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Money Mindset

WHY IT’S MAYBE NOT SAFE FOR YOU TO BE RICH … AND HOW TO SHIFT THAT SHIT, STAT. (If you want … ??)

Do you think that fun and receiving a lot of money are separate things?

Do you think that if you were to be WEALTHY, like REALLY, or even a little bit at all, that it would somehow cost you something?

Do you think that maybe you’ve not really even thought about this stuff, but yet you DO notice that the money just ain’t flowing the way you know it COULD, or believe it SHOULD be, and that maybe now you wanna think about this?

Do you think that you MIGHT just wanna flick that money switch, and flick it GOOD? Once and for ALL kinda good, to where it just becomes part of who you ARE, that the green keeps on rollin’, and with it you actually build TRUE wealth, the kind that impacts and shifts and changes and leaves a legacy, not just financial of course, but sure –

Whydahellnotfinancial?!

Well okay then.

Here we go!

I used to have 5 or 6 or 8 or 20 years ago, I had so many reasons to not let money in. They were good reasons, too. There were ways in which NOT having money was serving me, you know? It was actually serving and SAVING me, even!

Of course I didn’t understand that at the time, and once I DID start to I started to SHIFT that shit, ’cause after all –

Whatever things I thought I could only have, or receive, or be ‘safe’ with, without money, could also be granted to me (by me!) WITH money, so WHY NOT JUST HAVE IT ALL?

Once I figured THAT out, it wasn’t a very-too-long process to flick the switch to multi-millionairess, and then some.

For real tho 

Here’s the thing:

You’ll never allow money in if there’s other stuff that matters more to you which you believe has to be separate. If your BELIEF REALITY is that having money, being RICCCCHHHHHHH, being wealthy, is somehow wrong or bad, or spiritually ‘less than’, or it comes at a price.

Makes sense, right?

RIGHT.

The truth is, I used to kind of get off on barely scraping by. There was a sense of ego in it, and a sense of adventure.

‘Oh, you think that THIS is rock bottom and I’m not gonna be able to hack it for another minute? I’ll SHOW you rock bottom and how tough I am girl!’

Haha. Higher self vs less than higher self.

Or how about this one –

‘Just when you thought I was ABOUT TO FUCKING BURN AND DIE, I pulled a white fucking rabbit out of my hat and saved myself, ba-ba-boom, ka-BAM, and I made money like magic and WHOOSHED back on the up and up again, see if you can do it like THAT, bitch!’

Ego.
Adrenalin.
Adventure.

All good things!

All things which CAN INDEED BE OBTAINED WITH OR WITHOUT NEEDING TO BE ON YOUR FINAL THREAD IN ORDER TO DO SO.

I used to REPEATEDLY crash and burn my money sitch down, then rise like a phoenix from the fucking ashes, getting the BIGGEST rush ever, and proving something about something to someone!

But eventually?

I started to tire of that I guess. Or perhaps it was just that I started to become aware OF the pattern. I started to investigate what I was ‘getting’ from not having money, and I decided that actually?

It kinda sorta MIGHT be nice to just get that shiz from other areas of my life, in a way that was uplifting, and ALSO, while I was at it –

I decided to get rich.

So there, ‘me who was addicted to the struggle’.

Thing is, the struggle IS a good thing, the push is a good thing, and being on the damn LINE is a good thing. I am so.fucking.glad I got to go through all of that! In some ways it was the best time of my LIFE. I became a motherfreaking warrior of resolve and determination. I built me some CHARACTER. But eventually, yeah … I decided that my character was ready to get her growth in other ways.

I decided that I could still be the adrenalin-loving badass gal living on the edge and ALIVE with the excitement of not knowing what was to come, but WITH bells on, and ALL the fun and adventure.

It was just a choice …

It was ALWAYS just a choice, I just didn’t know that, I hadn’t done the inner work to even begin to know that, and, as is the case with ALL of us, always, I was simply living according to my values, which, at the time, caused me unconsciously to BELIEVE that being rich would cost me.

Shall we talk about that? For you?

Let’s.

What would being rich cost you right now?

In what ways would it be ‘wrong or bad’?

