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Success Mindset

Why You Don’t Yet Have The Life You Want

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Let’s talk about dreams. Ideals. Big huge goals, and making them come real. You see, I know you.

I know that you have this deep desire for more.

That even as you go through the most mundane of tasks in the most ordinary of days, something within you is constantly pulling at you. Whispering softly, most of the time. So softly that it’s easy to (almost) ignore. Almost, but not quite.

And it’s telling you –

This is NOT as good as it gets.

You don’t HAVE to live an ordinary life.

It doesn’t need to be this hard.

And you can have more.

Can I tell you a secret?

It’s not a secret amongst those who already live their dream life, of course –

You don’t just get to have more. When you ask, with confidence, belief and the deep, firm knowledge that you are asking for no more than your birthright, the truth is this –

You can have it all.

There are no limits.

And infinite success, abundance, time, love and everything else you desire are yours if only you’re willing to ask for it.

But here’s what else I know about you –

Even as you read this, and something inside of you jumps with excitement and with the thrill of having your deepest beliefs affirmed there is also another part of you that is pulling away from my words right now. Telling you –

It’s not that simple.

My life is too complex.

I don’t deserve to be that lucky.

I don’t know if I have what it takes.

I’m not sure I’m willing to sacrifice the comfort and certainty of my current life.

And, of course –

I wouldn’t know where to start.

5 years ago, I had a dream.

In my earliest days online, when my blog was really just a newsletter for my personal training clients, I came across the blog of a ‘lifestyle entrepreneur’. The writer talked about making over $80,000 per year through his blog, and showed photos of his ‘office’, a cafe by the beach.

To me, this seemed amazing. Incredible. Inspiring. And something inside of me whispered –

I want that. I have no idea how that could be possible, but I want a life where my time is my own. Where I can work from anywhere, and where I can make a money doing something I love.

Over the next few years, I churned out thousands of blog posts, responded to several thousand more comments and emails, invested tens of thousands in various online coaching or business programs. I never had a firm plan throughout all this time. And for the first few years I didn’t even have a product or anything available for sale.

Yet still I continued on. Just putting one foot in front of the other, keeping faith based on the knowledge that even if I didn’t know what I was doing or how it was going to turn into a way of making a living, I was at least doing what I loved (writing and inspiring people to change their body and their life) and I was at least moving forward.

A huge key to my success, I believe, has been my persistence. But that’s not the real key to my success.

The real key is this –

I never ever stopped believing.

I believe in a world in which I DO get to choose how I work. When I work. Where from. And where work is not work at all, but creativity. Inspiration. Flow. Breath. And so intertwined with what I as need to be happy, whole, content and free that I would not sooner choose to stop doing it than I would choose to stop spending time with my child.

People ask me, lately –

Will you take a month or two off from your business, when the baby is born?

At first I felt unsure of how to answer them. I sort of felt bad if I said that no, probably not. And now I realise –

I’m not going to take a month or two off from living. And it’s kind of the same thing.

You see, I’m living my dream. I’m living with passion. And each day, sometimes effortlessly and sometimes with a little more inner resistance, I’m changing my world.

I’m making it into exactly what I want.

And one by one, I’m defying those who tell me I can’t, I shouldn’t, I’m not ready, it’s too much.

Mostly, what I’m defying is the old me.

The me who said that success can’t come easily. That it has to be constant and never-ending hard work. That I have to pay my dues. Atone for my past. Prove myself.

The truth is that there is nothing that needs proving, before you are ready or worthy of living your dreams. There is no barrier greater than the one in your own mind. And as simplistic as it might sound, there is nothing easier to do than to choose – right now – to live with a new set of beliefs about how your life has to be.

Right now, you can decide to believe –

That life can be easy.

That every day can be an adventure.

That you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do.

That there is always a solution.

That you can work from anywhere, doing anything, in any way.

That you can live in a home you love.

That you can have financial freedom, abundance.

That there is enough time.

That everything is working together for your own good.

And most of all, that you don’t need to be able to predict the future or have a plan in order to know that it’s all going to come together for the greater good of yourself and of others.

And, of course, that all of this can be yours now.

Do you choose? Will you join me? Do you want your dream life badly enough to step off that ledge even without knowing what lies beneath?

I hope so. ‘Cause I have to tell you that when you do?

You’re gonna fly beautiful.

Come join me.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

🔥🔥 FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE is here! Eeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkk and a HALF! I have not been this, well, FIRED UP & READY TO EXPLODE in a LONG while.

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You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?

Well,

this is that.

AND THEN SOME.

I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?

You need to get FIRED UP AND FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE with me.

And that’s what we’re gonna do here:

FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE

– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

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30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.

https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/firedup

PPS.

The pre-work is hands on and practical AF! 🔥 Join today and receive immediate access to a 1 hour+ previously private client only audio I recorded on the 11 Ways We Make More Money Consistently in my company. You can implement all of this now, it’s one of the most powerful trainings I ever recorded.

And!

I’ve included a Join Today Bonus!

Every day up til our start date I will be emailing out a photo of my journaling from that day, and an insight into why / what I journaled, plus a prompt or three for you. This is a join today bonus on TOP of the pre-work! Fun!

Psssst there are other badass bonuses as well. But you’ll have to read the page to see 😉

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