One of the hardest things you’ll need to understand, if you truly desire to let go of patterns which have ensnared you, and stopped you, from being all you are, is that you ARE going to need to be clear on your boundaries and also live in accordance with that.
The people who trigger you, and you react, lash out, become (let’s call it what it is) a lower vibe version of yourself because it feels you can’t NOT in that moment and it just kind of happens, you ARE going to need to learn how to respond with calm.
Removal of emotion, and reference only to the facts, or indeed with no response at all.
You can’t continue to engage with toxic behaviours (your own or other people’s!) and also try to walk around saying “I’m free, I’m living in alignment, I’m being all of me!”
(And you know this)
You’re going to have to do the damn work of conditioning yourself out of these programmed and fear or hurt-based reactions and into instead being the evolved version of you who is currently waiting, feeling more than a little bit handcuffed and miffed about it, in the wings.
People and their pesky ways, that’s just one part of it of course!
How about your own day to day patterns of giving in, or flaking out, being less than who you know you MUST?
We’re certainly never here to work for the sake of it, to concern ourselves with the do do do approach to success as we know that to live that way is no form of success at all (regardless of outcomes) and that indeed if we are to receive them we must first BE, however –
At the same time –
And again, let’s not play coy here, we BOTH know you already know this – !
In order to be the person.
Live the life.
Have the things, sure.
But most of all, and THIS is really why we must do whatever it is that that next level version of us WOULD be doing each day, in order to feel we are actually LIVING.
You know… fulfilment. Connectedness to purpose. Access to our divine magic, and power and all that!!
This is the stuff where, if we are not allowing it to live and breathe then it doesn’t matter WHAT we supposedly ‘have’ or any or all reasons why we SHOULD be happy, we just won’t be.
The only thing for it has always been:
Become who you’re meant to be, in all areas and ways.
So when you allow resistance, or fear, or “I didn’t feel like it!”, or “the muse wasn’t upon me!” and other such thoughts (for they are just passing thoughts, and you can opt in or out of them) like this to dictate your behaviour, you put a massive STOP sign up to life itself, and to your higher self, saying:
“Nope! I don’t want any of it! I’m not ready! Block me at all possible turns, puh-lease!”
I mean REALLY…
WHY IN THE NAME OF ALL THAT IS GOOD AND HOLY WOULD YOU DO THAT?
It’s just WEIRD!!
Look, I get how hard and never-ending it can be…
I get that your excuses feel real, and valid…
I get that you really did meant it, when you say you’ll be different this time, you’re going to change, you’re doing the work, just watch!
But when you then don’t?
When you then fail to press play on what’s aligned AGAIN?
When you repeatedly ‘Boy Who Cried Wolf’ your own life?
Well at some point one really does have to wonder, do you actually believe –
That you were born for it…
That you can have it all, the ‘all’ which is in you…
Or, quite simply, this:
Of turning away, however many times it takes, from people or patterns or behaviours or choices that stop you from being all of you.
The work of aligning daily, all day, every day, to being the higher self version of you who is damn TIRED of waiting for her time.
The time is now, that’s when it’s always been.
You can journal over and over again on being free, ready, and “it’s my time!”.
But if you don’t CHOOSE that reality through your actions, the things you say yes to no matter WHAT your surface based emotion or fear has to say about it, and also of course the things you must walk away from, and all of this daily and IN ALL AREAS, then guess what?
It ain’t your time and it may never be.
Not because it’s not available, or because you’re not worth it; we know you are.
But because you just never did.
I guess at the end you’ll just say “oh well, I was busy. It was too hard. I wasn’t sure. And besides, I just kinda forgot that of course …”
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