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THE THING WITH DESTINY

Are you willing to wait to have it all?

A lot of the time which is wasted and lost, along life’s journey and on the pathway to creating your dreams, is as a result of a flustered ‘I must have it now!’ energy; one which takes you OFF path, out of alignment, and further away from what you want.

Let’s talk about the concept of destiny for a moment, and what it is that’s divined for you.

I know you may be an absolute expert at tuning in, figuring out what’s what, ‘seeing’ the future and then setting out to create it yourself like some sort of puzzle-master, but the thing is with DESTINY –

With living into a calling, a purpose, the ‘life you were born for’ –

You don’t gotta do jack SHIT to make that happen, do you?

Actually.

ACTUALLY, one of the most finite and certain laws of manifestation is that ‘there is nothing you ever need to do’.

Of course, alongside of this truth, is the truth that there is ALWAYS action to take and take it you must, however that is an entirely different thing from MAKING THE FUTURE HAPPEN.

If it’s meant to be,

And it’s destiny,

And it’s just what is written,

Then why on earth would you need to pre-plan or consciously construct the damn thing?

Why too would you ever need to WORRY about it, it’s either written and done, or no, so what good does it do to mentally and energetically try to hold the whole damn thing together?

Answer:

None.

It does no good.

In fact, if you think about it, it is actively COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE to try and make your future happen, particularly in the way which is so easy to slip into, which is with a sort of forced and frenzied energy.

“I gotta have it now, I gotta fix it now, I gotta get there now, I gotta prove myself now, I gotta free myself now!”

It’s this sort of energy which causes people to do things like embark on wild and drastic and ridiculous diets, rather than simply staying the course with the basic stuff that works. You know the kind of diets I mean – the kind that end up blowing up in your face as you self-destruct your way even further down than where you started.

It’s the FRENZY energy which causes people to post all manner of disconnected ra-ra nonsense all over their socials or on their website or to their email list, frantically trying to stir the pot, or get a response, or just eek out some MONEY, aware the entire fucking time that what is actually happening is a continual spin spin spinning on the hamster wheel and you NEVER GET OFF.

People in this energy have this frantic FEEL to them, their eyes are birdy and beady and graspy, their content feels … jittery-making or aggressive … they seem to say all the right things but something is missing.

There is no groundedness.

No SOUL.

No feeling of connection, to truth, to depth.

No ROOTS.

And in that person’s bank account?

No money, or very little.

Because the people who you’re trying to impact don’t respond to FRENZY or FRANTIC or “fuck, I better whip some shit together and flog it to ya”.

Surprise surprise. lol.

The frantic and frenzied energy is the same energy which causes people to fall into dating situations or, God forbid, more, which they damn straight know from the get go need a stop put to ’em. But – “what if I don’t find someone?”, or “but I just really want someone NOWWWWWWWW”!

And so they ‘make it work’.

They cover their eyes and ears and la-la-la their way past all the obvious and certain red flags.

They REFUSE TO STAY THE COURSE.

And to wait on what is right, aligned, divined.

Again, consider –

If you know it is aligned, divined, and meant to be, then please, for the love of God, WHY WOULD YOU NEED TO TRY AND MAKE IT HAPPEN?!

Now think about this –

It’s your making it happen which makes it NOT happen.

Because the moment you go into ‘how do I make this work’, in any area of your life, you take yourself AWAY from that single-minded focus where you have your eyes locked on the horizon,

The vision locked in,

And you’re simply ALIGNING TO SAID VISION.

Which is actually what the entire damn live your dreams / have it all / be who you’re meant to be and live your DESTINY thing is all about.

The entire thing is simply a process of ALIGNMENT.

You’re either aligning to something –

Or away from it.

And do you know what’s inherent to this whole process?

No need to pretend you don’t, and no need to get grumpy at me either, yeah I KNOW we have talked of this before and guess what girl – there’s a reason for that!

TRUST.

Alignment inherently contains trust. The process of moving ever further INTO alignment. And also the state of being in alignment. Let’s not forget, too, that being in alignment can never be a steady or ‘done’ state, it’s about continual adjustment. Just like how a plane is always off course and yet it arrives at its destination. Because it is continually aligning.

Are YOU?

Here is the thing with destiny –

Yes, you will need to ‘be the person’.

You will need to ‘do what it takes’.

You will need to show up, do the damn work, ALL of it.

But none of this is about moving into some sort of overly hyped up rara ‘now I’m gonna make it all happen, just watch!’ energy.

Sometimes for sure it may be about PUSHING, going HARD, of course. That’s some of the most fun stuff!

But sometimes,

And what I’m trying to say here mainly today,

It’s about waiting.

Because here is the one thing we’ve not yet said:

If there’s nothing you ever need to do, to create your outcomes, but yet there is always action that can be taken, well, then, what the frick are you meant to do and how do you know?

And the answer is simple:

You tune in.
Moment by moment.
And you ASK – 
“What am I meant to know, understand, act on, or choose right now?”

What’s happening here and why so many of you continue to fail to reach your dreams is that when the answer comes back WAIT, or be STILL, or do NOTHING, you DON’T.

You don’t believe it.
Or you don’t want to hear it.
Or you’re too FEAR led to be able to handle it.

And so instead you go and stir up a whole lot of muck and nonsense, clouding the vision and automatically taking you OFF path and into the swamp, from whence many of you apparently seem to NEVER desire to return.

If you nodded your head when I said ‘alignment inherently contains trust’, then you would know that that also means trusting when guided to wait.

Because in the end, you either believe it’s meant to be and so there IS nothing you need to do except for to use this moment right here for what you are SHOWN it’s for, or?

You’re gonna have a helluva busy and exhausting life.

As you chop and hack and thrust your way through the jungle of life, being the hardest pushing and most gung-ho one of all.

When the whole damn time the path of flow was just a metre or two away.

And today I urge you:

Don’t be that person.

Your DESTINY depends on it.

Instead?

Say yes to trust.

Use each moment ONLY for that which you are shown it must be for.

LISTEN, to what’s coming through you.

And STFU with your fear-mind drivel about why you can’t possibly, what if this, and what if that.

WHAT if you knew you were taken care of,
And that all you had to do was be you?

Remember,

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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