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Success Mindset

WHEN YOU’RE SCARED, AND FEAR IS WINNING OVER FAITH, CONNECT BACK TO SOUL, LIKE THIS

When you’re scared, your insecurities are rising, the death-grip of fear and ‘what if’ ruling you, and you kinda sort are TRYING to ignore but absolutely KNOW –

Fear is winning over faith –

The answer is always, connect back to soul.

Did you know – 
That every move you make, every step you take, every decision you turn INTO, or AWAY from, can either be faith-driven –

Or fear bound?

It’s not difficult to see, in others, where fear has them by the short and curlies and OH so locked up.

They anguish over every little thing that is said or not said about them, to them, by them, by the world at large.

They alternately think that EVERYTHING revolves around them and is about them –

Or that NOBODY cares about them and they’re not noticed or important at all.

They let ego be in charge on the daily, constantly and failingly trying to prove they’re good enough, cool enough, have done enough, should be listened to or liked, and please – !

Don’t leave me, forget me, turn away from!

Please SEE me, please NOTICE me, please HEAR me, please VALIDATE me screams out of their every pore.

What they’re really saying, of course, is just one thing:

Please say it’s okay for me to exist.

Of course when I talk about seeing it in OTHERS, I’m really only speaking of seeing it in ourselves, aren’t I?

It’s not possible anyhow, to see in others something which does not exist in ourselves.

So, there’s that 

And here is what else:

These patterns we play into, they visit upon us for a reason.

perhaps you notice yourself
running scared
unable to fully breathe
when you think about something you want OH so bad!
when you let the worry play out, that surely you’re going to somehow FUCK IT UP
or when you let that voice of fear inside of you rule SO much that you even start to wonder –

Maybe I should walk away?
Before it gets PROVEN to me that I’m not good enough for this?
Or perhaps I can just sneakily SABOTAGE it, yes, that’s it, that’ll work! Not on purpose of course, oh no! Your CONSCIOUS mind isn’t even part of this conversation. (THAT would be crazy …!)

But inside, somewhere, a decision has been made –

JUST when it’s gettin’ to real good.
And I’m flowing and flying and feeling my way through faith and soul and yes –
Imma gonna lose my shit about something
Or just stop showing up
Or throw my toys out of the crib and wail and gnash about it

SO THERE

That way, well, it can never be proven that it WAS too good to be true for me to live like this, have a business like this, make money like this, do LIFE like this, because after all –

I’ll have a perfectly reasonable and justified excuse as to WHY IT DIDN’T WORK AND NEVER COULD.

And here is how this might be playing out for you, right now –

– You make a lot of money, you’re able to be on top of EVERYTHING for a minute and a half, and then you crash it the fuck back down again and suddenly can’t even afford coffee

– You get into shit hot amazing shape, JUST, or NEARLY, and then you start mainlining sugar like it’s going out of fashion and it’s your sole job to save the world from it, or else you just get yourself all in a tizzy and CONVINVED you’re getting fatter by the day no matter what, and so, well, well done – you create it

– Your relationship is in calm and alignment and flow and then you decide it’d be a good idea to randomly just apply your old stories, bullshit, insecurities, drama, whatever into THIS situation, make something out of nothing, and then blame the other person for it just ’cause, I dunno? It was going too well? Just in case? To get in first, before it can be shown that your deepest fear is true and you’re not worthy of love OR the right to exist? All of it? Yikes!

– You have an influx of soulmate clients, your program is selling like a mofo, you’re IN that creative superflow zone and you KNOW you are magic, and then you just, hmmm … stop getting back to people. Quit taking care of your existing clients properly. Don’t even follow up with the ones who are reaching out to inquire. And just to be doubly sure everything ramps down again, you quit messaging | showing up | unleashing your art.

But here is the problem with all of THAT, well the problem aside from the fact that it’s all a FABULOUS way to screw up your LIFE and never get what you want or is aligned for you –

The PROBLEM is, you can run run run run RUN from the world, from your clients, from your business, from your relationships, from money, from joy and peace and happiness and just LETTING it be easy, you can run your whole LIFE from faith based living, if you like, but you can NEVER –

Run from your art.
And the true beat of your heart.

Which drums over and over and OVER again into your soul the deep and unavoidable and at times INFURIATING knowledge –

That like it or not and try to hide from it or not, BABY YOU WERE BORN FOR ALL OF THIS.

God damn it 

You can stomp your feet about it all you like when fear is rising hard, you can try and insist to yourself and anybody else who’ll listen that your fears are valid and worthy, you can repeat sabotage, repeat crash shit down, repeat come at life from insecurity and WHAT IF I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH, but the TRUTH of the matter is you freakin’ KNOW –

You’re buying into a bullshit story.

You’re consciously choosing OUT of faith, when it’s always available.

You’re BEING A BIG OLD CRYBABY ABOUT YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, and if you’re not careful?

You’re gonna go ahead and prove yourself right.

Want evidence that you’re NOT worthy, that it CAN’T be this good, that you CAN’T make money from your soul work, have only fuck yes clients, get paid to just breathe and BE, have it be THIS damn good in all areas, PLUS a cherry on top?

GOOD NEWS! You are MORE than capable of finding evidence for all of that, and then some!

You’re DOING it right now.

And you’d ALMOST get away with believing it really WAS just how it had to be, too, if it weren’t for the fact that through it all and no matter how fucking full on it all seems you DO JUST KNOW.

That if you dropped the story.
If you consciously pushed fear aside.
If you came back to your core, and the deep truths which have always been there.

Then EVERYTHING you want and dream of with such deep longing –

Is actually available for you.
Is available for you now.
And that there’s nothing you have to do or prove to get it, have it, be it.

You can spend your whole damn life not feeling good enough, if you like.

And maybe you will.

BUT that actually has nothing to do with whether or not you bring to life what’s inside of you.

AND you know it.

How to stop being scared, quit letting fear win over faith, connect back to your SOUL, and have everything you dream of be your everyday norm?

It’s NOT about getting past all your human shit.

It’s about realising that even in the thick of it all –

Yes, even while you’re feeling all of this –

Even while you are TERRIFIED and unsure and you don’t know if you CAN –

You can still fucking decide.

To connect to soul.

To press pause.

To get into the truth BENEATH the fear.

YOU HAVE ACCESS TO THAT ALWAYS.

It’s there for you right now.

And then?

Well, isn’t it OBVIOUS?

You act as the motherfucking version of you who KNOWS that everything she feels inside of her is real, available, possible, even in SPITE of the story.

And you go fucking get it.

IT REALLY IS THIS SIMPLE.

Wanna bet?

You only gotta lay down your life …

Either way –

You already are 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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