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Stop Being Scared of Scaring Off Men, Clients, the World, with JUST HOW DAMN BRILLIANT YOU ARE

Aren’t you a little sick and tired by now of holding back your brilliance, in order to not offend or unsettle people?

I don’t even know if you consciously know you’re doing this … but seriously girl –

It’s written all over you.

In the way you shrink down, just a little.

Hold your posture, just so – not TOO bold, not too stately, not like the damn QUEEN you at times talk about being and know you COULD be, except for that being a QUEEN is an energy, and it does not look, like that.

I see it in the way you dance carefully around your accomplishments, ESPECIALLY when there’s normal people around, especially especially (and this one is for my single ladies!) when there are MEN around.

Careful careful!

Don’t wanna scare him off! Don’t wanna shine TOO bright! Don’t wanna intimidate him! Don’t wanna see another man deflate just a little, barely noticeable but still, when they realise JUST HOW DAMN MUCH YOU HAVE GOING ON.

How much you have going on? ALLLLLL of it, no need to be coy with ME. I KNOW what’s up, I see you, I sense you, and of course I most certainly AM you.

I see the looks.
The spark of realisation.
The ohhhhhhhh

When people realise that I, you, US, THIS chick right here is THAT sort of woman.

Oh, she’s like that … ohhhhh.

And attraction gets mixed all of a sudden with an admiration that is JUST teetering on the wrong side of ‘please coach and lead me’ vibes.

Ba-bom.

Another potential suitor bites the dust, at least unless you’re in the habit of collecting men who just gaze at you with fascination all day, constantly wanting to learn and grow from being around you … which is nice, and God knows I’m not against it, but it needs to come hand in hand with them owning THEIR shit and how damn awesome they are.

Of course it’s ALL just a reflection, always, we know this.

Whether it’s men –

Potential friends –

Fuck, even clients! Do you know how many clients or would-be clients I’ve lost over the past few years for shining too damn bright? A LOT. Just the other day I heard of a previous 1:1 client of mine who I worked with for ages, loved and SO adored, who apparently now goes around talking about how I just became too superficial. And there’s been a LOT of talk, I hear the whispers and sometimes even direct feedback, around that sort of stuff, as over the past year or two I’ve actively stepped BOLDLY into owning next level-hotness, and choosing how I wanna express it.

You too at times, in ways? Yeah … thought so!

“She’s just too MUCH”.

So tired, so old, so overused, but still so cutting somehow!

Anyway, of course it’s a reflection.

I journaled a little on this today, after having an aha around the fact that why I’ve held my income steady for 2 years now (steady at 300-450k per month, but still!) instead of letting it climb is because then I’d be even MORE ‘too much’ for men.

“Fuck me!”, I wrote. “Is this why I haven’t gone to the next level financially? Because I’m worried I’m already so separate from the men I meet with my success?? facepalm!”

“They ALREADY don’t know how to handle my success. Okay. I can shift this.

I am ready to attract in a man who can handle ALL of how hot, rich, sexy, empowered and free I am!!

hmmm … I am ready to be ALL that I am
I am ready to shine fucking bright
I am ready to be even bolder, richer, hotter, more successful, more switched ON, and I know that there are men out there who will MORE than hold space for that, be ready for it, expect it!
I am done with dialing down my gifts and talents, and how powerful I am
I am done with HIDING my brilliance
I am done with being a little LESS than in order to better fit in
I am a SERIOUSLY WEALTHY SELF MADE WOMAN who also happens to be hot as FUCK, in fantastic shape for 39 (or any age), intelligent, funny, witty, insightful, intuitive and a WHOLE bunch more besides

I am ready to date a man who can MORE than match all of that. Meet it, match it, surpass it! Who teaches me SO much. Who also expects his woman to be on fire in all areas like that.

Time to TURN UP THE BRILLIANCE

TURN UP THE BRILLIANCE.

Ok.

turn it up turn it up turn it up”

Ha, I wasn’t going to publish all of that. Even as I wrote it in my OWN FUCKING JOURNAL I was thinking GOSH – imagine someone saw this, look at me going on about how awesome I am! I was already predicting responses in my head, what the ‘Wise Woman of Love’ will say about it.

The Wise Women of Love? You know the ones, they’re in a relationship that rocks and are SUPER quick to jump on any posts a single woman makes about what she wants in a man, pointing out with deep owly ponderment and a head nod inclined just slightly to the side that women should stop saying what they want in a man and ‘become the woman who would attract such a man / focus on their own energy etc’. Like … DUH girlfriend. #goeswithoutsaying so stop harping on and on about it, essentially shaming other ladies everytime they boldly own their desires!! Someone stating they are ready for MORE and being specific on that is a thing to celebrate! Why not ASSUME they are doing their inner work around it and not indeed publishing every damn bit of that with each and every post they put up about the ‘here’s what I want!’ bits.

Anyway. Just something that SHITS ME RIGHT UP THE TRIGGER-WALL AND BACK AGAIN. Haha.

Soooooooo

Where were we?!

Oh yeah, I was journaling about turning it up, about being ALL that I am and then some, about standing even MORE audaciously in my badass womanhood, and about allowing myself to EXPECT to meet men who can hold space for that, who EXPECT it, and who would not indeed expect anything less!

I know they’re out there.

I know if I’ve not been seeing it then what is ACTUALLY going on is I am scared of my OWN brilliance.

And I know this relates not only to men, but like I said, to business. To client and online follower attraction. To the media, or other messengers with whom I may desire to collaborate or message with in some way. Etc.

You too, again? THOUGHT SO!

But here is what I know for sure, about all of THAT.

The people in my life who are the MOST soul aligned –

(Clients, friends, lover type persons, peers, all of ’em)

– were categorically NOT in my life when I was playing smaller, when I was hiding my brilliance, when I was being careful, or in any way concerning myself with what people thought of me or expected from me.

What WAS there was a mish-mash of sorta aligned people. Which is to say NOT FUCKING ALIGNED AT ALL, since alignment is 100% YES or it’s hell no.

How I called in so many fuck yeah people into my life is indeed I DID become an energetic match for them. (Just as the Wise Women of Love say!! I’m not saying they’re not right, I’m saying find a new bloody tune to sing it’s SO predictable. lol).

The clients I have now, for example, would not even have SEEN me back when I was the not bold, not audacious, not ‘all of me’ version of me. Why would they have cared? They would have looked straight past me, like a ghost.

Pretty damn certain the same thing goes with attracting in hot as fuck sexy smart passion and purpose-driven grown up men!!

All of which is just a REALLY long way of saying the following:

STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT WILL HAPPEN WHEN PEOPLE FIND OUT JUST HOW DAMN NEXT LEVEL YOU ACTUALLY ARE.

And start worrying about how you’re EVER gonna actually get what you want, in business OR life, if you don’t just SHOW them.

You know the right peeps for you are out there. You KNOW this.

The ones who will love you, lift you, celebrate you, pay you (the clients presumably not the men haha), hold space for you and also EQUALLY INSPIRE AND EMPOWER YOU WITH THEIR AWESOME.

But if you don’t actually BE you, and I mean stood up super tall and proud and with BELLS on, then guess what sister?

They ain’t gonna see you.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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