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Live Your Passion

Resistance Got You Stuck? Time to Destroy That Bitch and DO THE FUCKING WORK.

If there’s one thing I know for sure about being a driven woman with a deep message and desire to change the world, someone who is a NATURAL born and REVOLUTIONARY fucking leader with the power to make and also HELP millions, it’s this:

Shit ain’t gonna happen if you don’t make shit happen.

And the fact that you’ve got all of this POWERFUL stuff inside of you, gifts you were born to share with the world, and a calling you just can’t ignore, means NOTHING if you don’t start doing the fucking work.

So today?

We need to talk about doing the fucking work, because lately I’m noticing a trend that has me TERRIFIED for the future of leadership and asskickery within the female entrepreneur world, and worse still a trend which – if you continue to allow yourself to be part of it – WILL DESTROY YOU AND YOUR DREAMS.

I’m talking about the UNACCEPTABLE choice of letting resistance and fear govern the actions that you take and the difference you therefore ultimately make.

And let me tell you something:

It is COMPLETELY fucking possible, and in fact completely fucking likely based on the law of averages, that if you’re not doing the work now you will NEVER do the work, and eventually it will be too LATE to do the work and you will have a life of regret, sadness and the awful awful knowledge that you didn’t even really try.

You think that it’s just right now, the it’s just temporary that you can’t seem to move forward, don’t know how, have no idea where to start?

HA FUCKING HA bitch. Heard it all before. Not buying it. I’ve heard it from YOU before as well, not just in general!

Weren’t you singing that same old tired old lame old tune last month? Last year? Last decade??!

You wanna look for a reason not to take action you can ALWAYS find one, but if you want to have a good reason TO take action you can always find one of those as well.

So it’s really very VERY simple, as most things are:

Either you’re doing the fucking work, day in and day out, or you’re NOT.

And you can take your so-called REASONS (bullshit excuses if we’re being honest) for not doing the work and you can shove them where the sun don’t shine or just fuck the fuck off right now, because at the end of the day it doesn’t MATTER what your reasons are and it sure as heck doesn’t matter how justified those reasons might be in the eyes of the world. The world will let you get away with the DAILY murder of your dreams but I. will. not.

And neither should you.

Unless, of course, you don’t actually care, and you’re CONTENT with normal.

Because right now? You’re on the fast track to normal and it would APPEAR that you bought the lifetime ‘never get off’ pass.

So you can say as much as you wanna say about what’s important to you and what you believe in and what you’re GOING to do but in the final analysis all that will matter is did you do it?

So let’s talk.

Let’s talk about resistance.

And fear.

And doing the fucking work anyway.


It’s better to be aware of your fears (and act in the face of them) then to ignore them and pretend they’re not there and that there’s actually some ‘real’ reason you can’t take action.

Word to the wise: there’s not. It doesn’t exist. Yes this is incredibly judgmental and harsh of me, I have no idea what sort of shit is going on in your life. You’re welcome to hate me and stop following you but either way I’ll still judge you for not taking action on the stuff that you SAY matters to you IN SPITE of whatever mayhem or madness is going on in your life.

I hope you’ll love yourself enough to do the same.

So – what are you scared of? What are the BAD things that might happen if you take action? For each bad thing ask yourself:

– Is it true?

– And does it matter?

If it’s not a real fear it doesn’t matter, if it is a real fear then decide if it matters enough for you to NEVER LIVE YOUR DREAMS.

There’s no “I’m not sure”. Either it matters so quit your dreams and go join the rest of the zombies, or it doesn’t matter enough to stop you living the life you were born for so suck it up and DEAL with it.


Resistance is just fear mixed with uncertainty. Fear, we spoke about. Uncertainty, what the fuck ever. It’s impossible to know anything in advance anyway, except for this of course:

If you don’t even try you will DEFINITELY not succeed.


Listen carefully, ’cause this is TRICKY.

If you’re not doing the work and you need a plan and a system to ensure you start doing the work, you’re going to need to follow this rather complex and admittedly daunting system:

(Write this down) –

The best way to do the fucking work anyway is to DO THE FUCKING WORK ANYWAY.

I know! It’s going to take you at LEAST another year to figure out how to do that, right?!

WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG and if you live that way you will DIE with your dreams inside of you.

So all of this stuff you need to know or figure out or improve upon before you can do the fucking work is IRRELEVANT.

How you do the fucking work anyway is you set aside the time. You commit to the time. You do the fucking time.


Not sure what to say? Stop freaking worrying about it! Say whatever comes out.

Don’t know where to start? Just start.

Worried what you created is awful? Publish it without looking it over.

Not sure which path to take? JUST PICK A FUCKING HORSE AND RIDE IT.

In short, stop THINKING so much!

Thinking will kill you!

Now in the longer-term, sure – it pays to journal and observe and dive ever-deeper into what is working or not working and what you’d like to improve on and do differently.

But – and this is just how I feel, mind you, you’re welcome to disagree with me and KEEP LETTING RESISTANCE WIN – if you’re not doing the fucking work anyway then what exactly is it you’re planning to improve upon?



If you’re stuck.

And you’re scared.

And you’re not at all sure of anything much at all except you KNOW you don’t want to keep letting resistance win, then you’re going to need to temporarily FORCE yourself into an action pattern.

Momentum, motivation, clarity, all those things come from action.

So what can you do to create a situation where you HAVE to do the work?

Can you make yourself accountable publically?

Can you set up forced deadlines you can’t back down on?

Can you hire a mentor to keep you on track?

Can you create some kind of consequence or reward system?

Ultimately nothing OUTSIDE of you should be the reason for you to do the work, but some of these things can help you to just start, in spite of all the reasons you’ve not yet started.

What it really should come down to of course, is obvious –

Do you want this life you dream of, or not?

When all is said and done it’s really extraordinary clear:

If you don’t do the work, you won’t get there.

Not now.

Not ever.

Isn’t it time you began doing life like it mattered?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.