When the thing you desire is a part of your everyday reality, it's so normal you can't even really feel into or remember a time when it was NOT normal - was there ever one; surely not?! - when it's as much a matter of fact part of your life as the rise and fall of the sun, is also when your continued success and upleveling has become automated, and guaranteed. Whilst it would theoretically be possible to reverse the programming you've installed, to UN-normal the normal, through careful and deliberate sabotage, over a prolonged period of time, for example (think: the trainer who deliberately gained 30kg / 65 pounds to prove... Read More >>

Everybody likes to say, I've been known to say it myself over and over again, and also to sagely affirm it TO myself and my besties, a nice little reassuring cup-of-warm-tea-to-the-soul reminder to make us all feel schnuggly and warm - "You can't fuck it up with your soulmate people!" Ahhh, feels so good to hear, doesn't it? So safe! So COSY making. Vibes of rainbows and unicorns and marshmallows, oh my! And it's a lovely THEORY, it's also a theory that makes sense and is indeed real and true, or CAN be, but let's just step back for a little minute and examine what it is about this idea that makes it so valid. It's... Read More >>

It's not going to be enough to have the vision firmly planted in your head, of where you want to go, and who you know you must become, of all the things you wish you had or feel you SHOULD, if you're not also purposefully and with conscious / deliberate intent, taking action to move forward on these things. The reality is that if you actually had the vision firmly planted in your head, if you fully knew and felt every bit of it, if you'd allowed it to sink into your BEING, become part of you, as really you MUST, then you'd also be naturally, automatically, and regardless of confrontation... Read More >>

Let's not beat around the bush here, there's no time left to keep living the wrong life, and today I think we get to have a lil bit of a smackdown around your BADASSERY. You know - The not-yet-fully-tapped part of you who is confident, relaxed, calm, certain, magnetic as all get out, the unchallenged QUEEN of the damn thing, and whose results are reflected accordingly. There's no two ways about it: CONFIDENCE SELLS. You want people to pay you for just being you, hang off your every word, be inexplicably drawn to you, unable to look away? You KNOW you best be owning your Queen-AF-and-she-knows-it power. You also know that this same principle applies to every.single.part.... Read More >>

One of the most intricate, entangled, and often toxic relationships we have in our lives is with money. The typical adult will go their entire life without ever truly feeling safe or abundant when it comes to their finances, and carrying some sense of shame or frustration that they're 'not doing it right'. "I just wish I was smarter with my money!" is a refrain that even the most intelligent and successful person will find themselves sharing to those close and trusted, or simply stating in their own head. For many, their money habits veer wildly between excessive spending on things that don't actually meet any sort of real need or result in... Read More >>

I used to put my income goal for the month on a big coloured piece of A4 card each month, I'd write it at the top of the card, and then every day, for the day previous, I'd record how much money came in, and then next to it I'd do a running tally of how much was then total received so far for the month, as well as how much was outstanding to hit the money goal. I'd put this card on the fridge, so I was constantly looking at it through the day, and having it imprinted into my sub-conscious mind, the reminder that I was ALWAYS moving forward... Read More >>

Not to go all airy-fairy hippy lala on you here, because to me this stuff is purely practical - practical as fuck in fact - but if you're not following the energy, then girlfriend? All the effort and the exertion in the world ain't gonna get you ANYWHERE. Invariably, when you've been hacking away at a thing for heavens knows how long, it's been draining the ever-loving soul right outta you every time you think about it and also when you DON'T, the answer is not to HACK EVEN HARDER with your blunt-ass knife and at least semi blinded viewpoint led largely by fear. Invariably, the answer is to throw your hands up,... Read More >>

Never ever find yourself buying into a story that you are still so far from where you want to be. So right now the money you damn well SHOULD be seeing rollin' in is nowhere to be heard or seen of, your abs are so well insulated it'd take an entire excavation team to get on in and find 'em, the fuck yes flow and ease you long for in your LURRRRVVVVEEEE life is feeling more like hand over fist teeth-pulling, and to top it all off you can barely manage to roll your ageing body out of bed in the morning without worrying you're going to pop a joint somewhere,... Read More >>