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Success Mindset

EXTREME, OBSESSED, RELENTLESS IS THE NEW NORMAL

I’m extreme, obsessed, relentless, a complete and total fucking diva, I want what I want when and exactly how I want it, and I WILL do the work accordingly.

You too? GOOD, you’re in the right place, and you’re probably completely down with the idea that you and I baby? We ain’t never gon’ be normal and that is TOTALLY fine, better than fine, in fact it’d be abhorrent to imagine anybody would think otherwise!

But do you know what I ACTUALLY think, when I come down (at times!) from my high horse of knowing I hustle harder better more badass faster and with more fun than ANYONE, and that my clients and friends do the same?

Do you know what crosses my mind when I sit here in the morning, up at some awesomely early pre-sunrise hour and smashing back espresso while the rest of the world gets its required 6-8 … looking ahead to a day of for sure, at least, 18 hours non.stop.grind and knowing I would NEVER have it any other way and that also the grind is the play is the hustle is my life by fucking DESIGN?

Here is what I think:

I think it’s freaking SAD that we consider this extreme.

I think it’s bullshit that society has conditioned people to believe that taking action to the level of AVERAGE accomplishment is the appropriate amount of action! That if you have a good job, a nice house, an overseas trip every few years and a mid-range vehicle then clearly you’re a go-getter.

Something interesting I notice, when I travel, which I do nearly half the time –

There are places in the world where the standard of NORMAL is wildly higher than others. Places where whether in a hotel, or a yoga class, or the gym, or just walking down the street the NORM is to be hotter –

Fitter –

More refined –

Better dressed –

Better posture –

And –

Let’s face it:

Definitely RICHER, too.

I know, I know – um, DUH, Kat. Of course if you’re going to hang out in Beverly Hills, West Hollywood, etc, you’re going to observe a higher standard of normal than if you hang out in Gold Coast suburbia, or wherever else. Not exactly ground-breaking information!!

Do you know what else though?

There are places – masterminds – groups – cult tribes, even – where the standard of normal is EVEN higher than what I see in my very shallow observations around LA, or NYC.

Places where the minimum base level income is multiple 7-figures.

Where it’s taken for GRANTED that you are giving back in a huge way.

Where purchasing a 40-k+ accessory is not really even worthy of conversation.

Where it’s assumed that of COURSE you are actively hustling all day. Growing your empire. Making MILLIONS, seeking to IMPACT millions, change the world.

Where it’s KNOWN that of COURSE you are also taking care of your fitness, your relationships, your emotional state, your EVERYTHING, and operating, both inside and out, like a premium fucking machine who expects the best, creates the best, gives the best, lives the best, IS the best.

Where, by the way, the days are longer and more grueling, day in and day fucking out without exception than what ANY of the ‘normal successful’ people would actually even consider possible or sustainable, but where everybody genuinely gets OFF on that grind, is excited by it, fueled by the need to strive and push and ACTUALLY?

Actually flat out sees it as fun.

Where, ALSO, we know and believe that anything –

ANYTHING –

We decide upon and set our minds to is a done deal, that’s just how life WORKS.

We decide what we want.

We make it freaking happen.

We do what it TAKES.

We work all day, move at the speed of light, never stop and NEVER say die AND we have a damn fine time doing it.

THESE ARE THE PLACES I CHOOSE TO BE.

The friendships I have cultivated around me.

The world I now live in.

Extreme, relentless, obsessed, YES?

Absofuckinglutely normal, YES.

At some point, honestly, you’re GOING TO HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT TRUE SUCCESS REQUIRES YOU TO ELEVATE YOUR NORMAL.

I look around me when I’m even in certain average FITNESS environments, never mind business, wealth, life, and do you know what I feel?

I feel SCARED. GET ME OUT OF HERE BEFORE I ACCIDENTALLY DIP DOWN!! And that’s despite me knowing that when I set my sights on something NOTHING will stop me. I’ve spent most of my adult life pushing to get further and faster ahead despite being in an average environment a lot of the time, and I’ve ACHIEVED it.

But it is a flat out reality, nonetheless, that I move faster.

Achieve more.

Expect and demand more of myself and also the world around me.

And GET it.

When I surround myself with those whose heart also beats with the passion of wanting to actually fucking LIVE.

It is a flat out REALITY that you will always absorb the level of success, or so-called ‘normal’, you live into.

If you lived in an environment –

Surrounded yourself with people –

Choose to just SEE what you need to see –

Where it was normal to make millions and millions of dollars.

Normal to be in shit hot shape.

Normal to have AMAZING relationships.

Normal to travel in VIFP style.

Normal to buy whatever you want and never look at price.

Normal to give back in a BIG and powerful way.

Normal to know what whatever you decide would be yours just because you DECIDED for it to be.

Then that would BE your normal, plain and simple, and you’d be striving to the next level.

So you can see yourself as obssessed, extreme, relentless, and your desires as big and vast and unfuckingbelievably diva-esque.

And sometimes it feels good to do that, acknowledge it, get up on our high horse and get PROUD of the fact that we do the fucking work, and then some!

OR you can realise that whatever you see as extreme –

As super rich –

As super hot –

As ‘too good to be true’ –

Is just somebody else’s normal.

So why not make ACHIEVING it easy, by making it yours.

It’s easy and even AUTOMATED to maintain our own standards.

So if you wanna elevate, FAST?

Elevate your fucking standards.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!