Business Mindset

THE WORST BIZ ADVICE I EVER RECEIVED

Don’t be afraid to keep things personal in your business. Even if your intent is to one day have an audience of millions there is still ALWAYS time to foster real personal connection.

Probably the worst advice I ever got was from a couple of women I once masterminded with who actively spoke with disdain about how people in their audience always thought they had the right to ‘just message them’ and expect a personal reply.

They advised me that, to really ‘go big’ you need to eliminate any idea of letting people access you, obvs unless they pay the big bucks. The idea being that if you’re at Oprah level (or whatever) you wouldn’t have time for that anyway. But it was also a superiority thing; the masses shouldn’t dare to try and touch the previous genius, that sort of vibe.

Ugh.

At the time it didn’t sit well with me at ALL, but I sadly thought maybe they were right, that if I wanted to grow big I needed to pull back on connection. So, I tried to do what they said … for about a MINUTE. It didn’t take. lol. Despite being the world’s biggest natural introvert (like a lot of leaders, messengers, performers), and often not wanting to people too much in real life, I am still ALL about people.

I love talking to them. Hearing from them. Getting to see or feel their excitement, energy, dreaming, or what they’re battling with. It feeds my SOUL. And, I built my first online business to multiple 6-figures per year PURELY through 3 things:

1) Connection

2) Conversation

3) Communication

Yeah, basically they’re all the same thing! Haha. Constantly talking, listening, HANGING with the ladies who followed my first little fledgling blog; seeing them as the equals they of course were rather than as an audience to keep separated from via some kind of online wall and then throw marketing tid-bits over the fence hoping they’d throw money back!

#theidiocy

So yeah … even though I thought maybe these ‘advisors’ of mine at the time knew more than me because back then they were further along, my SOUL knew that a) I couldn’t do that; I’m not interested in a business without a personal conversation, and b) I didn’t really believe in it anyway!

Now, okay, I don’t yet have millions of followers; I have hundreds of thousands though, which is a fair few, and yet I STILL have daily personal conversations with quite a lot of people. No, I also don’t mean only those who have paid for access!! I answer EVERY PM I get. If it’s billing or whatever, my team answer that. But if it’s personal, whether a thank you, a request, or whatever, I promise you: I’m seeing that. And I’m answering, often with an audio note as well (partly ’cause I like audio’s and they’re fun, and partly ’cause I know people don’t believe it’s me necessarily if it’s text!).

I achieved the so-called impossible in this industry – building a business that makes millions of dollars each year, consistently for years now, where I only do what I loved, and it’s been 98% ORGANIC this entire time! Yes, we spend approx 1% only of monthly revenue (which is multi-6-figs) on advertising!! How did I do that?

FUCKING CONVERSATION, CONNECTION, COMMUNICATION. #notrocketscience

This is not time consuming.

If you think it’s too fucking time consuming speaking to people who have the courage, grace, love to message you and share how you’ve impacted them, or if you think you should be so damn cool that people shouldn’t be able to touch you, maybe you need to get out of the business of connecting with PEOPLE.

Sure, you don’t necessarily need to PM every single person who reaches out to you. There are days when I hide out from everyone too. I also am not reactive or responsive to my messages. I go in there on my terms, when it feels expansive for me, and usually only after doing my own stuff, writing, journaling, gym, etc.

I just choose to not see TALKING to people as an energy drain, or an annoyance. lol. I choose that it expands me and gives me energyAnd on a not-so-side-note, you might wanna know that the fact that I do this is, for CERTAIN, one of my most effective and time-saving marketing strategies. I can’t tell you how many times people have become Inner Circle 1:1 clients, or joined a high-level intensive with me, and they’ve referenced the fact I personally replied to their inquiry as being a big tipping point.

I can also think of NUMEROUS counts of people becoming clients of either high-end stuff or in my low-cost programs years AFTER I once audio’d them personally. I know this ’cause they tell me, then I go back in the message thread and see.

Or they emailed the customer support inbox a thank you or a share, often saying something like ‘I know Kat probably will never see this’, and then I personally write back. ALWAYS. I actively encourage people to reply to my emails, yes, even at ‘this level’. And I really mean it!!

