Success Mindset

THE WHOLE DAMN POINT IS THAT NOT EVERYBODY IS GONNA HAVE IT ALL

There’s been some talk in my group lately, about spending money that’s not there in order to look the part, or about whether successful coaches are just trying to make money by selling a pipe-dream, about whether everybody is just buying in to this ‘cool club’ thang, the world of online luxe, location free, where you can have it all, on your terms, and MAYBE IT’S A SCAM!

Now –

Firstly:

I want to be clear that the posts I’m referencing were AWESOME posts, and I really love and honour the ladies who wrote them. They showed incredible awareness and ‘owning of one’s shit’. Respect!

Me writing this is in no way about those women being anything but badasses.

God knows I myself did the months (ha! years!) of spending money I didn’t have in order to be good enough, cool enough, look the part, and / or try and CONVINCE myself that I was abundant. Etc.

I also certainly questioned, many MANY times, in the period in my business where I was over 100k in debt, staring bankruptcy in the eye, had sold my EVERYTHING just to stay afloat, and could at times not even buy COFFEE –

let alone food, or make rent –

– whether or not I was ever REALLY going to get there.

But at no time.

At NO time.

At NO fucking time did I question whether my EVERY dream, having it ALL, completely on my terms, was AVAILABLE, or possible.

And if I’m honest? I never actually DID even question whether it was available or possible for ME, specifically. My faith was SEVERELY tested at times, yes. But it was always there. When I say I questioned whether or not I was ever really going to get there, really what I was questioning was whether it was actually supposed to be THIS FUCKING PAINFUL AND SCARY, as well as for the love of God and coffee and ALLL the wine – !

How much fucking LONGER was it going to take?!

But no.

I never questioned –

If I could have it all – 
On my terms – 
Bring every dream inside of me to life – 
BE the leader I knew I was meant to be – 
Make millions and impact millions and even change the WORLD, all whilst simply waking up and being me and doing what I WANT!

I KNEW.
I knew that I knew that I KNEW, in my heart of hearts, since before I was even FORMED into human form, that this was who I was meant to be.

And that it would happen.

So. Two things:

1) As far as whether there are coaches out there just trying to sell a pipe dream and ‘scam’ hapless souls into believing they can have it all, all while rubbing their OWN money-stained hands together in glee?

NO.
I happen to believe this is not a thing.
Yeah, there’s a ton of methods to coaching or leading that don’t resonate with me; a lot that I personally would (and did, before I found my own way) run a million miles from.

But no. I don’t believe people are out there trying to feed on the souls of others by selling fake dreams.

And I don’t especially find that it would be a useful thing TO believe, for you, would it now?

Never mind that it would NEGATE PERSONAL FUCKING RESPONSIBILITY. Which is basically like saying you don’t get to choose your own outcomes. So yeah … there’s that.

2) THE WHOLE GOD DAMN POINT IS THAT NOT EVERYBODY IS GONNA HAVE IT ALL … OR IS MEANT TO

The entire God damn point of being the 1% within the 1% is that NOT EVERYBODY IS GONNA DO THAT, nor CAN they.

I mean … seriously now! That’s just math! Can’t have 1% within the 1% (WITHIN the 1%, really!), if EVERYBODY is up there!

It doesn’t work that way.

It has NEVER worked that way.

It WILL never work that way.

And here is what I want to say to those out there still STRUGGLING, wondering when their time will come –

Laying down money they don’t have ’cause apparently that’s what abundance looks like –

Buying into course after course or mentoring after mentoring because there’s a dream they believe in and see as ‘theirs’ being sold with it –

Watching the leaders, the successful ones, LIVE in luxury, as VIFPs, location free, and ONLY do what they want, whilst being fully supported all day every day –

ETCETERA –

What I want to say is this:

DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

Frankly, for ME, it was the RIGHT thing to do to go into debt on endless mentoring, as well as some ‘fancy’ shit along the way. I have spent well over half a million dollars on mentoring. Over 250k of this was WHILE I WAS STILL LIVING HAND TO MOUTH (credit!) and could sometimes not buy $30 of food. I would do it EXACTLY the same way again.

