YOU CAN STOP ACCEPTING SECOND BEST ANY TIME NOW

Do you ever feel as though sometimes you’re almost BOUND to your ideas of what you ‘have’ to do to be in flow?

I’m having one of those days where I don’t feel like I have ANY fucking clue what to say.

I want to say I HATE it when I feel that way … that slight breathless anxiety, the pressure of wanting SO much to show the fuck up, be able to do the work, not because I ‘need’ to blog | message | sell for my BUSINESS or anything … that’s always and only just a side effect, secondary to the real goal; the raison d’etre for my entire EXISTENCE.

Which is, of course, to simply –

Unleash.
RELEASE.
Let it go.
And thus, I get into flow.

So when I don’t feel like I know what to say –

When the message isn’t flowing through and from me and just POURING out of me –

When I feel maybe a bit pressed for time, because that’s just how today works out and so now – God damn it! – the heat is on, I gotta write, I gotta do it fast, I’ll run out of time, or else, or else, or else –

– and my breath goes EVEN shorter and I feel a bit irritated and also oddly SCARED –

I now tune the fuck in.

And I realise –

HUH. How interesting … why would I be scared or fearful of not being able to write, of not having time, of what if what if what if what if I don’t UNLEASH something? WHAT WILL THAT MEAN AND WHO WILL I BE AND AM I EVEN REAL?!

And the answer is, always, FASCINATING. (I mean … if you’re not fascinated with your own self and exploring and diving deeper INTO you, then what is even the point?!)

By fascinating I mean this:

If the idea of not being able to write or unleash, specifically of not taking pause and connection, not ‘having time’, to do so in order to unleash the GOOD stuff, is scary, it means –

Oh so many things.

Like, perhaps I’ve attached the idea of flow to HAVING to do certain THINGS. And what if … flow was just something I could get to choose, at any moment? Interesting …

Or maybe it means that I’ve attached flow to not only having to DO certain things, but also to having to have certain conditions in place. Like – enough time. Like – the powerful download already telling me what’s up, and making it’s way out. Like – things have to be a certain way. In order for me to play. Life. Or even just to freaking write … or basically to be able to GET TO WHERE I WANT TO BE …

And where I want to be, where EACH of us always and ONLY want to be, is in a state that feels freaking next level amazing.

You know?

I mean, let’s dive into this, because what a CURIOUS CONCEPT it is to think that I can only get to flow, to happiness, to joy, if I be like this, do like this, if I HAVE things that are actually not to BE had anyway, but instead that we do just get to choose and allow …

Such as time.
Such as space.
Or of course money.
Etc.

These are all just things we get to allow. They all ebb and flow according to what we decide to feel and receive. There IS no HAVE, and there is also no NEED for ANY of these things or indeed any OTHER thing, in order to get to , well –

Yes.

What IS it you actually want to get to?

What is the ACTUAL outcome you’re shooting for here?

Me, I love to be in flow, high vibing, owning my power and truth, tuned in and connected, in integrity and alignment, grounded to my core, acting always FROM what is inside of me, and of course most of all I like to be here, breathing in, being in, SOAKING in, LIVING, in, the NOW.

Life being now and all

And the funny thing is –

I can have all of that. Right here. Right now. Anytime.

I don’t have to write. I don’t have to unleash. I don’t have to do the things I do love to do in order to be EVERYTHING I desire and choose and GET to be.

And the funny thing is –

Neither do you.

You can actually have everything you want.
Everything your soul dreams of.
EVERY damn thing you want to feel and live into and breathe in and BE –
You get to experience right here.
Right now.
It’s a choice, like anything!

You know?

You know.

Which brings me to another point –

You DO know you can stop settling for second best or ANYTHING less than the actual vision of what you want, and you can do so right NOW, yes?

I have no idea if this is possibly relevant to anything I just said, because basically I wrote the title about letting go of needing to settle and I was GOING to start talking about that right away, and then it just somehow turned into quite the massive fucking intro.

WHICH I trust was exactly what you needed to hear and what I needed to say, so, you’re welcome, and thank you!!

But now:

A massive, download to me, for you –

And I was speaking about this yesterday with a client. She was stating her choice to now be okay with speaking up when not happy or in flow in her friendships. Proud of herself for having this realisation that it’s okay to say something when things feel as though they’re not WORKING, like if they’re showing up in a way that doesn’t feel great or doesn’t align.

And I thought –

GREAT. Yes, you certainly DO get to speak up and say what you feel good, or not, about.

But also –

And this is what had me with my mouth hanging slightly open and my face all scrunched up trying to figure it out why she would be talking about how to ‘make something work’, when you could just get to have the thing that, well –

Works.

And I shared with her:

I don’t have that in my friendships. I mean … sure – if something felt off or out of alignment, I WOULD say something, and it would be perfect.

But … it doesn’t happen.

EVERY friendship I have, and for some years now, in fact for so long that I can’t even remember when it WASN’T this way –

Is perfect.
And absolute.
Flow.
Perfection.
Joy.

I GET to have friendships where we are soul aligned fully and ALWAYS.

And in fact …

So do you!!

But let’s talk about where else this plays out –

And this is exactly what my client now gets to do as an exercise, also!

Where – ALL the where’s – are you settling?

Accepting ‘it JUST gets to be this’ –

Instead of ‘oh – no, I GET to have THIS’, and the THIS is –

Well.

EXACTLY WHAT YOU FUCKING DESIRE IT TO BE.

All in.
Fully.
Nothing less!!

And here is what else:

Can you EVEN imagine how fucking magical life gets to be when you simply own ALL of what you desire and also action and allow it in?!!

Freaking amazingly magical, I can tell you!

And I’d love you to SIT into this and consciously CHOOSE to imagine it now. Just feel it gorgeous. Let it wash over you. Let it IMBIBE. Get fucking EXCITED about it. Open up your eyes to the fact that there is literally not a SINGLE area of your life where you HAVE to have ANYTHING.

In fact – just like we spoke about above with flow and writing and time – there IS no HAVE to at all, anywhere!

Which means there is only – “I GET to”

I get to choose
I get to allow
I get to receive

And so then …

What WOULD you choose gorgeous?

What would you INSIST upon, ask for, non-negotiable, only, and fully?

I mean … you can keep on getting pretty good or even damn good, you know?

OR –

You can just ask for full perfect unleashed flow –

Every way
Every day
With nothing you EVER actually have to DO for it
Just because you CAN

You know?

So, I’m not getting a download on how to end this right now so I guess I’ll just say this –

How do you like THEM apples?!

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