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Success Mindset

What Do You Actually Want?

It’s really hard to be honest with yourself about what you actually want, isn’t it? I don’t mean the obvious stuff … of course you want more money, more time, more freedom, more choice. Who doesn’t?! But that’s a pretty vague list of stuff if all you can do is say it like that, and it doesn’t really have any specific meaning to YOU.

If you want to achieve incredible and out of the ordinary stuff in your life and truly be able to say you have it all, you’re doing it all, you ARE all that you could ever want to be then you have to get crystal clear on what all of that would LOOK like. You have to be honest with yourself about exactly what you want – to the smallest detail – and precisely how you’d like to make that happen, and you also have to be honest with yourself about what you DON’T want.

This level of introspection and honesty can be very confronting and uncomfortable. You might feel like you’re being selfish or arrogant, or else you wonder how it’s possible, or you’re scared of what it’s going to take, or it just seems so far away that really can’t FEEL it, and so it’s easier to put off your big dream goalsetting for another day, another time, another life. It’s easier to KID yourself that you’re taking action each day when what you’re really doing is busily avoiding a DELIBERATELY created future.

But here’s the thing:

You’re going to be busy anyway, right?

Time is going to pass anyway …  right?

You’re going to struggle and even perhaps suffer, and you’re going to endure and you’re going to Get Shit Done anyway … right?!

So why not do so deliberately?

Why not make the daily TOIL based on deliberately creating a business, a life, a you that you really really REALLY want?!

I know I said it’s hard to be honest with yourself about what you really want, but I think the hard part is actually getting over the RESISTANCE around just sitting down and doing so.

So let’s NOT talk about it anymore, okay? Because I could very well write an entire post right now seeking to inspire you and empower you with the idea that you CAN have and be and do it all if only you decide what ‘it all’ is for you and then you set your mind to making it happen, but you know what? I think you already know that. And I think you need to today DO something about it.

Like this:

1. Get out your journal, or open up a new file. Write out EVERYTHING you want to be, do and have within 7 years from now. 7 years is a GREAT ‘long-term’ goalsetting timeframe. You can achieve practically anything in 7 years and setting goals for that far out, while possibly daunting, gives you permission to TRULY dream your dreams and not feel panicked at how the frick you’re supposed to do all THAT so quickly.

2. Take your 7 year goals and break them down into 1 year goals. Pretty simple. Keep the categories of ‘be and do and have’. Make sure you’ve covered all the areas of your life that matter to YOU.

3. Take your 1 year goals and break them down into 1 month goals. It’s okay to start small! If you take action each month on your 1 year be and do and have goals then guess what? You just might actually achieve them. And if you achieve your 1 year goals and then set new ones also in keeping with your 7 year goals, and then you do those as well, then guess what? You just might achieve your EVERY dream!

4. Take your 1 month goals and break ’em down into goals for this week

5. Take your 1 week goals and decide what are the MAXIMUM 3 key items you need to do today

I know this is a much more clinical sort of post than what I normally write for you, but honestly, success is a very simple beast, and if you’re not currently getting to where you want to go then it is pretty much DEFINITE that you’re not adequately or regularly defining where that is and then ACTING accordingly.

One of the most powerful ways to achieve your every dream is simply to decide what that dream is, and all that it entails, put it uppermost in your mind on a daily basis, and then do the required work each day to get it.

So enough fucking around, yeah?

Enough waiting and wondering when you’re going to get your shit together and how you’re going to get ‘there’.

Enough spending day after day NOT acting deliberately, not creating deliberately, and

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!