CAN’T RELAX UNTIL YOU RECEIVE? YOU WON’T RECEIVE UNTIL YOU RELAX.

Here is a reality you’re going to need to get your head around if you’re ever to break free of the struggle paradigm and finally become the woman you’ve been waiting to be.

The next level you?

She is relaxed as fuck, unapologetically her in all ways, and FULLY in an ‘of course’ energy about how life shows up for her.

Even as she goes about her day and her purpose work, even when is in a mode of appearing to ‘do’, she has a super chill energy about herself and about life, seeming to just kind of float around in a bubble of Queenly BEINGness.

She might be working her ass off at times, and yet still – something about her suggests that she’s as chill as a lizard on a rock about the whole thing.

There is zero doubt that she knows who and what she is, and is not afraid to be it.

She gives herself time and SPACE to be it.

Every day.

As much as is needed and desired.

No questions.

Yes she is that ‘I don’t give a fuck’ woman who will do and say what she wants and really couldn’t care less whether or not you’re into it, but it’s not in an aggressive way. It’s just –

This is how I am.
I’m relaxed about it.
You be whatever you are about it, and either way is fine.

Her energy is clearly one of EXPECTANT AND CONTINUAL RECEIVING.

(receiving,
let’s remember,
is an energy of the feminine,
many of you would do quite well to meditate on that –
and to press pause on your ‘do’ until you really get it!)

So yes.

She is in her feminine.

Sure, she knows when to activate the masculine side of her, and she dances beautifully with the polar energies that exist in all of us,

but no –

she is no longer that woman who believes that to achieve she must push, to receive she must force, and that above all else she must keep up and keep proving herself.

She opted out of the struggle paradigm a long time ago.

She looked to the future and saw very clearly that she could continue to grind and sweat her ASS off, and that somehow, no matter how much harder she worked or fought, and even no matter how much more money she made, she was STILL always seeming to run in the same place,

OR –

she could let go of all of it.

Just – stop.

Stop holding the whole world up.
Stop worrying about who would turn it if not her.
Stop giving a PIECE of her in order to get a little piece of something that was really nothing back.

And finally finally realise that her gift was always and could only be –

her presence
her Queenhood, activated
her BEING

So, she gave in.

And she learned how to drop in.

She remembered how magical and powerful she always was.

That whatever she decides just show up for her.

That this is just how it is.

As a result, the woman she is today –

Allows life to flow for her.

Expects doors to open,

seas to part,

and the very angels of heaven above to come down and sing her a special tune.

She TRUSTS that life wants to take care of her and DOES,

and she, for her part?

She lets it 😉

And while there will always be an action to take, when she tunes in to God and soul and allows herself to be guided, she has learnt finally and fully that it’s never about the task.

That there is literally not a single task on earth which can GET her somewhere.

That the only way she ever GOT somewhere was by simply deciding to be there,

and relaxing into it accordingly.

For many of you –

The relaxation piece is huge.

You’ve no idea HOW huge.

No idea how much harder you’re making it for yourself that you are waiting to relax when you BE there,

when the entire time the only way you will get there is to, well, be there!

I’ve often said to you that the missing link –

to your millions
your dream man
your dream body
your dream life
is you!

And, this continue to be true.

But baby girl, don’t you see –

The you the world is waiting for is not the one who did the most and thus climbed the hill.

She is the one who realised she was already planted on top of the tallest peak,

and took her seat on the throne accordingly.

She stopped trying to prove her value and her worth, and to earn through her acts.

And she gave the world the gift she’d always been.

Darling,

when would you like to give the world the gift you’ve always been?

Perhaps you could begin by blessing yourself with your own presence.

Until you are present with you,

you can’t very well receive for being you, can you now?

So, while you may well ‘earn’ and ‘accomplish’ and be rewarded for your strive,

that will never be the same as being granted all that was always given to the fullest expression of you.

Stop waiting to be the person you think you can be when you’ve climbed the damn hill.

And realise that what you’re sitting on already is the entire freaking world.

And always, always, ALWAYS, remember –

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