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Live Your Passion

QUIT BEING EMBARRASSED ABOUT WANTING ALL THAT YOU WANT – YOUR SOUL DESIRES CAN LITERALLY NEVER BE WRONG OR BAD!

I have this thing with one of my besties, who I rarely get to see in person, where we audio each other every day, and basically give our ‘story’ of the day.

The story is a rundown of eeeeeevvvvvvverrrrythang that has been going on that day. Thoughts, downloads, ponderings, and also all possible juicy tidbits about all possible juicy things.

I’m sure you can imagine 😉

Typically we’ll ramble on to each other for anywhere from 8-20 or so minutes (sometimes multiple times per day, each!), and then finish it off with ‘so that’s my story for today!’ It’s quite an addictive little habit, but what it is also is, unwittingly, is an addition to the deep daily inner work which we both each do.

The process of unloading all your thoughts and updates to another person who you FULLY trust, who you can fully be yourself with and hide NOTHING, as you know there is literally zero judgement, is incredibly powerful. It’s akin to another form of journaling, diving in to your own shit, and, of course, in doing so – NOTICING.

Noticing little things, just in talking them over, in listening to your own out-loud rambles, which you may have otherwise not pulled yourself up on.

Take this morning –

My friend had asked me about a guy I dated a while back, and whether I thought there might be a chance of me wanting to see him again. If perhaps the reasons why it had been a no for me to continue were still there … or enough of a real reason, I guess.

The fact that she asked that just highlighted for me that actually in this case I HADN’T really told her the whole story as to why it wasn’t a fit for me. I’d given a few reasons which were definitely real and true, but when she repeated them back to me even I could see how flaky they sounded. Like, really? Was that really why I had stopped seeing him? It was a bit reminiscent of that Seinfeld episode where Jerry can never get a girlfriend ’cause he always finds one thing to highlight about where which he just can’t move past … big hands / close talker / etc. Haha.

Wanna know the truth?

I hadn’t actually thought about this before, I guess it was a sub-conscious ‘hiding’ that I’d done in not telling her the full story, but when I went to reply this morning and tuned in on it, it whacked me straight in the face –

I didn’t really want to say what the actual main reason was, because I felt like it made me seem a bit of a bitch, or kind of like ‘who the hell do I think I am?’ And so I found myself nearly about to actually LIE … well, edit the truth I guess, is a fairer description, (lol, same same?), and downplay what I was going to say.

I nearly said something like “well … the truth is, even though I probably shouldn’t say this and maybe I need to get over myself or am being harsh or a bitch, I just don’t think he’s playing on the same level as me”.

And then I stopped.

ACTUALLY –

No, I don’t need to get over myself.

No, I’m not being harsh.

No, I’m not being a bitch, either!

The truth is I DON’T think he was playing remotely on the same level as me, and what’s more there IS more –

I require a man to be playing at LEAST on the same level as me.

In multiple ways and areas.

In terms of who he IS, how he shows up, and also, yes, what he has created and allowed in to his life.

In fact ideally he would be playing on a level that challenges ME.

And it suddenly became clear to me that if I in ANY way think this is ‘not ok’ to say to even one of my closest friends, then how on EARTH am I going to call it in?

Because really, I don’t have to tell ya –

It’s an energy thing, isn’t it?

I’m either in the energy of THIS IS WHAT I GET TO HAVE AND JUST HOW IT IS AND I AM ABSOLUTELY CLEAR, THERE IS ZERO ROOM FOR CONFUSION, MY BOUNDARIES AND REQUIREMENTS ARE SET IN STONE AND THUS –

Can be delivered in the aligned time and way, since I put my order in damn clearly!

Or,

Well –

No!

You know?

If I hesitate –
If I hold back –
If I squirm and kinda say what I want but then APOLOGISE for it, or label it as maybe ‘too much’ –

Guess what I’m gonna get?

NADA

Well, nothing except a kinda sorta maybe somewhat version of what I really want.

You can’t get what you really want if what you repeatedly ask for and focus on is a kinda sorta maybe somewhat ‘I hope this is okay but prolly I shouldn’t ask for all that’ version of it!

That makes no sense 🙂

And it got me to thinking –

Where are YOU doing that same thing, in your life, hmmm?

Where are you being flaky or half-assed about asking for what you really want?

Where are you making your soul desires wrong or bad?

Where are you APOLOGISING for what you’re being shown from within is yours, and meant to be?

Wake up!!

YOUR SOUL DESIRES CAN LITERALLY NEVER BE WRONG OR BAD!

And if you’re being shown something from within, that.means.it’s.for.you!

You don’t need to get all EMOTIONAL about it, wavering back and forth on whether or not it’s appropriate! It’s not UP to you to decide whether or not it’s allowed, the fact that you were shown it is what shows you that it IS allowed!

It’s that freakin’ simple.

Black and white baby, so stop greying it up all over the place!

The getting of the things in life is very very simple.

1) You see them inside of you.
2) This is how you know they’re divined, meant to be.
3) (This works easier when you have a daily practice of connecting to soul).
4) You ACCEPT that they are YOURS because you’re not GIVEN a dream that is not yours to dream.
5) You accept also that they are not only yours, but available NOW, as you’re only ever shown things that ALREADY EXIST AND ARE AVAILABLE.
6) You say yes. Yes I will. Yes I commit. Yes, send it to me. YES, I will be the person who would naturally receive that, have that, become that.
7) You go be the damn person (repeat this daily)
😎 You also trust in the process, and surrender the outcome, knowing it’s always possible that there is something even better, and more aligned, which you’ve not yet seen or been shown (repeat this daily too)
9) You continue to claim it as done (yep, daily)
10) You go about the business of living your aligned life, and saying yes to what your soul shows you each next moment is for

I really don’t know why you’re trying to complicate it 🙂

It’s all just a very straightforward matter of observing what’s in your soul,

And boldly saying yes to it, no matter how ‘too much’ it is,

Then living in the now.

The reason you don’t get what you want is you continue to adjust, filter, downplay, apologise for, make more ‘acceptable’ what you’re seeing.

And I guess all I came here to say today?

Stop freakin’ doing that.

It’s stoopid.

And also kinda martyr-ish, in the boring and annoying way.

Claim what you came here to do.
Claim who you freakin’ are.
Claim what you get to have.

AND THEN GO FUCKING GET IT.

Don’t forget – !

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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