Do I recommend that, to everybody?

I don’t recommend ANYTHING, to anybody, except for this:

Know who you fucking are.
Act accordingly, whatever that is for YOU.

For me it felt scary, endless, terrifying at times, exhausting, yes I questioned if I was ‘wrong’, I hid how bad the money stuff was from my husband at the time, I JUST managed to keep my head above water day to day, for ages, and I would DO IT AGAIN THAT WAY.

I fucking KNEW who I was.

I KNEW I’d tell these stories one day.

I KNEW nothing was going to stop me.

I KNEW I would break through, and succeed, because that is who I AM, and when I fucking decided to live this life I MEANT it.

I invested every penny I did have and many I didn’t, into coaches ‘selling the dream’. Some of them helped me more than I could ever thank them for. Others, the way they helped me was by teaching me to believe in mySELF in the first place, when I realised I’d signed up with them NOT from alignment, and that what they were teaching did not align to ME.

At no point –

NO point –

Did it ever remotely occur to me to blame a coach –

Or say that what I got from them didn’t work –

Or anything like that.

My belief has always been, will always be – every dollar I invest is returned to me over and over again, 10x, 100x, 1000x and beyond, with money as well as other things.

How can I be sure of this?

BECAUSE I FUCKING CHOOSE IT.

And take responsibility.

When I was in the depths of oh my fucking God WHEN will it end, I took hope and GREAT inspiration from the coaches, mentors, or leaders, who I followed, who were already DOING the thing that I knew I could one day do.

The leading bit itself –

Or the money and lifestyle –

Whatever.

At no point in time did I think that this might be steering me into false promise.

But does that mean it’s available to everyone?

Well, available? Yes.

Gonna happen?

HELL NO.

Duh.

So again I will say to you –

WHO ARE YOU AND DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

I knew who I am.

I knew that if ‘they’ could have it so could I.

But, that’s not enough.

You have to know that if somebody else can have it, be it, do it, then so too can you, but there’s more to it than that, because the only thing that will actually GET you there is this:

You have to fucking know that you won’t say die until you do get there.

And you have to mean it so hard that you can hand on your heart say you’re willing to do what it takes, no matter what it takes, until it takes or UNTIL YOU DIE.

If you don’t mean it that hard, but for REAL –

Then yeah.
Look at the luxe life pics.
Look at those who have it all.
Look at or read the stories of those who spent money they didn’t have, who acted ‘from’ where they knew they were meant to be, who chose INTO abundance even though the practical side of that often seemed reckless – 

And sure.

Say that it leads people astray, and sells a false dream.

But as you do, just remember –

People can’t actually be led anywhere.

And as for selling a false dream –

I guess that depends what kind of people we’re talking about –

But I guess all that really matters is which kind of person are you?

As a coach, I’ve always been clear, and I’ll say it again –

No.
Not everybody can or will live this life or is even MEANT to. Yeah yeah in theory everybody can.
But no, they won’t.

So no,
Maybe you can’t have it all.
On your terms.
Etc.
And maybe everything you see online is just ‘causing’ you (responsibility, bitch!) to waste your life, your resources, and send yourself and your family into debt and despair.

If there’s even a hair of a chance that might be true for you then STOP STOP STOP, and please –

If you’re in MY community, leave.

I’ve never EVER sold anything to you.

I’ve only ever sold –

Messaged – 

Shown up for – 

Spoken to – 

The 1% within the 1% – 

The BORN for it leaders – 

Those who KNOW they’re gonna do what it takes –

No matter what it takes – 

Until it takes – 

AND THEN KEEP GOING.

In other words – 

Those like me.

I didn’t come here to convert the fucking masses baby. I came to preach to those who already have ears to hear, because they know they’re gonna DO the damn thing.

So, can you have it all?

Well I suppose if you really can –

You wouldn’t be fucking asking it.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

PS

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{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

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Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

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> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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