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Success Mindset

DANCE, PRETTY PUPPET, DANCE … and watch as they LOVE you!

Do you know what really gets my goat, has me rolling my eyes so far back in my head you’d fear I might lose ’em, but has also at times had me bound in fear, running scared, and acting like a pretty low-vibe pussy version of myself?

Ugh, it’s disgusting to even think about! But also, SO important, and such a powerful lesson, if you just step back and observe.

Observe?

Well, you don’t need to observe me, although clearly I don’t mind if you do, but really it’s on each of us to stop, pause, retreat perhaps, for just a moment, get out of the emotion of the damn thing, and ask ourselves WHY we are choosing to show up from such scarcity, and what it is we actually believe at our core.

I’m talking about the idea that there is a way to HOOK people, to capture them, to get them to ‘respond’ to you, say yes to you, do your bidding, really, and also (ugh ugh ugh) meet your needs, fill you up, give you what you want and LONG for.

Is there?

Uhhhh … sure. #eyerolleyerolleyeroll

Of COURSE you can say the things
that gets the people
to jumpeth through the hoopeths
and fill you up up up up UP, with money or ‘love’ or ‘power’, etc

But, just a thought –

What are you being filled with REALLY,
and who exactly are these people we’re talking about, who will respond to such wily ways? I KNOW you know we’re not talking about your soul peeps!

So what’s a girl to do then, if she longs for and craves and wants and needs and DESIRES to be filled up, to receive, to be abundant in all good things, to have her deepest yearnings met, and to finally be rich, loved, free?!

^^^ ain’t nothin’ wrong with wanting this stuff, by the way. Indeed you GET to have it! You GET to have it all, there’s no other way … I certainly don’t know of another way for me, and so I’d be the last to suggest that there should be for you!

And believe me, I get it, oh TRUST me, I get it, what it can feel like, when you’re feeling down –

and out –

and more than a little bit lost –

and SO far away

and so you start to tell yourself that maybe ‘they’ are right, and you need to learn these things, and do it properly. Play the game! After all, you want the result, don’t you? Don’t you?! And clearly your way of being you is all fucked up and not working, so BEST YOU LEARN HOW TO DO IT RIGHT SISTER!

So you listen to the marketing coaches –
And the sales coaches –
And the relationship coaches –
And the build you an audience coaches –
And the ‘get seen and paid’ coaches –
And the how to be a fucking HUMAN coaches –

And you hang your head just a little (but force it back up and smile ALL pretty-like, because you get it, no really, you get that you need to learn this stuff, and you’re happy to, no REALLY …!),

as they tell you:

Here is what to say to make ’em listen
Here is what to say to get ’em to buy
Here is what to say so that he finds you IRRESISTIBLE, no no no DON’T DO IT LIKE THAT YOU’LL SCARE HIM AWAY!

Now look
Now listen
Now watch
Now walk like this
Now talk like that
Now breathe just so
Now DANCE little puppet, DANCE

And so you dance and you twirl and you WHIRL on your strings, and you smile smile smile, oh SUCH a pretty smile and surely they won’t notice that it’s painted on,

or see the grimace that lies beneath it,

and the deep fucking sadness and desperation in your eyes, because surely, SURELY –

this is not how it needs to be –
this is not WHO you need to be
this is not what it needs to TAKE –

to catch a client
or a man
or a glimpse of your own motherfucking soul, no, no chance of that!

and who the fuck wants to CATCH something or someone anyway, when the people that are your people ARE JUST YOUR PEOPLE, and not only do they not need to be caught but indeed your ‘lemme hook you’ tactics will push them AWAY.

And you know this.
In your soul you KNOW this.
Which is why everything that THEY teach you feels so off!

Which brings us to this –

You wanna be irresistible, so you can do have what you want and all your needs met, money and love and power and respect oh YES?!

BEING IRRESISTIBLE IS NOT SOMETHING YOU ACHIEVE FROM A FUCKING FORMULA, AND FOLLOWING THE RULES.

Unless it’s that you don’t believe that you at your core are enough –

Magnetic –

A true leader –

Badass woman –

Or worthy of being seen, loved, paid, and so on.

And if you don’t then I’d probably be working on all of THAT, rather than the stupid fucking strategy they’re trying to make you dance to in order to get a few measly peanuts thrown at you.

Being irresistible is not something you achieve from a formula, or from following the rules.

It is a REMEMBRANCE.

That’s what it is.

And that’s all it is.

It’s you returning to the true and truly magnetic and compelling ‘just watch ’em never be able to look away’ essence of YOU.

The most irresistible tool you have at your disposal is your soul, and whatever the physical manifestation of you being led by it, but FULLY, looks like.

Best you get to showing it.

And run like the wind from anybody or anyone who tells you to do or think or believe shit that saddens it.

You want a fucking formula?

That’s your fucking formula.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!