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Success Mindset


The hardest practice of all is surrender.

The most powerful practice of all is surrender.

The practice which will most allow every level you thought you had to traverse through to just drop away, and you to just drop in to what always was?

Is surrender.

The question is not ever whether or not it is useful for you to surrender. Of course it’s useful for you to surrender, you already know this. It would change your LIFE if you could only learn to surrender, you know this too! You, who holds on so tightly, fists clenched and white from grip grip gripping on to the chains of fear.

What you don’t realise is that the more you hold on, and refuse to let go?

The more the chains themselves start to wrap and twist around your wrists, invisible to the eye but oh so treacherous to the heart, and eventually snake themselves all up and around and through you, until it is no longer you holding on but instead you having ALLOWED yourself to be held –

Imprisoned –

And robbed, is what we’re really talking about, of the life you were brought here to give.

I said give.
not live.
Is it not the same thing?)

Of course the beautiful thing is, at any moment in time, no matter how tightly bound and wound you are, how much of your heart you have closed off, and for how long you’ve allowed fear to take the wheel, you can JUST LET GO, AND YOU CAN DO IT NOW.

In one fell swoop (and please, for the love of God, can people stop writing ‘one foul swoop’ on the Internet, or any other place, was it disgusting?! Also it’s divine, not devine. Okay? Okay.) –

In one fell swoop, you can just decide to HAND IT ALL OVER.

Maybe you, like me, have had a habit in the past of waiting until the shit not only hits the fan but is well and truly sprayed all over the damn place AND rubbed in before you’re finally humbled or broken enough to surrender.

You wanna live in ego, in refusal to say yes to soul?

Life is gonna humble you baby.

You are WELCOME.

And you BETTER be damn grateful for it! You will ALWAYS be grateful for it in the end, because if this is the way you play then eventually you’re going to realise you needed to be broken in order to be set free.



You do not HAVE to be broken down, and apart, and completely on the down and out, feeling as though you’ve been pummelled from every different possible angle and then chucked in the washing machine too, in order to surrender!

You can just CHOOSE, at any moment in time, to do that.

“Oh, but Kat! WHY WOULD I SURRENDER? I am a master creator, I create my reality, I make stuff happen, I am in the drivers seat, I am gonna CONTROL this bitch, I’m not taking my eye off the ball for a MINUTE and I will dictate ALL of it! Why would I SURRENDER?!”


I don’t know.

Why would you?

Because you recognise there is more available to you than the rewards of the effort and exertion paradigm?

Because your eyes have finally opened to the fact that operating only from your physical abilities and only on your own steam is just as ridiculous as if you refused to use your arms and legs, saying you didn’t need help or support or to trust in their ability to get you places?

^^^ refusing to lean on God, on soul, on the supernatural, and on the INFINITE IMMEASURABLE AND UNLIMITED POWER WHICH IS AVAILABLE TO YOU WHEN YOU RELINQUISH THE ONLY-PHYSICAL, is the same as refusing to use your limbs, your eyes, your teeth.

You were given these gifts.
You were given these powers.
It is a part of the very fabric of being human!
You wanna CREATE? You create by allowing through beyond you!

You are not just flesh and bones and the sum of what you do with those things!

Nor even the sum of what you do with your own mind.

You are a part of the great collective! You are a part of the fabric of the very COSMOS! You are a physical manifestation of GOD HIMSELF, the Body of Christ brought to earth is US!


if you want to choose into that.

And no matter what, as a HUMAN, you are SUPPOSED to be operating beyond just the physical.

There is so much available to you. Creatively. ‘Magically’. Spiritually, Energetically. Downloads. Knowledge. Wisdom from the ages which have not yet even been LIVED. Truth. Mad mad mad TRUTH.

And it’s all right there to allow through and FROM you, to allow you to express all of you, gift all of you, live all of you, and also receive all that always was THERE for you, if – !

You open yourself up to that.

Oh, but no, no Kat! I don’t really feel like SURRENDERING, opening up, allowing, or letting go! Imma just be over here holding on ever so tightly to my miserly little bits and pieces and ideas, CLOSING MYSELF OFF SO THAT NONE OF THAT SUPERNATURAL SHIT CAN GET IN.

That’s what you do,

when you refuse to surrender.

You close off the channels of receiving, of abundance, of POWER, of allowing.

You think you have more power when you hold on to it, and try to coerce it? HAHAHAHAHAHA. Your natural but let’s say it as it is largely DORMANT power is expanded beyond measure when life is breathed in and through it. How is life breathed in?

By opening yourself the fuck up for it to be allowed in!

In other words:

Let go.
Let go.
Let go.

Trust in the great unknown.
Trust in the intangible.
Trust in what you can’t see or prove except for in the only place it matters, your soul.

And trust that when you put first things first, everything else will flow from there.

What are first things then?

Don’t play games with me child, you already know the answer to this.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.