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Setting New Year’s Resolutions Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person!!

I can’t help but roll my eyes at all the anti New Year’s resolutions stuff that is going around Facebook this year, the past few years. It almost feels like you’re not cool unless you’re TOO cool to set resolutions and instead what we all SHOULD be doing is actively railing against them to prove just how much shit we ALREADY GET DONE ALL THE TIME.

I can barely make it couple posts down my news feed without seeing someone sternly telling everybody else they shouldn’t be setting resolutions because it’s just how you live your life every DAY that matters.

Which is true, sure. But ARE you? That’s what I’m wondering when I’m seeing everybody implying high and mightily that there should be less dramatic goalsetting and more just living like THEM. ‘Cause I gotta tell you – for 99.99% of you out there proudly declaring that nary a resolution shall cross your journal and you wouldn’t admit it if it did – I’m pretty damn sure you’re NOT already actively pressing play each day.

In fact I’m fucking certain.

I know this because I’ve seen you talk about it all year long (kinda gives it away) and I also know it because you are HUMAN which means you are definitely NOT already fully pressing play.

On everything you want.

Every single day.

Wanna know a secret?

Me too!

This year, 2016, I absolutely did NOT fully press play in every single way I wanted to or said I would. I battled resistance. I flaked out on things. I didn’t even start on other things. And some I completely forgot I said I wanted!!

Want to know the things I GOT THE FUCK DONE and made massive headway on, achieved huge transformation with?

(((Wait for it because this is going to REVOLUTIONARY!)))

It was.
The stuff.
I set.
Clear.
And specific.
Outcome based.
GOALS for.
And committed to!

Or, to put it in a less wordy fashion, it was the stuff I RESOLVED to get done that did in fact get done!

It was NOT the stuff I thought about doing.
NOT even the stuff I journaled about doing.
Definitely not the stuff I hoped I would do.
Not even the stuff I said I would!

It was the stuff I set an actual resolution to do. And here’s where I know you and I are the same:

You will ALWAYS do what you ACTUALLY resolve to do. A decision once FULLY made in your mind is one that then takes place! Just think back over the stuff you’ve done and nothing could stop you, no matter how tough the journey to get there. It was the stuff you committed to. REAL commitment not just internet ‘hell yeah’ commitment 🙂

At some point, that thing was just a passing idea … a flight of fancy … or a desire.
At some point, it started to become a fixation or an obsession, and you knew you really REALLY really wanted it.
At some point, you then sat your ass down and decided:

THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN.

WHAT THE FUCK BETTER TIME I ASK YOU TO MAKE NEW EXCITING DECISIONS FOR YOUR LIFE THAN AS WE BEGIN A NEW YEAR??!

YES you can set resolutions any day of the year!
YES success is about the daily habits and who you ARE!
And hell to the YES if you’re a SUCCESS DRIVEN HUMAN then I’d bet all the coffee in Melbourne that there is a big part of you right now already excited about what you’re going to create in 2017, and definitely thinking about what habits you want to break or let GO of!

Admit it … it’s okay … I won’t judge you … you’ve kinda maybe ALREADY set some resolutions for 2017!

I know, I know, SO UNCOOL of you! Shh – I won’t tell anyone! But I will tell YOU this:

I am resolving the FUCK out of New Year’s!

I’m EXCITED to write out the year I’ll choose to have.

I’m excited to COMMIT to things I previously only thought about or desired or admired from afar.

I’m scared but ready to let GO of stuff I’ve been holding onto, to resolve a new path forward instead.

And I can’t wait to lock down and then act on NEW things, BIGGER things, NEXT level things!

I already have about 3 pages filled with resolutions, and it feels GREAT! Considering I’ve journaled for several decades, and considering that I know from history that whenever I DO set an actual resolution I also then fulfil it, I basically have 3 pages of awesome future predicted for myself. And I’m not even done resolving!

So you can go join the cool kids if you want …

Claim you’re already so on the ball that the last thing you need to stoop to is making big plans and resolutions for the New Year …

Wash your hands of the whole idea quickly and get off this blog post in case anybody sees you!

But I’m gonna be over here.
Dreaming big.
Writing it down.
RESOLVING anew, because I am READY for a New Year and I’m going to embrace it and the next level of ME with open arms.
And then making it fucking happen of course.

We can set goals –
Every day.
Dream big –
And do the work.

And maybe you already DO this, and are. That’s awesome … and I’ll join you in the continued dreaming and action taking all year long.

But really –
Is it so very bad –
To enter the New Year with wishes and dreams and the feel of magic in the air?
To commit to a New Year and a New You?
To make a big fuss over the changes you’re going to make, the releases you’re going to allow?

Or is it that you’re scared that if you make TOO big a deal of it you’ll let yourself down, once more?

I believe we’re given certain periods of the year as a reminder:

We have the power to choose who we are.
We CHOOSE our reality.
We get to CREATE our life in advance.
So the fuck WHAT that most people who set goals and maybe even YOU up until now then don’t DO them.

Most people who start a business fail, are you going to be too cool to even try on that next?!

I’m declaring here and now:

I’ll never be too cool to dream a new and bigger dream and to CLAIM:

THIS IS GONNA BE MY BEST YEAR EVER.

They all are, you know! I keep resolving it and it just keeps happening!

Join me 🙂

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/