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Live Your Passion

I JUST WANT TO WAKE UP EVERY DAY AND DO WHAT I WANT AND BE ME!” – MANIFESTING YOUR PERFECT LIFE, NOW

Don’t you just love those #holyshit moments when you remember JUST how powerful you are?!

I don’t know how I forgot this or just didn’t think of it for so long, but this morning I had one of those ‘fuck me’ flashback moments which I really knew I have to share.

It’s probably as yesterday in client conversations I found myself repeatedly instructing people to take the time to write out their vision for their perfect / ideal day, and get clear on what they’d be doing NOW if already there.

Such a simple exercise, and yet hands down one of THE most powerful I’ve ever done.

Actually, now I think about it – I DO know why I forgot or put this aside. 5 or 6 years ago, I was continually asking people to write out their Perfect Day in my courses; it was one of my standard exercises we’d do, and I think I started to feel a little ashamed of it. lol! I felt embarrassed or something like, ‘oh, that’s so obvious – everybody knows / does that already!’. I felt like I wasn’t being fancy enough … or that I was just harping on and on about the same thing, and so I guess for that reason it gradually faded out of my inner work lexicon, so to speak.

But this morning I was cruising along down the highway in my dream car (black Merc C63s), on my way to the gym and thinking about my day ahead.

I have one client call, one booked livestream Q&A for one of my groups, a booked personal appointment, and, well, that’s it.

Oodles and oodles of SPACE all around … space in which, being that this is a day pretty much same as my EVERY day, what I know I will DO is, well, exactly whatever the fuck I want aka just be me. No doubt write (obvs; doing it now haha), livestream / speak in some way, talk to loads of badasses like my clients and friends, promote my latest offer #UnapologeticallyYou, probably have a massage or do something else for body connection, and just basically see where the day takes me.

Not exactly remarkable, that IS essentially how every day looks for me, and why would I NOT just do whatever I want? I created my life to be exactly like this, so I could!

The other day I saw somebody post on Facebook a question like “if you had a day to just do whatever you want, what would you do?”

I found it FLAT OUT BIZARRE that somebody would ask this. What TF did they mean, and WHO LET SUCH A PERSON ONTO MY FEED?! lol. But really … my immediate reaction, and what I nearly commented and said, but then couldn’t be bothered, was THAT’S EVERYDAY.

What ELSE would I do except for whatever the fuck I want?! After all … I DO trust myself to make good use of my time. I don’t REQUIRE rules or processes in order to know I’m being a useful and most of all PURPOSEFUL person, who is moving forward in every area of her life.

I have no rules.
I have no system of working my way through a list each day.
And I NEVER do shit because I think (or somebody said) I should. 
EVERY moment of my day is a product of ‘what do I feel like doing in this moment’. Note that this is not ‘what does my tired / reactive / emotionally driven self feel like doing’, if that’s the state I’m in … it’s about what does the SOUL me, or my higher self feel like doing.

Sometimes she feels like hustlin’ all day.

A lot of the time she likes to enjoy a lot of space and ‘nothingness’, or play and fun time, also a lot of body / fitness time.

And every day, without exception, she definitely desires to UNLEASH her message and art, and also, of course, engage in the art of selling.

This chick just KNOWS what to do to get results, and when she’s left alone and TRUSTED she does it. WITH flow and ease baby, what else would you think?!

So yeah … I guess something to understand is that if you’re gonna walk around giving yourself permission to do what you WANT each day, and have no rules or list, then you’ll need a high amount of self TRUST.

High?

No, absolute – there are no ‘levels’ of trust, you either do or you don’t.

And I TRUST myself to make the right choices and to always get what needs to be, done.

Do you?

Just something to think about … and perhaps start imagining, a time when every day you just get to wake up, do whatever you want, and be you!

Here’s where it all started though, for me, and what came back to me this morning –

I used to write down, at LEAST once a week and in FULL, my vision for my ‘Perfect Life’. I would write my perfect life and also my perfect day.

It’s quite a popular manifestation exercise, I certainly didn’t invent it, and perhaps you’ve heard of it or done it.

But – recently? And – often? ‘Cause I gotta tell you, I got shivers this morning as I suddenly remembered that I used to write out WORD FOR WORD the life I’m living now.

How did I forget this, or not think of it for so long?!

I’m so USED to ‘this is just how my life is’, that when I see somebody on Facebook implying that doing what you WANT all day would be a special event, I actually feel confused by it. In whose world? And why? I mean, good Lord, why would you do such a thing to yourself?!

