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Success Mindset

DREAM LIFE, OR BUST

One of the most insidious, most dangerous, most destructive, most ‘there sounds the death-knell of destiny’, most IDIOTIC beliefs you can buy into, is that you can’t really have the ALL of it version of your dreams.

That it would be too much to expect this PLUS this plus also THAT and then that STILL, on top of it!

And that really, oh, no really, yes, yes, really, you mean it, you’d be SO happy to just have ‘this’.

After all, it’d be a huge leap up from where you are now – !

And certainly nothing to turn your nose up at – !

And so, even as in the back of your mind you know what your ideal is, THE fantasy, the full colour vision of your dreams, you gradually align your expectations and your COMMITMENT to a lesser version.

A little less bright.
A little less sparkly.
A few bits and bobs missing.
Couple of elements that are not so savoury, but hey hey – you can’t have it all!

The thing is though –

YOU absolutely CAN have it all, you’ve always known this and at your core you don’t doubt it! Yet, almost without noticing it, the bullshit of your FEAR-mind has somewhere along the way taken over, and bit by bit, day by day, slowly but surely, INSIDIOUSLY, like I mentioned –

You dial back the dream.
You dull the fantasy.
You remove depth, and light, and really, anything necessary from your vision, and as you do so, you continually ask your unconscious mind –

“Is that enough? Have I taken off enough of the bling bling, have I dimmed the dream and my own light adequately yet? IS THE PICTURE NOW ACCEPTABLE FOR YOU?! Am I worthy of THIS lesser version? No? How about this then? This? Okay, no problem, I’ll carve off a little bit more!”

Until eventually, the vision of your one day fantasy, your dream life, PRETTY much neatly matches the exact level at which you long ago contracted with fear to play life at.

And you, the fool, didn’t even notice that rather than dialling UP your expectations and beliefs you were always always just matching ’em back down.

All the while telling yourself a story that “oh, oh, no, I JOURNAL. I write my affirmations out! I continually check in with soul, and higher self. I follow the aligned path, and I create my REALITY baby!”

And the devil, who is always lurking, always seeking to get a foothold, always waiting for an opening, a pause, a little moment of doubt, a reveal of possible weakness, just sits back and LAUGHS UPROARIOUSLY.

So cute, that she actually thinks she’s taking charge here!
So sweet, the way she forcefully posts all over Facebook about what she’s creating!
So FUNNY, that she continues to use wording to imply she’s actually expanding into her truth, when all she is EVER doing is settling back down, down down down, into the lower rung places we agreed upon!

Can I tell you something?

The only way to get to where you are meant to be, to drop into DESTINY, is the same as it has ever been:

Hold the actual motherfucking vision.
Refuse to back down.
Refuse to be swayed.
RUTHLESSLY eliminate everything which does not FULLY support that. Either by keeping your blinders on and just ‘la la la’ ignoring it (the la la la is you singing merrily as you cover your ears and your eyes and your mouth from evil and continue on your own damn path) –

or by actively DELETING it.

Oh, what’s that now? You should at least consider, be open to, think about, weigh up?

NO! NO BITCH NO.

Close your damn mind, keep it closed in on your TRUTH, and don’t for a SECOND even consider considering jack shit! Except for the consideration that if you simply refuse to be available for less than ALL of it –

Then that is where you will end up!

Oh, what’s that now? Maybe you’re OKAY with a slightly lesser version, because frankly you’re TIRED and you just wouldn’t mind a bit of a win … you can always next level that shit next month … this will be a great stepping stone … maybe you’ll learn what you need to in order to create the TRUE vision by starting with this one?!

NO.

Want to know how to end up with NOTHING, by which I mean, sure, you may well have and be a bunch of shit that other people consider the shit, but YOU go to bed each night dying inside –

ACCEPT SOMETHING WHICH IS EVEN 0.01% LESS THAN YOUR ACTUAL DREAM.

The best way to have life hold EVERYTHING from you, to feel as though no matter how far ahead you get you are STILL fucking struggling, drowning, softly DYING, is to shoot for something even ever so slightly less than the all of the ALL that you see inside of you.

Why?

Manifestation don’t work on anything other than the actual damn thing sister.

And no matter what your FEAR mind may try to convince you and every other poor person you’re spouting off to about it, your SOUL knows the actual damn thing that it sees, feels, longs for, and the thing about knowing is –

There ain’t no un-knowing.

Which is a little bit of a bitch, to be sure, but hey –

What can you do?

Well, I’ll tell you what you can do! You can continue to shoot for a shadow version, telling yourself it’s enough, and NEVER experiencing freedom or fulfilment no matter how much ‘success’ you reach, because there’s really nothing that tastes as vile as the taste of aligning to the wrong fucking life, no matter how pretty it looks on the outside –

Or you can throw your hands to the heavens, decide to finally SURRENDER, and shout OKAY THEN.

Okay.

I’m going for the all of the ALL of it.

FINALLY.

I’m going to give in to EVERYTHING I see inside of me.

FINALLY.

I’m going to stop compromising, settling, sacrificing, believing that I’m not good enough to have MY WHOLE DREAM, telling myself I must be making shit up, that it’s ‘too much’, and I’m going to CLAIM WHAT WAS ALWAYS MINE.

When you do this, and MEAN it, the heavens will open, angels will sing, gold dust will rain down upon you, a hot as fuck man will appear from nowhere with a glass of Grange Hermitage, and your every wish will be granted from here on out!

Well, nah. Actually what will happen is you’ll be in the VOID baby, you will have let go of your ‘fuck, maybe’ life in order to all through the fuck YES you know you get to have, and it will feel like the most incredible thing you’ve ever experienced, except also, absolutely –

The most terrifying.

As though you’re just suspended in time and space, you let go of everything that wasn’t quite right, so where the fuck is your dream life? Nowhere to be seen! MotherFUCKER!

Dream life or bust though baby, isn’t that what it’s about?

What, you REALLY want to be able to get to the end and say you won at the WRONG FUCKING GAME?

I didn’t think so.

You NEVER wanted that.

But at some point you are going to have to be brave enough to act fucking accordingly! And by some point?

I mean now.

Because here’s the thing –

I’m not telling you anything you don’t know. This whole time, as you’ve been letting yourself shrink down a little with each internal compromise, slowly chipping off chunks of your own soul as you tell yourself maybe you can’t REALLY, you’ve also known –

You absolutely fucking can.
You absolutely fucking will.
The day will come when you’re finally ready to give in to being all of you, and to accepting NOTHING other than the all that you see inside of you, in all areas.

DEEP DOWN WHERE IT MATTERS AND WHERE YOU REALLY DON’T LOOK OFTEN ENOUGH, YOU’VE ALWAYS KNOWN THIS!

The thing is though –

It really doesn’t matter what you’ve always known, if you’re not pressing play on it right now. When you get to the Gates of Heaven, it’s not going to mean jack shit that you ‘always knew’. What’s going to matter, and what you will RECEIVE based on, is what did you give your life for?

Guess what?

There’s a gate right in front of you right now. You gonna be who you gotta be to get to walk through, and forsake ALL in your life that doesn’t line up, WILLINGLY enter the void and trust you are taken care of the way it was always meant to be?

Or you gonna continue to try your hand at winning the wrong fucking life?

Have it all.
Or have nothing.

These are your choices.

And, as always –

You already chose

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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