WHY IT’S MAYBE NOT SAFE FOR YOU TO BE RICH … AND HOW TO SHIFT THAT SHIT, STAT. (If you want … ??)
Do you think that fun and receiving a lot of money are separate things?
Do you think that if you were to be WEALTHY, like REALLY, or even a little bit at all, that it would somehow cost you something?
Do you think that maybe you’ve not really even thought about this stuff, but yet you DO notice that the money just ain’t flowing the way you know it COULD, or believe it SHOULD be, and that maybe now you wanna think about this?
Do you think that you MIGHT just wanna flick that money switch, and flick it GOOD? Once and for ALL kinda good, to where it just becomes part of who you ARE, that the green keeps on rollin’, and with it you actually build TRUE wealth, the kind that impacts and shifts and changes and leaves a legacy, not just financial of course, but sure –
Well okay then.
Here we go!
I used to have 5 or 6 or 8 or 20 years ago, I had so many reasons to not let money in. They were good reasons, too. There were ways in which NOT having money was serving me, you know? It was actually serving and SAVING me, even!
Of course I didn’t understand that at the time, and once I DID start to I started to SHIFT that shit, ’cause after all –
Whatever things I thought I could only have, or receive, or be ‘safe’ with, without money, could also be granted to me (by me!) WITH money, so WHY NOT JUST HAVE IT ALL?
Once I figured THAT out, it wasn’t a very-too-long process to flick the switch to multi-millionairess, and then some.
For real tho
Here’s the thing:
You’ll never allow money in if there’s other stuff that matters more to you which you believe has to be separate. If your BELIEF REALITY is that having money, being RICCCCHHHHHHH, being wealthy, is somehow wrong or bad, or spiritually ‘less than’, or it comes at a price.
Makes sense, right?
The truth is, I used to kind of get off on barely scraping by. There was a sense of ego in it, and a sense of adventure.
‘Oh, you think that THIS is rock bottom and I’m not gonna be able to hack it for another minute? I’ll SHOW you rock bottom and how tough I am girl!’
Haha. Higher self vs less than higher self.
Or how about this one –
‘Just when you thought I was ABOUT TO FUCKING BURN AND DIE, I pulled a white fucking rabbit out of my hat and saved myself, ba-ba-boom, ka-BAM, and I made money like magic and WHOOSHED back on the up and up again, see if you can do it like THAT, bitch!’
All good things!
All things which CAN INDEED BE OBTAINED WITH OR WITHOUT NEEDING TO BE ON YOUR FINAL THREAD IN ORDER TO DO SO.
I used to REPEATEDLY crash and burn my money sitch down, then rise like a phoenix from the fucking ashes, getting the BIGGEST rush ever, and proving something about something to someone!
I started to tire of that I guess. Or perhaps it was just that I started to become aware OF the pattern. I started to investigate what I was ‘getting’ from not having money, and I decided that actually?
It kinda sorta MIGHT be nice to just get that shiz from other areas of my life, in a way that was uplifting, and ALSO, while I was at it –
I decided to get rich.
So there, ‘me who was addicted to the struggle’.
Thing is, the struggle IS a good thing, the push is a good thing, and being on the damn LINE is a good thing. I am so.fucking.glad I got to go through all of that! In some ways it was the best time of my LIFE. I became a motherfreaking warrior of resolve and determination. I built me some CHARACTER. But eventually, yeah … I decided that my character was ready to get her growth in other ways.
I decided that I could still be the adrenalin-loving badass gal living on the edge and ALIVE with the excitement of not knowing what was to come, but WITH bells on, and ALL the fun and adventure.
It was ALWAYS just a choice, I just didn’t know that, I hadn’t done the inner work to even begin to know that, and, as is the case with ALL of us, always, I was simply living according to my values, which, at the time, caused me unconsciously to BELIEVE that being rich would cost me.
Shall we talk about that? For you?
In what ways would it be ‘wrong or bad’?
