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Success Mindset

MAKING DECISIVE DECISIONS THAT STICK

If you want to make success easy, automated, a ‘done deal’, and simply know that when you say a thing is taken care of then it is taken CARE of and we’re all about to see it pop up completed at any moment now, then you have to find the way that YOU make things non-negotiable.

No matter how much a person understands energetic tethering, accessing results and outcomes from the infinite possibility of the quantum, or even the idea that there is a realm aside from just the physical, EVERY person is effective – excellently so! – at allowing something to be created out of nothing when they fully DECIDE.

For many this only ever happens at the NOT so conscious level, and that’s all it ever will be. Everything that is already in their lives and all that continues to show up is a perfect reflection of conditioned and imprinted beliefs and mindsets, ways their deeper self truly believes the world works, and they will never even awaken to the point of CONSIDERING questioning all of this, wondering if they could change the way life plays out of for them.

For others, and perhaps this is you – it’s MOST driven or, shall we say, ‘somewhat woke’, folks –

You’ve experienced times when you consciously decided to shift, to ‘go next level’, to become that evolved version of you. You’ve laid yourself on the line to create or become something out of nothing, to COMPLETELY revolutionise a pattern or a behaviour or an outcome you decided you were done with. You are one of those people who, in certain areas at least, can say “I used to be X, and now look! I am Y, and you can be too!”

Coaches – this is probably what you sell, and help others with. And even long after you made the shift, you (rightly!) still feel so passionate and excited about it. You can’t HELP but impart the good news to others, “you can change your life, no really, you can!”. You want everybody to understand how easy it is, to, well, let things be easy!

And so you message, and you preach, and you share, and if you’re an online coach or messenger of some kind, you also create products and offers to pass on even more of said good news.

But.

At the same time.

You can’t figure out why in the actual all get out you can’t seem to achieve the same sort of breakthrough results in certain areas of your life.

Why, when you’re so ‘all over it’, in THIS area, do you struggle so much, fall into sabotage or into being led by fear, in THAT area?

When you step into being the observer, or have a quiet moment just you and soul, you can CLEARLY see – and even laugh at! – the way you hold yourself back on this thing. It’s kind of RIDICULOUS, because on a deeper level you truly, but TRULY, know that all things are possible with faith, with certainty, with locking in the outcome, with refusing to let go or back down until the tension builds and bam – !

The thing becomes physical world real.

BUT YET IT’S REPEATEDLY STILL NOT FUCKING WORKING.

Well, there is an answer, I have the answer, and now I’m going to tell you the answer. I’m helpful like that 😉

So here we go:

You have to figure out what YOUR particular system of making things non-negotiable looks like.

No, it is NOT as simple as “I decided, I said ‘fuck the how’, and so therefore it HAD to come to fruition”.

Yep, that’s the crux of it. It is ALL just a matter of deciding. Look back at everything you created supposedly out of nowhere and you’ll see that there was a DECISIVENESS which came into play which, prior to that, simply wasn’t there.

So now you walk around deciding to decide all the time, thinking that that is the answer and you must just need to do it harder. lol. Good luck with that. What you ACTUALLY need to do, well, yes, you DO need to decide, but what comes beneath decision? What is decision inherently ALL wrapped up with?

Underlying.
Fucking.
Motivation!!

There has to be a reason that, no NOT on a human level, NOT on the level of ‘should’ or ‘that’d be cool’, but on a SOUL level, makes sense to you and is actually, but ACTUALLY –

Non-negotiable.

It’s the difference between, for example, DECIDING to make ‘x’ amount of money per month (which actually, NOT sorry to tell ya, it is VERY unlikely your soul gives a fuck about), and DECIDING to meet certain needs or wants which ARE soul divined and desired, and also happen to cost money, and so therefore THE MONEY SHOWS UP.

Because you put out an energetic tether to the actual fucking thing girlfriend, not the thing you think you should be wanting to want.

Sometimes I just think it’s all a big ass game of letting go of trying to want the shit you think you should be seen wanting!

(There is a lot to unpack in that sentence for those playing along at home who actually wanna go deep).

Me, I will always, but ALWAYS, achieve allowing through money for a specific thing which COSTS money, when the thing is soul aligned and ‘non-negotiable’. I will never, but NEVER, achieve allowing money through just for the sake of it, nor for a vague or even a well thought out idea that ‘x’ should be enough to be safe / covered / cool. I guess some people can make money just for the sake of money, that would be true if MONEY ITSELF is what their soul considers non-negotiable.

What do YOU consider non-negotiable?

Me, with my body, not once have I ever achieved ‘getting lean’ or ‘losing weight’ for the sake of it. But hit certain nutrition or fitness goals because of how those things make me FEEL, hell to the yes. My ‘non-negotiable’ in this area, and therefore what I have learned to tether to, as far as throwing out decisions that actually are decided, and stick, is RESULT based on my FEELINGS. Not my visuals.

What do YOU need to tether to?

Typically what is going on, if you’re a person who has achieved certain things because you decided to, and now you can’t seem to replicate it, is that you’re trying to replicate the general idea of making a decision and deciding that said thing had to be ‘done’.

When what you actually need to replicate is the concept of being connected to a true, and soul-meaningful, underlying motivation.

In the end it’s very black and white and has always been as simple as this:

We will achieve or allow through or become whatever is actually non-negotiable to our soul.

The true thing.
The specific thing.
The deeper thing.

If you don’t have everything you want yet it is ACTUALLY as simple as you’ve been too damn lazy to dig in on what ‘everything’ truly means to you, and letting go of all the surface ‘sorta’ / ‘shoulda’ / ‘should want’ shit.

I’d be getting to that today, wouldn’t you?

Waste of bloody time – stupid, too – continuing to try and take action to achieve a bunch of stuff that doesn’t actually mean shit to the true you.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!