The marketing ‘results’, that’s not why I do it though. It’s a great plus, and it does make me think you’re kinda STUPID if your marketing strategy is in any way about removing your damn self from your audience, but for me I do it for the same reason I do anything:

Because I can’t not.

If you don’t want to talk to your own audience, I don’t believe you’re a true leader.

And if in 2019 (or any year where humans are alive and responsive to true connection) you think that being so damn cool you’re unreachable is still a strategy, I don’t think you even understand the damn word leader.

Stop being scared of opening yourself up for connection.

You can have boundaries AF and you can also be a fucking human.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

PS

Programmed to Upgrade is happening gorgeous, and WHOOOOO MAMA is this the work that works.

25 days, you and me, 1:1, to quantum leap like you’ve NEVER leapt before.

This will be intense …

And a lil bit scary. But buckle up, because you KNOW you’re ready for it.

SO fucking ready 😉

Programmed to UPGRADE!

25 Days, 1:1, with Katrina Ruth, to SCREW the Rules, SCREW the Norm, Go So Damn Extra, So Freaking Hot, So Fully SEEN, and Snap Your Future Into the Now So Damn Fast It’d Make Your Head Spin … even as you nod in certainty that of COURSE, this is what was ALWAYS supposed to be ..

Places are already filling, and we begin next week. If you know it’s time to say yes to MAGIC, and creating your reality from the supernatural, and you’re SO ready to drop the paradigm of always having to DO (and yet still not be there!) then message me now.

I’ll get you the full overview, and talk personally with you about whether or not it’s for you.

To the supernatural baby, and beyond …

PPS

I HAVE SOME BIG NEWS TO SHARE!

As of today, I’m opening up the doors to my Inner Circle, my private client mastermind.

This is THE most badass high level mastermind in the world for women who want it all – and are prepared to do what it takes to get it! Really what we’re talking about is being prepared to be the PERSON.

And that’s what I do. I help you remember ALL that you were, and then become it. ALL Of it.

This is my highest level private mentoring circle. The exact place where I have personally mentored dozens of this industry’s most elite female entrepreneurs to break income barriers ranging from 10k months to multiple 7 FIGURE months, and everything in between. But more importantly than that – to become who and what they always were.

But know that this is not only (obviously) not just for the masses, this is also not just for someone who can afford to invest in a high level private coach. Being willing to throw money down is something which has absolutely zero correlation to being somebody who has what it takes to TRULY go next level as a leader.

If anything, in this industry, investing in a high level coach such as myself, is a rite of passage which veers just a little too much on the side of ‘trend’. It’s become something which ‘everybody does’, almost as a way of proving they play business and life a certain way.

Maybe even of trying to prove it to themselves.

Here is the reality which those who I am truly here to personally mentor and lead KNOW, the reality which my clients and all women like me as well as of course me personally have ALWAYS known:

We are VERY VERY DIFFERENT.

We are simply, smarter, faster, and have more presence. We can do more in our minds before breakfast than what most people can do in a freakin’ WEEK, a month, a year.

We are not basic ass coaches trying to heave ho our way up a few extra thou a month.

We are the ones who have ALWAYS known we are 1% within the 1% within the 1% in terms of how we think, create, operate, how and WHAT we are tapped in too.

This is not arrogance, this is fact.

And there has NEVER been any question but that we will go all the way.

My clients are high level badasses who do the work, who have a proven track record BEFORE coming to me, and a BEING-ness which unquestionably separates them from the rest. They don’t come to me to save them or lean down and hold my hand out so they can clamber up. They come because they are, quite simply, ready to go to the next level, already absolutely on their WAY there, and see in me something which they recognise because it is in them.

That ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ fire, and a level of ‘unapologeticness’ which, when truly understood and applied, can literally be the difference between 5-figure or low 6-figure and 7 or multi-7-figure entrepreneur.

So if you know who you are and it is THAT –

And you feel certain that you are ALREADY well on your way to to precisely where you’re meant to be, but that being in MY energy could help you to drop in and get there even faster, and that with a couple of simple tweaks your current revenue could be doubling, tripling, heck QUADRUPLING and beyond in months, as it has done with numerous of my clients previously, well then –

PM me here http://m.me/katrinaruthofficial and we’ll see if it’s a fit. I’m excited to talk to you, and maybe – do biz and life with you.

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