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YOU CAN STOP ACCEPTING SECOND BEST ANY TIME NOW
Success Mindset

YOU CAN STOP ACCEPTING SECOND BEST ANY TIME NOW

Do you ever feel as though sometimes you’re almost BOUND to your ideas of what you ‘have’ to do to be in flow?

I’m having one of those days where I don’t feel like I have ANY fucking clue what to say.

I want to say I HATE it when I feel that way … that slight breathless anxiety, the pressure of wanting SO much to show the fuck up, be able to do the work, not because I ‘need’ to blog | message | sell for my BUSINESS or anything … that’s always and only just a side effect, secondary to the real goal; the raison d’etre for my entire EXISTENCE.

Which is, of course, to simply –

Unleash.
RELEASE.
Let it go.
And thus, I get into flow.

So when I don’t feel like I know what to say –

When the message isn’t flowing through and from me and just POURING out of me –

When I feel maybe a bit pressed for time, because that’s just how today works out and so now – God damn it! – the heat is on, I gotta write, I gotta do it fast, I’ll run out of time, or else, or else, or else –

– and my breath goes EVEN shorter and I feel a bit irritated and also oddly SCARED –

I now tune the fuck in.

And I realise –

HUH. How interesting … why would I be scared or fearful of not being able to write, of not having time, of what if what if what if what if I don’t UNLEASH something? WHAT WILL THAT MEAN AND WHO WILL I BE AND AM I EVEN REAL?!

And the answer is, always, FASCINATING. (I mean … if you’re not fascinated with your own self and exploring and diving deeper INTO you, then what is even the point?!)

By fascinating I mean this:

If the idea of not being able to write or unleash, specifically of not taking pause and connection, not ‘having time’, to do so in order to unleash the GOOD stuff, is scary, it means –

Oh so many things.

Like, perhaps I’ve attached the idea of flow to HAVING to do certain THINGS. And what if … flow was just something I could get to choose, at any moment? Interesting …

Or maybe it means that I’ve attached flow to not only having to DO certain things, but also to having to have certain conditions in place. Like – enough time. Like – the powerful download already telling me what’s up, and making it’s way out. Like – things have to be a certain way. In order for me to play. Life. Or even just to freaking write … or basically to be able to GET TO WHERE I WANT TO BE …

And where I want to be, where EACH of us always and ONLY want to be, is in a state that feels freaking next level amazing.

You know?

I mean, let’s dive into this, because what a CURIOUS CONCEPT it is to think that I can only get to flow, to happiness, to joy, if I be like this, do like this, if I HAVE things that are actually not to BE had anyway, but instead that we do just get to choose and allow …

Such as time.
Such as space.
Or of course money.
Etc.

These are all just things we get to allow. They all ebb and flow according to what we decide to feel and receive. There IS no HAVE, and there is also no NEED for ANY of these things or indeed any OTHER thing, in order to get to , well –

Yes.

What IS it you actually want to get to?

What is the ACTUAL outcome you’re shooting for here?

Me, I love to be in flow, high vibing, owning my power and truth, tuned in and connected, in integrity and alignment, grounded to my core, acting always FROM what is inside of me, and of course most of all I like to be here, breathing in, being in, SOAKING in, LIVING, in, the NOW.

Life being now and all

And the funny thing is –

I can have all of that. Right here. Right now. Anytime.

I don’t have to write. I don’t have to unleash. I don’t have to do the things I do love to do in order to be EVERYTHING I desire and choose and GET to be.

And the funny thing is –

Neither do you.

You can actually have everything you want.
Everything your soul dreams of.
EVERY damn thing you want to feel and live into and breathe in and BE –
You get to experience right here.
Right now.
It’s a choice, like anything!

You know?

You know.

Which brings me to another point –

You DO know you can stop settling for second best or ANYTHING less than the actual vision of what you want, and you can do so right NOW, yes?

I have no idea if this is possibly relevant to anything I just said, because basically I wrote the title about letting go of needing to settle and I was GOING to start talking about that right away, and then it just somehow turned into quite the massive fucking intro.

WHICH I trust was exactly what you needed to hear and what I needed to say, so, you’re welcome, and thank you!!

But now:

A massive, download to me, for you –

And I was speaking about this yesterday with a client. She was stating her choice to now be okay with speaking up when not happy or in flow in her friendships. Proud of herself for having this realisation that it’s okay to say something when things feel as though they’re not WORKING, like if they’re showing up in a way that doesn’t feel great or doesn’t align.

And I thought –

GREAT. Yes, you certainly DO get to speak up and say what you feel good, or not, about.

But also –

And this is what had me with my mouth hanging slightly open and my face all scrunched up trying to figure it out why she would be talking about how to ‘make something work’, when you could just get to have the thing that, well –

Works.

And I shared with her:

I don’t have that in my friendships. I mean … sure – if something felt off or out of alignment, I WOULD say something, and it would be perfect.

But … it doesn’t happen.

EVERY friendship I have, and for some years now, in fact for so long that I can’t even remember when it WASN’T this way –

Is perfect.
And absolute.
Flow.
Perfection.
Joy.

I GET to have friendships where we are soul aligned fully and ALWAYS.

And in fact …

So do you!!

But let’s talk about where else this plays out –

And this is exactly what my client now gets to do as an exercise, also!

Where – ALL the where’s – are you settling?

Accepting ‘it JUST gets to be this’ –

Instead of ‘oh – no, I GET to have THIS’, and the THIS is –

Well.

EXACTLY WHAT YOU FUCKING DESIRE IT TO BE.

All in.
Fully.
Nothing less!!

And here is what else:

Can you EVEN imagine how fucking magical life gets to be when you simply own ALL of what you desire and also action and allow it in?!!

Freaking amazingly magical, I can tell you!

And I’d love you to SIT into this and consciously CHOOSE to imagine it now. Just feel it gorgeous. Let it wash over you. Let it IMBIBE. Get fucking EXCITED about it. Open up your eyes to the fact that there is literally not a SINGLE area of your life where you HAVE to have ANYTHING.

In fact – just like we spoke about above with flow and writing and time – there IS no HAVE to at all, anywhere!

Which means there is only – “I GET to”

I get to choose
I get to allow
I get to receive

And so then …

What WOULD you choose gorgeous?

What would you INSIST upon, ask for, non-negotiable, only, and fully?

I mean … you can keep on getting pretty good or even damn good, you know?

OR –

You can just ask for full perfect unleashed flow –

Every way
Every day
With nothing you EVER actually have to DO for it
Just because you CAN

You know?

So, I’m not getting a download on how to end this right now so I guess I’ll just say this –

How do you like THEM apples?!

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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