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SAYING NO TO ANYTHING YOU WANT IS SAYING NO TO EVERYTHING YOU WANT

#ManifestationSmackdown

What are you saying no to in your life, because you think that it’s a hassle, too much effort, maybe not worth it, or that it would somehow make you a diva or a bad person and you’d feel self-conscious chasing after it?

I’m talking about the stuff you really really want the OUTCOME of, but yet you’ve bought into a story – your own story! – that you for whatever reason should NOT chase after?

Can I tell you something?

Anything you desire, ANYTHING that comes through you as a dream, a vision, a missive, a CALLING, is not only available to you AND available now, but it’s also available and ALLOWED no matter the cost.

When you say no to purpose, to passion, to flow, or just to that epic cool thing you want but think you should get OVER, as you don’t really NEED it, you actually limit your ability to manifest abundance and receive ALL things.

For example –

Lately I’ve been thinking about starting to make the change from crazy redhead back to platinum blonde. I was blonde for 10 years before red … I have LOVED the red, do love it … but I keep on getting that call.

I’ve put it off 3x now, because oh, the HASSLE. It would be a massive endeavour … not for ME really, as I’ll just sit in the salon and work while things get done to my head … but it would take a few months to ‘get there’ with the colour, and then my worry is I’ll probably change my mind nearly as soon as we do. lol.

So I’ve been saying no, because I know myself well enough to know I WILL want to change it after all that effort, so ‘I should just keep it red, I do like the red, it is cool, etc’.

Today my stylist asked me what the plan is with my colour, and I started to tell her this whole story about why we should just leave it red, and then suddenly it hit me –

What in the actual fuck? I WANT it blonde. I would love to be blonde again. That feels fun to me right now! And so WHAT if I then change my mind again right after, I CAN change my mind, I’m ALLOWED to change my mind, and also it is AVAILABLE to me to change my mind AND my hair colour, at any time! I literally have no excuse … I can’t even argue that it’s a bother to HER, as she is excited about the idea; it’s art for her!

As I sat in the chair just now having my head massaged and having this conversation, listening to myself talk and suddenly realising how silly it is to say no because of the bother OR because of the idea that I may not then stick with it long enough to make it ‘worth it’, I started to wonder where else this mindset might be showing up in my life.

What else am I saying no to, because I think it would make me too demanding … high maintenance … or because I shouldn’t NEED that … or because what if I then want something else?

A few examples came to mind right away, like the fact that I’d been telling myself for months (actually I already acted on changing this a week or two back) I don’t NEED a daily housekeeper at home even though I WANT one, can also AFFORD one, and I love having a beautiful clean house. I already have my cleaner every second day, shouldn’t that be enough?!

Well, thing is, when we come at life from an ABUNDANCE mindset, and choose to believe that anything we desire is available to us, ALLOWED, also available now, and additionally that whatever we dream is our dream to bring to life and therefore a responsibility, it means, literally, that EVERYTHING we want and desire is allowed –

Is okay –

And is also, actually, a requirement!

Because if I say ‘no, I can’t or shouldn’t have that’, it implies that I DON’T actually believe:

– That all things are possible-
– That abundance is unlimited
– That there is no such thing as a selfish (bad selfish) or ‘wrong’ dream
– That whatever I desire SHOULD be brought to life

And if I’m allowing myself to imply that in ONE area, it impacts my sub-conscious mind across ALL areas.

You can’t say no to the so-called little or ‘not necessary / not valid / not ‘important enough’ goals and dreams and expect to be able to manifest the bigger or supposedly needed or important enough things.

Who are you to decide what is a worthy goal or dream ANYWAY? Who are you to judge what desires you deserve to bring to life or can justify to whomever the fuck it is you think you need to justify to, vs which ones make you somehow a bad person for wanting?

Either you believe in unlimited abundance and your God-given right to choose your life, or you don’t.

Saying no to one thing you want is INHERENTLY saying no to EVERYTHING you want.

And following your desires, following what you’re in alignment guided to from within, is not just something you CAN do, it’s a motherfucking responsibility, if you actually care about bringing your purpose to life and impacting others with your message and with the way you live your LIFE.

Don’t you see?

You either believe or you don’t.

There is no ‘that belief applys for this but not for that!’.

It doesn’t work that way.

As I sit here, my hair all fresh and shiny once again, I’m reminded of so many things I at one point told myself were ‘too much’. Like – getting my hair blown out several times a week, which is what I just had done! These days it’s normal for me to pop past the salon every other day to get my hair done. I don’t question it. But years back when it first started to come to me that that’s what I wanted, it felt OUTRAGEOUS and indulgent. Wasteful. Silly. Etc.

Now? Normal. And as for whether giving IN to my desire somehow cost me? What a RIDICULOUS FUCKING IDEA!

EVERY desire I have given myself permission to give in to, the ‘deep important ones’ AND the more supposedly superficial ones, has result in an increased vibration of abundance for me and also for all who connect with me!

Which is what you’ve got to realise, when it comes to you:

Being MORE of you inspires your tribe to be more of THEM.

Giving in to YOUR desires and dreams, no matter how outlandish or ‘bothersome’ gives your audience, and all who connect with you, permission to give in to THEIRS.

And here is what it comes down to, all of this:

You were born to shine, yes?

You were born to be a light for others?

You DO believe, at your core, that all things you can see inside of you are allowed and also ‘okay’?

Well then, simple:

Just as it’s our job to unleash our message not critique it, it’s also our job to shine our fucking light and let in anything our heart guides us to do, ANYTHING, and not critique or question it.

What if, from this moment forward, you simply said ‘yes’ to every single thing your heart desires?

‘Yes’, with nothing added to it.

Not ‘yes, but is that okay?’, or ‘yes but will that be a bother?’, or ‘yes, I would except it’s just that – ‘.

Just – ‘yes’.

Actually when you think about it, all you ever had to do was to say ‘yes’ to what comes through you.

If you’ve been making it a helluva lot more complex than that, trying to play God with your own life, trying to decide what’s okay or not okay, and wasting INSANE amounts of time and energy instead of just allowing, that’s okay.

Me too.
Been there.
Done that!

And now?

I choose to say yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes to purpose.
Yes to passion.
Yes to flow.
Yes, with NOTHING added to it, to EVERY thing which my heart guides me to.

It feels good …

Join me?

Now?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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