What do you value MORE than money (um … DUH … JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING that is OF value to you, I would think??! We all do!), which you think-maybe-without-thinking-about-it that you would have to give up, lose, sacrifice, if you were to have money?

And my favourite one of all, what are the ways in which NOT HAVING MONEY is fun, exciting, a thrill, an adventure, a gift, makes you feel GOOD about yourself, builds your belief and confidence in yourself, SERVES you?

Look at these questions.
Let the answers bubble up.
Write that shit down!
And then decide what to DO about it, ’cause how about THIS – 

WHAT IF YOU BELIEVED YOU COULD HAVE YOUR MONEY-CAKE AND EAT IT TOO?

What if you believed that ALL of all of what it would COST you was just a choice, and that of COURSE you can choose to have the money AND the power … okay my mind went straight to my Spotify list … I mean the money and the life-in-keeping-with-value … and sure, the power, too. Then what?

What if you believed that being RICCCCCHHHHHH, yes, let’s USE that word, not just the somehow more spiritually or socially acceptable ‘wealthy’, was only GOOD, positive, EVEN SPIRITUAL AND DEEP AND SHIT?

What if you just freaking wrote down all the stuff you think that not having money GIVES you, which you now pause and identify, from this conversation, and then acknowledge –

Ego! Adventure! Thrills and chills! Fun! Being a badass! Superiority, maybe! What else?!

– that ACTUALLY, you can just decide to have all of that with or without da green.

You know?

YOU know.

And what if all the lessons, the growth, the building of resilience, and tenacity, and resolve, and BADASSERY INSIDE AND OUT, and WATCH ME PROVE MYSELF LIKE YOU KNOW YOU COULDN’T BABY, what if THAT side of it, you just decided –

You didn’t need to ‘get’ from being in a state of NOT rich anymore. You could either get all that shit elsewhere (um … by deciding to, that’s how!) … or that maybe, just maybe, in some cases, you were actually already done with that learning.

Thank you very much.

It’s ALL just a choice, and it is ALWAYS up to you.

And you know what else though?

As much as I tend to think, meh – why not just be rich, it’s REALLY THAT FUCKING SIMPLE, you just decide, I also really do think –

Either way is fine.

Of COURSE you can be loving and fully living in this part of it, and maybe it will be, and IS, the best time of your life. There’s certainly no rule you gotta have MONEY.

But if you WANT it …?

And you’re just kind of tired with the not HAVING it …?

And you see the truth in what I’m saying here, around how the NOT having of it is HELL yeah serving you in some way, and how if you simply got clear on that and then got your thrills and chills elsewhere, plus also decided it was ALLOWED AND DOESN’T MAKE YOU A GOOD PERSON, and basically BACKED yourself to be in integrity AND have all the fun and shit …?

Then maybe you could just do as I eventually did.

Wake up one day, and say –

‘Hey! Thank you for the lessons on NEVER HAVING MONEY. Thank you for all this GAVE me. And now?

Imma gonna get rich, bitch’.

And then you do.

You think it’s not that simple, you think you need to know more, figure out more, learn more, NO.

I just gave you the answers to everything.

READ IT LIKE IT A TEENAGE GIRL STUDYING A TREASURE MAP LEADING TO JUSTIN BIEBER, or like my kids tracking down JoJoSiwa or whatever name is.

I used to believe that being rich would cost me, and take things away, which I very much needed and wanted, and which were inherent to me and to my VALUES.

Then I decided to get rich, and KEEP ALL THE GOOD BITS OF NOT BEING SO.

And now I believe … because I chose to believe, and then practiced believing, that money is a by product of me doing whatever the fuck I want and having ALL the fun and flow and adventure.

And that the more I am having a good time, the more money just appears to me!

And so it is.

That’s all …

It’s supposed to be on your terms, you know?

This whole damn thing is SUPPOSED to be on your terms.

It’s supposed to flow.

It’s supposed to feel CERTAIN, and true, in your soul.

It’s supposed to connect you more deeply to purpose through EVERY SINGLE BIT of what you do and how you do it.

And also –

Just by the way!

IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE EASY TO GET TO RICH, PLUS YOU STILL GET TO BE A SHENANIGAN-PLOTTING ADVENTURER.

Supposed to be?

It just is.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/