What do you value MORE than money (um … DUH … JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING that is OF value to you, I would think??! We all do!), which you think-maybe-without-thinki
And my favourite one of all, what are the ways in which NOT HAVING MONEY is fun, exciting, a thrill, an adventure, a gift, makes you feel GOOD about yourself, builds your belief and confidence in yourself, SERVES you?
Look at these questions.
Let the answers bubble up.
Write that shit down!
And then decide what to DO about it, ’cause how about THIS –
WHAT IF YOU BELIEVED YOU COULD HAVE YOUR MONEY-CAKE AND EAT IT TOO?
What if you believed that ALL of all of what it would COST you was just a choice, and that of COURSE you can choose to have the money AND the power … okay my mind went straight to my Spotify list … I mean the money and the life-in-keeping-with-value
What if you believed that being RICCCCCHHHHHH, yes, let’s USE that word, not just the somehow more spiritually or socially acceptable ‘wealthy’, was only GOOD, positive, EVEN SPIRITUAL AND DEEP AND SHIT?
What if you just freaking wrote down all the stuff you think that not having money GIVES you, which you now pause and identify, from this conversation, and then acknowledge –
Ego! Adventure! Thrills and chills! Fun! Being a badass! Superiority, maybe! What else?!
– that ACTUALLY, you can just decide to have all of that with or without da green.
And what if all the lessons, the growth, the building of resilience, and tenacity, and resolve, and BADASSERY INSIDE AND OUT, and WATCH ME PROVE MYSELF LIKE YOU KNOW YOU COULDN’T BABY, what if THAT side of it, you just decided –
You didn’t need to ‘get’ from being in a state of NOT rich anymore. You could either get all that shit elsewhere (um … by deciding to, that’s how!) … or that maybe, just maybe, in some cases, you were actually already done with that learning.
Thank you very much.
It’s ALL just a choice, and it is ALWAYS up to you.
And you know what else though?
As much as I tend to think, meh – why not just be rich, it’s REALLY THAT FUCKING SIMPLE, you just decide, I also really do think –
Either way is fine.
Of COURSE you can be loving and fully living in this part of it, and maybe it will be, and IS, the best time of your life. There’s certainly no rule you gotta have MONEY.
But if you WANT it …?
And you’re just kind of tired with the not HAVING it …?
And you see the truth in what I’m saying here, around how the NOT having of it is HELL yeah serving you in some way, and how if you simply got clear on that and then got your thrills and chills elsewhere, plus also decided it was ALLOWED AND DOESN’T MAKE YOU A GOOD PERSON, and basically BACKED yourself to be in integrity AND have all the fun and shit …?
Then maybe you could just do as I eventually did.
Wake up one day, and say –
‘Hey! Thank you for the lessons on NEVER HAVING MONEY. Thank you for all this GAVE me. And now?
Imma gonna get rich, bitch’.
And then you do.
You think it’s not that simple, you think you need to know more, figure out more, learn more, NO.
I just gave you the answers to everything.
READ IT LIKE IT A TEENAGE GIRL STUDYING A TREASURE MAP LEADING TO JUSTIN BIEBER, or like my kids tracking down JoJoSiwa or whatever name is.
I used to believe that being rich would cost me, and take things away, which I very much needed and wanted, and which were inherent to me and to my VALUES.
And now I believe … because I chose to believe, and then practiced believing, that money is a by product of me doing whatever the fuck I want and having ALL the fun and flow and adventure.
And that the more I am having a good time, the more money just appears to me!
And so it is.
That’s all …
It’s supposed to be on your terms, you know?
It’s supposed to flow.
It’s supposed to feel CERTAIN, and true, in your soul.
It’s supposed to connect you more deeply to purpose through EVERY SINGLE BIT of what you do and how you do it.
And also –
Just by the way!
IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE EASY TO GET TO RICH, PLUS YOU STILL GET TO BE A SHENANIGAN-PLOTTING ADVENTURER.
Supposed to be?
It just is.
Don’t forget –
Life is Now. Press Play.