But – I used to!!

I used to have SO many rules for how I thought business and life had to be. And being the good student I always WAS, I tried DAMN hard to follow ’em, and I nearly worked myself to the bone. While somehow also simultaneously managing to procrastinate on and avoid most of it. Haha. I was busy being busy and busy TRYING to be someone who did the things, and I would dive in and out of them, but actually, mostly what I was busy with was draining my own energy and resources in a desperate and futile effort to be the person I thought I HAD to be.

Perhaps you can relate? 

In between all of THAT though, I was dreaming. A lot. And journaling. Always! And writing, most certainly, although not publishing a lot of it.

I can remember writing over and over again, when I’d write out my perfect life and day, things like the following –

‘I live right on the beach in a bright, light, white space, with floor to ceiling windows and full ocean views.

I have a black Mercedes convertible …

All I do each day is wake up, be me, do whatever I feel like and want, which is some mixture of writing, speaking, creating cool stuff, and speaking with badasses all over the world.

I am famous online.

I am an author and speaker.

What I do is inspire, motivate, educate and empower others to live according to their values and ‘press play”.

How could I forget all this? This is literally my LIFE right now! I might have forgotten in my conscious mind about writing it all down, over and OVER, but the blueprint was written INTO me, and now look –

It’s come out. AS IT ALWAYS DOES AND ALWAYS MUST.

I would get hella specific as well.

I remember writing about how in my perfect life I’d wake up each day naturally, feeling amazing and energised for the day ahead, look out over the ocean … go to one of my favourite cafes … have amazing coffee and then journal and then write something that lit me up … be in incredible shape no matter my age … etc etc.

THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT IS TRUE EACH DAY.

Every bit of it!

I also wrote a lot about traveling continually, and about having favourite writing and work out places all over the world.

Guess what? I have about 10-12 gym and yoga memberships I pay, all around the world, and I have NUMEROUS cities in which I have ‘my’ cafe and writing place.

I’ve been so busy LIVING my perfect life that I haven’t thought about how I’m ONLY living what I wrote down and SAID I would!!

It’s pretty freaking cool. And it’s also HUMBLING, don’t you think? Our minds are SO powerful. I think I sometimes get scared almost, at just how powerful, like – am I allowed to do this? Am I supposed to have this much magic in me? Was this authorised? This is crazy, I can literally do ANYTHING WITH THIS SHIT! Mu-haha.

And, it’s true for you as well.

Do you REALISE how powerful you are? Do you realise how much magic you have in you? Do you know that you can LITERALLY DO ANYTHING?!

Life is a DIRECT reflection of what we envisage it being, that’s just how it IS.

And you’re either creating it deliberately, and consciously, through visualising, journaling, meditation. ‘tuning in’ and seeing and also OWNING what’s inside of you, even when it feels like it would be ‘too good to be true’, or too good for YOU … taking the time to see and perhaps even write OUT your perfect life and day and ‘call it in’ … or, well –

You’re not.

If you’re NOT, then likely what your life and also your SELF is a product of, is EVERY OTHER FUCKERS thoughts and ideals and rules. Eek! Now THAT is some scary shit!!

So.

Here’s what I want you to do –

Firstly, GET A FUCKING GRIP. Running around DOING shit you think you have to do so that one day you can live the life you want will NEVER.PAY.OFF. You have to throw the BRAKES on, acknowledge you’re creating the wrong damn LIFE, and pause and take stock.

Next – take the damn time to write out and SEE the vision. What do you want? Every bit of it! Don’t get caught up in a bullshit lie that it’s too much, and so it’s safer not to ask! No matter how unrealistic or out there it seems, I PROMISE you, if you write out and CLAIM the life you want, and just release the fear and ‘what if’, and keep ON claiming it, it will come true.

Finally – aligned motherfucking action, baby. Your only JOB each day, to bring all of this TO life, is to tune in and ask ‘what would I be doing in this moment right here’, if it all already WERE true.

And then?

You do that.

And THEN?

One day, years later, maybe you’ll be cruisin’ down the highway, top down in your dream car, singing along somewhat embarassingly to Bye Bye Bye, and suddenly a shiver will run down your spine –

Fuck me.

I did it.

I forgot that I even ASKED for it so specifically, but yet here I am, completely at EASE and taking for granted (with gratitude!) the DREAM life I once thought was ‘too much’ or just unrealistic to ask for.

There IS no limit.

What you see inside of you is ALWAYS real.

Only thing you gotta do?

Freakin’ claim it girl.

That’s all ..

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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