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Money Mindset

TRAITS OF THE UNSUCCESSFUL, WHICH YOU MAY WANNA STOP DOING

Do you ever stop and look at people, hopefully not the ones you keep in your personal space, but more so the random ones, the ones you encounter whilst out and about in the wild and the wilderness, the ones who haven’t yet realised they have a damn CHOICE, do you ever stop and look at them and wonder “what in the actual fuck are you doing?”

It’s so fascinating to observe, if not mildly horrific.

The whole of society seeming to be like some kind of mass experiment in how to condition NATURAL BORN SUPERHUMANS into dumb drooling fear-driven robots.

‘Like’ some kind of experiment?

Of COURSE it’s a motherfucking experiment. We’ve always known that.

Well –

WE have.

Keep ’em dumb.
Keep ’em blind.
Keep ’em compliant.

And most of all –

Keep ’em SCARED, so then they will do what they’re told while the WORLD IS RUN BY THOSE WHO KNOW.

This is LIFE.

If you don’t understand how it works, and you’re not actively and consciously and daily drawing yourself out of it, or if you think that what I just said is some conspiracy theorist mumbo jumbo, then guess what?

You one of ’em baby.

Running scared from purpose and maybe never gonna know about it.

But actually I’m not here today to speak to those who do NOT already know that all of this is true. I’m here to speak to you who KNOWS they have the power to create ALL of their reality, who is ALREADY awake, and who is actively, consciously and daily leaning further into connectedness to consciousness, to soul, to source, to self.

And to that you I say this:

WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK ARE YOU DOING, still walking around embodying so many traits of the old, the asleep, the controlled, the scared?

The way you hold any little bits of abundance to yourself, so miserly, so worried about losing the little you do have, so fearful of always making sure you get what you can when you can.

Like somebody who has to always take every bit of extra food possible from the buffet, because hey – it’s free! And I should get it while I can! And it’s free!

Don’t you understand?

“To him who HAS, more will be given, and he WILL have abundance, and to he who has NOT, even what he does have will be taken away.”

(Matthew 13:12)

If you want to receive more, have more, BE more, and tap into the infinite flow of abundance which ALSO IS LIFE, then you ARE going to need to act as though that is already true.

Does the person who lives and breathes and is abundance hold on so tightly –

Fists clenched together –

Shoulders rounded –

Beady eyes darting all around for what is next going to hurt them or take away from them or punish them?

Assuming that life is HARD and out to GET them and that they should take what they can get when they can get it because hey – !

Who knows what’s comin’ next?

Or is she grounded, upright, strong, stable, and also calm, patient, able to WAIT, knowing that exactly what she wants and what is divined for her will show up so long as she holds the vision, stays the course, refuses to back down, and repeatedly chooses to BE the highest version of herself in how she shows up, lives, moves, breathes?!

Yes.

I think the latter.

THIS IS NOT JUST A LA-DI-DAH CONVERSATION about a general concept.

What I’m TALKING about, is specifically relevant to how you’re doing business and life right now.

The way you say yes to NOT soul aligned clients, rather than hold the vision of believing the ones you are MEANT to serve will show up.

You do realise that every time you allow the WRONG people into your space you make it so the right ones can’t see you, wouldn’t want to, won’t ALIGN to you?

Or how about the way you sell shit which you do NOT really believe in, love deeply and expansively, KNOW is your true soul work?

Because,
Because,
Because,

Well – that’s what seems to work right now! And I tried doing what I really want to do and nobody bit! And besides, I’m not good enough and I don’t know how!

NO.

You’re either being who you are meant to be as a messenger, an artist, a leader, or you are NOT.

There IS no grey area.

You’re either holding out for the real fucking thing no matter how long it takes before you get seen or paid for that, and you are just digging your damn heels in and choosing to endure – grow stronger from! – whatever is necessary along the way, OR –

You’re fucking not, because of your God damn fear mentality, which you use to justify why you ‘had to’ … citing money / bills / fear / ‘no choice’ when GUESS WHAT BITCH YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE.

What you’re REALLY saying is you are NOT willing to do what it takes, until it takes.

Oh sure, up ’til a point … where it hurts a little and you’re squirming … but when the REAL fire kicks in you’re running shrieking away and then expecting that it’s JUSTIFIED, because surely, surely nobody should have to endure THAT, surely THAT’s not what’s meant when we talk about doing what it takes?

Well – 

It is!

WHATEVER it takes is what it takes!

You wanna live a life like only 1% within the 1% within the 1% ever get to? You believe you were born for that?

Then you damn well better act it!

How about with dating, with calling in the one?

