If you think you need the outer bit at all, in order to have ALL you desire –

You don’t understand what ‘there’ actually is –

Nor that the ONLY possible way for the physical to show up is for the internal / invisible to be done

And perhaps that’s the thing that’s missing this whole time

You’re looking at the wrong fucking there

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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