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Success Mindset

STOP TRYING TO PASS ‘FUCK, MAYBE’ OFF AS FUCK YES

The feeling of fuck yes is unmistakeable, it’s a sensation which you INSTANTLY recognise and know, which lights and expands and fuels and elevates you in a way that simply can’t be FAKED, and if you’re not feeling it through every part of who you’re being and what you’re right now allowing in?

Then girl you on track to somebody else’s dream maybe but sure as heck not YOURS.

Let’s get real here:

NONE of what you’re chasing is the outcome you think it is.

You allow yourself to be seduced day after day by ideas of what will get you money, or already is –

Of what will get your body a little leaner or tighter, or already is –

Of what will get you attention and something resembling intimacy, or already is –

Of all of the different ways in which you can check the boxes, climb the mountain, receive critical acclaim from people you respect or think you should, get a gold fucking star for having ACHIEVED and ‘done life well’ –

And NONE of it is what you’re actually looking for anyway!

You think money is going to fix your issues of not feeling free?

You think dropping a few, or even having the hottest bod going around is going to result in you FEELING hot?

You think that having EVERYONE screaming your name and lovin’ on you, or even collecting an inner circle of pretty damn cool friends or clients or lovers is going to mean you feel SEEN, loved, heard?

You think that if you are the first and the best and the top at EVERYTHING and the whole world agrees that it will come close to fulfilling even a teeny percentage of what you’re longing for, craving, YEARNING after?

No.

It won’t.
It won’t.
It won’t.
It won’t.

And if you continue to chase after this stuff, certain that getting there will get you somewhere INTERNALLY, then you’re even crazier than you think you are. And not in the good way. You’re so damn off the track of your purpose-driven life you don’t even know there IS a track, and you are chasing.the wrong.fucking.life.

No need to feel bad, it’s an easy mistake to make … and one that pretty much everyone does … but when awareness kicks in, if you don’t then do something about it, well –

I guess it’s just that when push comes to shove you choose fear over faith.

Fear over fulfilment.

And worst of all, fear over fuck yes.

Because here is what we know about what you ACTUALLY want.

You want fuck yes, in all areas.

You want to feel lit up, expanded, MORE of yourself, and free.

You want to feel like you’re floating on a cloud of awesome, fuck that you ARE the damn cloud of awesome!

You want to feel giggly and playful and as though you’re dancing with life itself.

You want to be dropped so damn deep into the truest essence of you and your divine feminine or masculine, so deep in that there was never even a QUESTION that you were being all of you.

You want to feel CERTAIN.

You want to feel SAFE.

You want to feel HELD.

You want to feel seen, and known, and heard.

You want to feel as though life itself has your back and you’re just along for the ride; all you need to do is be you and that everything, EVERYTHING, is just.fucking.perfect.

And if this is all true (and I know it is) then I gotta tell you that NONE of this.

NONE of it.

Not a single little bit.

Has anything to do with:

How much money you earn, or debt you get rid of, or ‘wealth’ you build.

What shape or size your booty or any other bit of you is, and whether or not it fits what Instagram says it should.

How many people think you’re badass and awesome.

Or even how many of ’em want to be extra close to you and love on you!

It doesn’t matter how many gold stars you pin to your life chart baby if most or God forbid all of ’em came at the cost of feeling that unmistakeable feeling of FUCK YES.

The feeling which, when it shows up, makes you suddenly realise how little ANYTHING else matters and how you don’t.fucking.care.

You don’t care how much that guy wined and dined you or how ‘hot’ he was or good on paper, he didn’t make you feel like THAT.

You don’t CARE how much money that other shit made you, it didn’t light and lift and excite you like THIS.

You don’t CARE how many people thought you were the hottest shit ever, you weren’t being even a SHADOW of who you were really!

All those years fighting to get your body to look right in God knows whose eyes but yet never actually loving her or allowing her to breathe, to even BE.

All that time spent fighting so hard to build a business but the foundation was anything BUT you.

All that time spent work work working your way to be safe with money when SAFETY –

Was not and never could be reflective of money in the bank but can ONLY be reflective of yes.

This is where I am supposed to be.

And YES.

This is who I AM supposed to be.

And YES.

This is HOW it is supposed to be.

You KNOW what I’m talking about.

And you know,
where right now,
you’re saying yes to ‘fuck, MAYBE’
and trying to pass it off as fuck yes.

I’m not talking about the areas where it is WILDLY obvious you’re off track (although sure, I’d probably do something about them as well!!), I’m talking about the ones where you are, in theory, close enough to the track that you can almost ALMOST convince yourself that you’re on it.

Where you’ve done a damn good job at calling in or creating or allowing or believing and showing you can have ‘it’, but what you’ve actually created or allowed is a shadow of what you really dream of.

And maybe it’s been so long since you felt true butterflies, true OMG, true how could I not, true FUCK yes, that you’ve nearly forgotten.

And you nearly believe your own bullshit.

The thing is though,

even when we close our eyes real tight and squeeze everything and wish upon a star that we’re creating the right life and list out 1000 things that prove we are –

If we’re not?

We know we’re not.

And that’s just how it is.

There ain’t no lying to soul baby, and there NEVER WAS.

So maybe you’re scared that you can’t have what you really want, that life couldn’t be so good, that YOU couldn’t get there, be that person, have it like that; I get it.

But aren’t you more scared that it was always there the whole entire time waiting for you –

That all you had to do was say no to anything that’s not that –

And that you’ll end your life knowing you never even really tried?

The truth is you know it’s there, and you’ve always known.

And as for when you’ll see it?

When you refuse to see anything else.

Stop trying to pass ‘fuck, maybe’ off as fuck yes. It does NOT look good on you.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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