You saying yes to a second date with somebody where it’s “well, maybe it COULD work … I’ll just see … I don’t want to judge too harshly … ‘such and such’ (thing you fucking value) doesn’t matter to me THAT much … he really is quite amazing in so many ways …!” –

THIS IS NOT WHAT SUCCESS LOOKS LIKE.

Success knows that in order to have it ALL there is a need to ruthlessly shed and walk away from anything which is not a 100% fuck yes.

Fuck yes is fuck yes, it’s not fuck yes, “just that this one thing …”

If you’re serious about living the life you know you can have then you MUST also be serious about identifying and dealing with the traits you still embody of a person who is NOT successful.

You MUST be like a warrior with this.

Absolute focus.
Absolute determination.
Absolute unwillingness to back down.
ABSOLUTE ability to come back to the vision and to keep.on.moving.ALL the way to it.

NO MATTER WHAT GETS LOST, FORGOTTEN, PASSED OVER, ALONG THE WAY.

And here is the reality.

The reality is that most of you just won’t do it.

You’ll cave.

You may be strong one time, two times, three times, but get knocked down or back a fourth, encounter the rejection or the lack of accomplishment again, and something in you just can’t keep doing it.

“I tried!”, you’ll say. “I really gave it my all! But it’s just ____ BLAH BLAH BLAH EXCUSES AND BULLSHIT ____”

And your equally soft and UNSUCCESSFUL friends will nod their heads in compassion and agreement, pat you on the back and give you a hug and say “well, at least you can say you tried”

NO YOU FUCKING DID NOT.

THERE IS NO TRY.

THERE IS ONLY I DECIDED AND I DID.

And whatever comes in between decided and did is just WHAT COMES IN BETWEEN.

You WILL endure it.
You MUST endure it.
You have NO CHOICE BUT TO ENDURE it.

And motherfucking GRATEFULLY too, let’s not forget.

Leaning EVER more deeply into it.

Letting the pain, the fear, the “I can’t I can’t I can’t I’m gonna die!” wash over you.

And then RISING UP EVER STRONGER AND MORE DETERMINED AS A RESULT OF IT.

“I can’t?”

YOU CAN AND YOU WILL AND YOU HAVE TO.

That is the ONLY answer.

The only POSSIBLE answer.

Unless it’s that actually you weren’t born for exceptional at all and you’re just fucking average.

If so, good luck to you.

Choose what you want to choose.

But don’t kid yourself that it’s not a choice, ’cause it is.

So what you’re really choosing is –

“I have faith but I don’t have THAT much faith”

“I have strength but not like THAT!”

“I believe but just … that’s crazy!”

And so on.

And so forth.

Well,

GUESS WHAT?

It doesn’t work like that!

FAITH is absolute.

DRIVE is absolute (or damn well should be; has to be for it to be effective!)

STRENGTH, in terms of what’s required internally to be the damn you who prevails is ALSO absolute … infinite … it IS DONE WHEN IT IS DONE.

Not when you have an ouchy.

BELIEF, in yourself, and willingness to do what it takes REQUIRES ABSOLUTE PERSISTENCE.

I don’t know why more people don’t understand this inherently.

It boggles my mind.

But the ones who don’t understand, they’re not my concern, there’s not much I can do or say to somebody who has no ears to hear.

YOU however.

You, who understand.

You, who understand but do not WOMAN THE DAMN FUCK UP AND DO WHAT IT TAKES.

For the love of God.

HOW do you even look yourself in the eye.

Oh, that’s right.

You DON’T. You can’t. Instead you ‘survive’ by numbing. Binging. Hiding. Scrolling. Doing anything you can to drown out the increasingly more desperate SCREAMING OF YOUR SOUL.

IT 
WILL
NEVER
QUIETEN

IT
WILL
GET 
WORSE

WAKE UP.

You say you’re awake, and you talk about being conscious, and you post shit about doing what it takes and being different.

But yet you continue to be weak.

You continue to opt out.

You continue to CHOOSE FEAR.

You think I’m a bitch, a hardass, that I don’t understand YOUR woes or hardships?

I understand just fine.

I understand that I too used to listen to my own bullshit, and make it more important than my purpose, my soul, my destiny.

It felt so valid, and so real.

IT WAS EASY TO JUSTIFY.

So,

I did.

As I numb numb numbed and cry cry cried my way through life.

And I understand that in order to become this person?

I HAD TO SAY FUCK MY EXCUSES.

And do the damn work anyway.

All the work.

Inner and outer.

No matter what.

In every area.

No matter how hard.

And no matter how long it takes.

For the rest of my life.

I really don’t think that’s too much to ask, do you?

And if ya do?

Get the hell outta here.

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/