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Success Mindset

THE WORK. AND THE FREEDOM, OF DISCIPLINE.

If I think about all of the times I truly did not want to do the work – whether it be the business work, the fitness work, the creating and empire building work, or the most important work of all, the work of my calling and my LIFE (this) – and then I think of what the result would BE right now, had I have listened to the not wanting to, and not done it, it’s clear to me that I would have NO results, none at all.

Not with money.
Not with a following online.
Not with being fortunate enough to be one of the few in this world who ever gets to say yes –

I did it.
I did the work I was born for.

“No results?”, you might wonder – “surely you don’t mean, Kat, that you NEVER wanted to do the work and that each day is just an effort in PUSHING?!”

Well. No. I don’t mean that at all. As a matter of fact, I find that a good percentage of the time – I’d surmise around 80% of the time, the work simply flows out of me.

I crave doing my mindset work in the morning, having my time with just me, my coffee, my journal, writing my REALITY and tuning in, before I then go live it; ALLOW it.

I am ITCHING most days, to get into writing, even when (most of the time; 99% of the time!) I have no fucking clue what will come out of me, what I will say, what it will mean, or how it will possibly relate to my business.

But it always does.
Because my business is being me.

And there is nothing that has me vibing higher than showing up and performing, teaching, selling, communicating, BEING there, for my empire, my community, my tribe, you.

Overall.
I live in flow.
And the doing of the work has become as easy, as effortless, as of COURSE, to me, as breathing.

I suppose one day I might find I can no longer seem to do the work.
In the same way that one day I might find I’m no longer breathing.

But if you’re reading this and thinking, “all very well for YOU, Kat, and how easy it must be to make money and Achieve Everything, when you’re some kind of femmebot work (flow, please!) obsessed junkie, but what if I just don’t FEEL like it, can’t BRING myself to, just don’t seem to START?!”

And I’ll tell you, again, this –

Had I have NOT done the work all or even a handful of the times I didn’t want to I believe I’d have NO results at all.

In ANY of the areas.

Because here is the secret which I SUSPECT YOU KNOW but probably often refuse to pay attention to, or admit:

The flow only comes when you commit to stepping into it.

The DESIRE, the sense of it being automatic, like you can’t not, that only happens when you’ve conditioned and trained yourself to be a certain type of person.

And the CONFIDENCE, which is NECESSARY, the ‘acting from’, even when you STILL don’t feel like it at times, or when you question whether it’s ANY good or point at all, that is something you build like a mother-fucking MUSCLE baby.

I was lying in bed this morning, feeling annoyingly nauseous and just blah, and I had a moment of thinking about not wanting to today, not bothering, what if I just lay here, rest, take it easy. Get some sun … read a book … I don’t know.

I’m bored already just trying to imagine it.

But I thought for a moment, about all the times over the years when I’ve not wanted to.

When I felt tired.
Or as though I didn’t have any good ideas anyway.
Or just worn out with it not working, back in the day.
Or just – you know – human as fuck and mired in resistance!

And I thought about how, 99% of those times, I got my ass up and I did the work ANYWAY.

In business.
In fitness.
In life.

I trained myself into DISCIPLINE from a pretty young age.

As an adult it became all the more important to me to live by because I WANTED THE FUCKING OUTCOME.

The not-surprising ‘bonus’ or cherry on top was that I started to not only get consistent outcomes in my life, but that I also found I was falling in LOVE with the grind, with the push, with the FREEDOM of being consistent.

The ONLY guarantee of success is consistency!

And eventually – I fell fully.

In each area.

One by one.

Like dominos.

And head over heels into LOVING BEING THIS PERSON.

DISCIPLINE creates INCREDIBLE freedom. Yes, ‘doing the work’ is also ultimately the only way you will get results, but apparently that’s not enough of a pull for most people, so this is why I want you to really think about and really KNOW, that you get to have it so.damn.EASY, when you become somebody who does the work!!

Discipline creates freedom and it also creates FLOW, so much flow in fact, that it just, well, flows out of you!!

Which means that even when you DO have those times when you don’t WANNA …

You just kind of DO, anyway. Because, you know, it flows. And it’s so much easier and SO much more rewarding and joyous, than what it would be to resist AGAINST that flow.

Like right now.
As I sit here on my Bali balcony.
Ocean breeze waashing over me.
The morning cobwebs gone.
It’s early.
And because I followed what I KNOW INSIDE ME TO BE TRUE (that I am ME and HAPPY when I do my work) I’ve now done my inner work, I’m doing my LIFE work (this!), and the empire and the fitness and the showing up and the ALL of it, will follow.

And to think –
I could have listened to that flicker of resistance –
And been, right now, I don’t know?
Eating?
Reading something inane?
Fucking around on Facebook?

No thank you!!

But yet, that’s how most people live. And they somehow manage to make it where they actually look DOWN upon those of us who do the work, who are disciplined, like we are living by some kind of un-fun rulebook and not getting to ENJOY life!!

I’m torn between wanting to laugh and cry, when I see these sorts of comments. And I think that this is the BIG thing you need to understand, if you’ve ever found yourself feeling like you shouldn’t HAVE to, you don’t WANT to, it shouldn’t feel so FORCED, or whatever story it is you’re telling yourself about why it is in fact that you simply don’t DO, what you repeatedly promise yourself you will.

Boy-who-cried-wolfing your entire.fucking.life.

Here is what to know:

It may well be noble to proudly state that YOU don’t want to live your life by a regime, or go against what FEELS good, in order to make money, get ahead, be ripped, whatever.

But don’t you see?

The ACTUAL FUCKING OUTCOME of being this person, the person who UNDERSTANDS the freedom of discipline, and does their daily work, is FLOW AND FULFILMENT!!

You’re literally evading –
And running from –
Joy.

By not cultivating a habit of HUSTLE! 😉

PURPOSEFUL hustle, of course, meaning doing EVERYTHING in your life that is necessary to, well, live your PURPOSE and live according to your VALUES, both business and purposeful.

Are your values really –
Resistance?
Avoidance?
Repeatedly failing?
To deliver on your own promises to YOU?!

I don’t think so.

But anyway.

The fact that being the person who follows through and does the work will, if you choose to allow it, make you millions, help you to impact millions, do your soul work, and be ripped and hot AF, PLUS in the life | love | everything of your dreams …

Is just a bonus.

The real outcome, and the real reason to discipline your ass?

Is the flow itself.
This moment right here.
When you’ve slipped away deep into YOU, and you look up and notice –

Oh, wow!
I built an empire
A body –
A calling –
A life.

How cool!!!

What a nice … BONUS!

Because actually, all I was doing? Was being God damn honest with myself about what I needed to do –

To feel flow.
Pride.
Fulfilment.
And joy.

If you truly find that your avoidance gives you all these things, carry on …

But if your STORY is that you don’t gotta be somebody who does the WORK all the time because you have, what, different priorities, priorities greater than that of, well, hmm, BEING YOU …!

Then perhaps take a moment to consider just how much more bullshit you wanna feed yourself before you’ve had your fill.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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