Let's not beat around the bush here, there's no time left to keep living the wrong life, and today I think we get to have a lil bit of a smackdown around your BADASSERY. You know - The not-yet-fully-tapped part of you who is confident, relaxed, calm, certain, magnetic as all get out, the unchallenged QUEEN of the damn thing, and whose results are reflected accordingly. There's no two ways about it: CONFIDENCE SELLS. You want people to pay you for just being you, hang off your every word, be inexplicably drawn to you, unable to look away? You KNOW you best be owning your Queen-AF-and-she-knows-it power. You also know that this same principle applies to every.single.part.... Read More >>

One of the most intricate, entangled, and often toxic relationships we have in our lives is with money. The typical adult will go their entire life without ever truly feeling safe or abundant when it comes to their finances, and carrying some sense of shame or frustration that they're 'not doing it right'. "I just wish I was smarter with my money!" is a refrain that even the most intelligent and successful person will find themselves sharing to those close and trusted, or simply stating in their own head. For many, their money habits veer wildly between excessive spending on things that don't actually meet any sort of real need or result in... Read More >>

I used to put my income goal for the month on a big coloured piece of A4 card each month, I'd write it at the top of the card, and then every day, for the day previous, I'd record how much money came in, and then next to it I'd do a running tally of how much was then total received so far for the month, as well as how much was outstanding to hit the money goal. I'd put this card on the fridge, so I was constantly looking at it through the day, and having it imprinted into my sub-conscious mind, the reminder that I was ALWAYS moving forward... Read More >>

Not to go all airy-fairy hippy lala on you here, because to me this stuff is purely practical - practical as fuck in fact - but if you're not following the energy, then girlfriend? All the effort and the exertion in the world ain't gonna get you ANYWHERE. Invariably, when you've been hacking away at a thing for heavens knows how long, it's been draining the ever-loving soul right outta you every time you think about it and also when you DON'T, the answer is not to HACK EVEN HARDER with your blunt-ass knife and at least semi blinded viewpoint led largely by fear. Invariably, the answer is to throw your hands up,... Read More >>

Never ever find yourself buying into a story that you are still so far from where you want to be. So right now the money you damn well SHOULD be seeing rollin' in is nowhere to be heard or seen of, your abs are so well insulated it'd take an entire excavation team to get on in and find 'em, the fuck yes flow and ease you long for in your LURRRRVVVVEEEE life is feeling more like hand over fist teeth-pulling, and to top it all off you can barely manage to roll your ageing body out of bed in the morning without worrying you're going to pop a joint somewhere,... Read More >>

If it's not effortless, if it's not flow and ease, if it's not a full body soul-led FUCK yes, and you're literally wriggling in your seat at the same time as giggling with excitement about the fact that THIS IS LIFE? Walk away, walk away fast, walk away NOW. I know it's so easy to think, when things are not QUITE working the way you want, when you know you're 'born for it', but you just can't seem to nail down the 'it' bit, that the answer is to knuckle down - push or pull harder - THINK your way forward, or out, or through! But when it comes to true success, the flow and... Read More >>

The things you want are right within your reach, the you who you're meant to be is JUST there, she's barely even behind a curtain, it's a veil, a wisp of a thing, a sliver, a flicker, a puff of breath, and boom - It's gone. At any moment now you can drop into the ALL of it that you've for so long been wanting, been waiting for, been KNOWING is yours, and oh - How you long. You long and you long and you LONG and you long, and because you've been longing for so damn long you've started to hold on, A little bit, A little bit more, A lil bit more again! But oh, that's... Read More >>

When I was 17 years old, I looked in the mirror at my tiny little baby muscles which were starting to form for the first time, pulled the ezybar up to above my chest in an upright row, looked myself straight in the eye, and stated firmly in my head the following: "If I just keep doing this, and am consistent no matter what, by the time I am 40 I'll be INSANELY successful, and rich, I'll look and feel amazing, and I'll have arms like Madonna". I put it aside and forgot about it for the most part, but over the years, that little moment of certainty, soul certainty, really, although... Read More >>