If you want to go to the next level in your business or life, you have to be able to not only believe that you CAN but also that you know how.Ideally, in order to not get into attachment about the whole 'knowing how' bit, you also have to release worrying about or overly trying to figure out what that how is! It's kind of - I will set aside time and space each day to do this thing, to grow and move forward in this area, because I know I can and I also choose to believe I know how, but if I'm in the moment not sure what that... Read More >>

Your martyr complex and 'it's all on me' attitude is stopping you from being a transmitter for magic, for next level creativity, for flow.Every time you sigh in frustration at how you're STILL not properly supported, you 'can't depend on anyone', that it's better just to do it yourself, you literally turn off access to gifts from the other place.And when you walk around with a belief system that says 'I've got to get it right or do it right', you completely bypass what's available to you beyond the physical realm, and you box yourself in to this very limited very exhausting little human space.Instead of being a vessel, a... Read More >>

I put on jeans today for the first time this year. This is going to sound silly, and I feel like a bit of an idiot even for writing about it, resistance is doing a damn good job of telling me I’m making myself look ridiculous right now, but I bet I'm not alone and so I will -It's kind of a really big deal for me to feel confident enough to leave the house, or heck even BE in the house, wearing jeans. I know a lot of my fitness girls will understand this particular little obsessive compulsive situation, but of course it’s representative of so much more ...I typically... Read More >>

It's so overwhelming to me sometimes to hear the true impact I make on people's lives. What a hefty burden it can feel to bear ... to know that, when I truly let my magic and soul message come out, I'm not doing anything safe and tidy at all, nothing so simple as helping people with BUSINESS, for example, but instead what I'm doing with them is raw, is messy, is gritty, is PAINFUL, traumatic even at times, and real.A stripping away of everything in life which is not supposed to be there -In order to reveal the core.It scares me. It scares me when people tell me the way... Read More >>

One of the most conundrum-y things in the purpose-driven life, I find, is accessing the discernment to know when to push and when to pull back.For those of us (which is all of US!) who are your A-type kinda driven sort of guy or gal, the type who makes shit happen, does what it takes, does the damn WORK and is willing to, on the quest to having and being it all, absolutely go through pain and discomfort the likes of which most would never even consider, it can be even harder.The pulling back and surrendering bit?Especially 🙂In fact, I would say that over all the years in which I've been... Read More >>

You still don't have what you want because you compromise, you settle, you cop out on the true vision and you make bargains with yourself and the world in places where there was never meant to be a grey area.Would you like to know what it takes, to have it all, but TRULY?It's a plain and simple refusal to accept anything that is not that, even for a flicker of a moment.It's a very straightforward case of knowing - which is to say admitting - your true vision, and then holding out as well as perhaps at times holding ON, for dear life, until that exact thing shows up.Or, of... Read More >>

In the movie The Usual Suspects (foundation#KatrinaRuth viewing, don't you dare tell me you've not seen it!), there's a line said which has stuck with me and fascinated me for some several decades now -"The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist".The quote is a distillation of one originally attributed to the extraordinary 1800's writer Charles Baudelaire, who wrote in Paris newspaper 'Le Figaro' in 1864 that "one of the artifices of Satan is, to induce men to believe that he does not exist".For years I had myself convinced that this quote was from the movie The Devil's Advocate (also required viewing!), in which Al... Read More >>

Something you have to understand, and also drop into, if you're ever to receive all that was always in store for you, is how deeply desired you are just BECAUSE you are.You're a part of creation desired and needed by life itself!And the things you've learned which tell you that love - Adoration - Desire - Being wanted, honoured, needed -Are all only available for you CONDITIONAL upon certain behaviours or ways of proving yourself?These things, these learnings, these so-called 'rules of life', are BULLSHIT.Not true now.And never were.The truth of the matter is that YOU ARRIVED PERFECT.Whole.Complete.And with everything you need already accessible from within.Does this mean you shouldn't need to draw... Read More >>