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Success Mindset

What Do You Actually Want?

It’s really hard to be honest with yourself about what you actually want, isn’t it? I don’t mean the obvious stuff … of course you want more money, more time, more freedom, more choice. Who doesn’t?! But that’s a pretty vague list of stuff if all you can do is say it like that, and it doesn’t really have any specific meaning to YOU.

If you want to achieve incredible and out of the ordinary stuff in your life and truly be able to say you have it all, you’re doing it all, you ARE all that you could ever want to be then you have to get crystal clear on what all of that would LOOK like. You have to be honest with yourself about exactly what you want – to the smallest detail – and precisely how you’d like to make that happen, and you also have to be honest with yourself about what you DON’T want.

This level of introspection and honesty can be very confronting and uncomfortable. You might feel like you’re being selfish or arrogant, or else you wonder how it’s possible, or you’re scared of what it’s going to take, or it just seems so far away that really can’t FEEL it, and so it’s easier to put off your big dream goalsetting for another day, another time, another life. It’s easier to KID yourself that you’re taking action each day when what you’re really doing is busily avoiding a DELIBERATELY created future.

But here’s the thing:

You’re going to be busy anyway, right?

Time is going to pass anyway …  right?

You’re going to struggle and even perhaps suffer, and you’re going to endure and you’re going to Get Shit Done anyway … right?!

So why not do so deliberately?

Why not make the daily TOIL based on deliberately creating a business, a life, a you that you really really REALLY want?!

I know I said it’s hard to be honest with yourself about what you really want, but I think the hard part is actually getting over the RESISTANCE around just sitting down and doing so.

So let’s NOT talk about it anymore, okay? Because I could very well write an entire post right now seeking to inspire you and empower you with the idea that you CAN have and be and do it all if only you decide what ‘it all’ is for you and then you set your mind to making it happen, but you know what? I think you already know that. And I think you need to today DO something about it.

Like this:

1. Get out your journal, or open up a new file. Write out EVERYTHING you want to be, do and have within 7 years from now. 7 years is a GREAT ‘long-term’ goalsetting timeframe. You can achieve practically anything in 7 years and setting goals for that far out, while possibly daunting, gives you permission to TRULY dream your dreams and not feel panicked at how the frick you’re supposed to do all THAT so quickly.

2. Take your 7 year goals and break them down into 1 year goals. Pretty simple. Keep the categories of ‘be and do and have’. Make sure you’ve covered all the areas of your life that matter to YOU.

3. Take your 1 year goals and break them down into 1 month goals. It’s okay to start small! If you take action each month on your 1 year be and do and have goals then guess what? You just might actually achieve them. And if you achieve your 1 year goals and then set new ones also in keeping with your 7 year goals, and then you do those as well, then guess what? You just might achieve your EVERY dream!

4. Take your 1 month goals and break ’em down into goals for this week

5. Take your 1 week goals and decide what are the MAXIMUM 3 key items you need to do today

I know this is a much more clinical sort of post than what I normally write for you, but honestly, success is a very simple beast, and if you’re not currently getting to where you want to go then it is pretty much DEFINITE that you’re not adequately or regularly defining where that is and then ACTING accordingly.

One of the most powerful ways to achieve your every dream is simply to decide what that dream is, and all that it entails, put it uppermost in your mind on a daily basis, and then do the required work each day to get it.

So enough fucking around, yeah?

Enough waiting and wondering when you’re going to get your shit together and how you’re going to get ‘there’.

Enough spending day after day NOT acting deliberately, not creating deliberately, and

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/