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Success Mindset

INDULGING THE FEAR MIND VERSUS UNLOCKING CREATIVE FLOW —> YOU CAN’T DO BOTH

The fear mind will tell you it needs you, it wants you, it’s so hungry for you, it lusts after you so furiously that it’s almost attractive, and it will whisper to you, slowly, seductively, lovingly, and tell you –

You need me too.

You need me, I make you comfortable, I keep you sheltered, I keep you safe, we can dance together and sway together here where we’ve always been,

In the tunnels and drains and darkness, away from the light, away from expansion, away from all of that unKNOWN.

The unknown is scary! And it’s bad! And it’s wrong! You don’t need it, you need ME!

The fear mind is greedy. It is demanding. It wants ALL of you and it refuses to give up even a piece.

Oh, so you’d try to have something to lean on OTHER than me?

NO! You CAN’T! I WON’T ALLOW IT! It’s me and ONLY me, turn away from me and I will leave you and I will DESTROY you.

And it will rage, it will rear up, its anger making your heart beat fast and your eyes glaze over and a light sweat break out as the panic sets in, just a little at first, but enough to make you wonder –

CAN I live without this?
WILL I be okay?
If I launch myself free of all of the doubts, all of the fears, all of the USUAL

Ways of doing
And thinking
And believing
And even breathing

WHO WILL I BE WITHOUT ALL OF THAT AND WHERE WILL I GO AND WHAT –

Will become of me?!

I can’t do it I can’t do it I can’t DO it!

And you peer over the edge,
Where you KNOW you must leap,
And it just looks SO far down,
SO scary,
SO treacherous,
And so.
much.
unknown.

You turn over your shoulder, you take just a peek, and fear is there,

Where it’s always been

Where you’ve always known you could depend on it

Tapping its foot and tilting its head and rolling its eyes just a little and reminding you –

YOU DON’T HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO DO IT WITHOUT ME, DO YOU?

Of COURSE you’re going to turn back to me!
It’s always BEEN the two of us, don’t kid yourself you’ll ever leave.

Smug bitch…

And what is funny what is awful what is hilarious what is TERRIBLE is that even as you turn back,

Even as you step away rather than leap,

Even as you shrink back down to where you know how to be,

Your heart your soul your spirit your SELF

Is SCREAMING SCREAMING SCREAMING at you,

And it hurts so damn LOUD, STOP fucking screaming, my EARS

So you cover them
And you close your eyes tight
And you quickly quickly quickly find a way to numb
To mask
To hide
To forget

Lost, once again, in the nothing and the everything of the fear,

And your pain.

Yet knowing,
No matter how far you run and how much you mask,

THIS IS NOT HOW IT’S MEANT TO BE.

I am CHOOSING to be weak.

I am CHOOSING to say no to soul, to heart, to creativity, to purpose, to destiny, to ART.

I am choosing,

To deny,

My SELF.

And you go to bed at night,
And move through your day,
Trying so damn hard to convince yourself you have no choice, this is how it has to be, it just IS,

The whole entire time knowing with absolute certainty that NOPE babe –

It’s just a choice.

I’m choosing.
Choosing.
Choosing.
To be ruled by fear.
And to turn off flow.

And here is what is funniest of all –

For all of the fear,
All of the pain,
All of the struggle, and the way you feel SO ensnared, SO trapped, SO bound, SO unknowing of what to do,

There is only one thing needed, for you to unlock creative flow and step into all of you, KILLING the power the fear mind has over you.

All you need to do –

All you EVER needed to do –

All you STILL need to do –

Is DO IT FUCKING ANYWAY.

Fear will always be there, it’s a part of who we all are, and you GET to experience every emotion on the spectrum, but FEAR.CAN.NOT.RULE YOU, unless you ALLOW it to.

Success is simple –

You feel the damn fear.
You listen, if you insist, to what it has to say.
You consider it deeply, even (although I don’t know why!)
And then you say THANK YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR SUGGESTIONS AND YOUR ATTEMPTS TO ROB ME OF MY LIFE BUT ACTUALLY, ACTUALLY, ACTUALLY –

I’m gonna do it anyway.

So STFU.

Or carry on if you must, I don’t care!

But either way,
Regardless,
For the rest of my life,
And EVERY damn day in every way,

I’LL JUST BE DOING IT ANYWAY.

That is how an empire is built.
How a dream body is created.
How relationships become ONLY fuck yes.
How your LIFE is on purpose.

You just do it anyway.

Not knowing how.
Not ‘feeling’ it.
Taunted, even, by ideas of not being worthy.
Repeatedly choosing to do it ANYWAY until it becomes your norm,

Just who you are,

And the world looks at you and wonders how it can be like you, when all you ever did was just press fucking play without feeling ready, without knowing how, and without having ANY proof at all that you’re good enough.

Stop making it so complicated.

You’re either doing the damn thing and you, through your daily actions and habits and CHOSEN beliefs and thoughts are becoming the you who you’ve always known you can be, or?

You’re living a life of bullshit.

Just remember, whichever you choose for today –

 

 

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!