PRE-APPROVED TO BE FULLY FUCKING YOU
You know you must be all of you in order for it to work, and yet for reasons you and I both may possibly never understand, you continue to shirk that job.
The job of being fully YOU is the greatest one you’ll ever say yes to, it was designed for you and you alone, there is quite literally nobody else on the face of the planet who can take this job, and yet it DOES still require you to say yes.
If you think about it, the areas in your life where you truly have ease, flow, joy, peace, and allllll the fuck yes vibes, are the ones where you have at some point said YES. And what this yes is about really?
It’s a yes to SOUL. A yes to you already being ENOUGH. A yes to the fact that in this area at least? You can trust yourself. Back yourself. Only BE yourself. And fully,
let go.
Maybe it’s how you parent, maybe it’s your health and fitness, maybe it’s your relationship, maybe it’s how you dress, or style your home, maybe it IS how you do business, money, and the unleashing of your message, into the world.
For a lot of the women (and men!) who I work with, they are already the ‘unapologetic this is just who I am’ person in one or more areas of their life.
They rock out the unusual yet hot as fuck magnetic style …
They make no apologies for the out of the norm way they parent …
They OWN and fully trust in their own knowledge and intuition in how they connect or commune with God …
They typically FULLY relax into their genius and magic when it comes to their private client work, or any area of their business where they for whatever reason feel pre-approved to be fully them, or, perhaps, feel as though they have earned the right to be fully them, that they’re now ‘allowed’ to be.
But as far as the overall business and how money is made and flows thing? As far as the whole day in and day out showing up thing? As far as the who do I need to be in order for it to seamlessly go to the next level thing?
Usually they haven’t quite nailed that. Usually, if they’re honest, they are BORED TO FUCKING TEARS WITH WHO THEY’RE BEING. Usually, if they’re honest, even though they somehow can’t seem to escape the cycle of ‘should’ and ‘have to’ and ‘better do’ in their day to day messaging and marketing, deep down they KNOW –
I WAS PRE APPROVED IN ALL AREAS TO BE FULLY FUCKING ME. And if I want this shit to work?
I BEST BE GETTING ON WITH IT!
The Unapologetic Too Much Bitch is my newest course, I’m running it entirely live, it runs for 18 days starting Friday this week, it’s an OG Kat low-cost course, and the real reason I created it?
Is that the BEST of the best women I work with, the ones who are the ones everyone ELSE looks at in awe of, STILL have areas of business and life where the gloves really need to come off. EVERY woman I work with still has this. It’s a big part of why they come to me. And babe, this is what I want to say to you today –
THE GLOVES REALLY DO NEED TO COME OFF. You KNOW this!
This is not just about being spiky, and fierce, and badass, and cool. I nearly titled this course ‘The Unapologetic Too Much Woman’, because I got squirmy about ‘Too Much Bitch’.
“Maybe people won’t like that, it’s not professional enough. Maybe it’s TOO MUCH!”
^ literally my mind thought this, before I caught myself, and laughed. Yes, even me! Yes, even after SO many years now mentoring and coaching the worlds most REVOLUTIONARY women.
It still gets me.
And how it impacts me, when I’m not in MY truth, MY fierce ass ‘Kat’ vibe, MY owning of how I really wanna do things, my ADMITTANCE of where I’m shirking my responsibilities in the job of being me, my ENERGY and focus for my business, because fuck – ! There’s not much that’s more exhausting than not being you!
How it really GETS me?
It slows down my thinking. It makes me less sharp. I feel a bit foggy and drained. I’m grumpy. I struggle to make definite decisions. Things take longer. I notice INSTANTLY that my ‘magnetism’, which is quite important as a does-want-to-be-active-in-her-brand online leader fades out. I find myself spending inordinate amounts of time fussing and fucking around with things that don’t really matter, or things which, even once hours of effort and exertion has been poured into them, are STILL not gonna net a fuck yes outcome. If all of THIS keeps going money gets harder. I get sadder and tireder. I start questioning if I am where I want to be. I start questioning ALL of it. I am not a lit up energised happy Kat!
Gorgeous –
you DESERVE to be a lit up energised happy YOU, but more still than that?
It is a REQUIREMENT for your business and money goals and for your IMPACT goals.
It is a requirement,
for this whole thing to WORK,
that you operate from the place of ‘THIS IS JUST WHO I AM’.
So while we may laugh about being ‘extra’, or ‘ott’, or be aware that when we are ON we are so fucking ON that it’s scary | triggering | all the things to people, the reality is …
IT’S FUCKING ESSENTIAL AND IT SHOULDN’T EVEN BE A CONVERSATION.
Why TF would it be a conversation, whether or not you get to just be YOU?!
And in business … this kind of business … choose anything OTHER than that?
And you might as well just thrust the dagger you’ve been slowly twisting into yourself all the way through.
The Unapologetic Too Much Bitch??
THE GIRL WHO KNEW SHE ALWAYS WOULD,
AND THEN SHE FUCKING DID.
RUN, don’t walk, and join me –
IN THE PLACE WHERE WE GET YOU FULLY SAYING YES,
and letting the business money and YOU flow from that,
which simply can’t not.
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