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I took myself on a bike riding date the other day, just me and a set of wheels I borrowed from my hotel in Santa Monica, and an hour or two in the late afternoon sun to cruise back and forth along the esplanade from the Santa Monica pier to the Venice Beach boardwalk.

It was beautiful, it was soul rejuvenating, it was FUN, and it was nearly something I didn’t do because, well, basically I kind of couldn’t be bothered getting off my ass to go on a bike ride JUST FOR FUN AND NO REAL REASON.

“If I was with someone, it would make more sense to do things like afternoon bike rides”, I thought.

But, I went anyway.

As I rode along I felt a little lonely seeing all the couples and groups of friends hanging at cute little beachside cafes and bars, and once again found myself thinking that if I was with someone I’d probably do things like just hang out and chill at a bar in the afternoon. By myself? Meh, I have no problems going places by myself, I regularly take myself to dinner or the movies alone, but I just wasn’t feeling it to go sit and have a drink alone that day and so I kept riding. I thought about how, even though I have a lot of fun in my life and also a lot of self care time, or time out time, it’s rare that I do anything outside of my normal hobbies, activities, and day to day-ness of my business, my fitness, and parenting. It’s pretty rare that I try something new … go somewhere new … embark upon an adventure or outing just with ME. These are the kinds of things you tend to do with somebody else. And I guess in a way the fact that I don’t speaks to the fact that I have created a life I love! So that’s something to be happy about.

But at the same time, I really did enjoy that bike ride SO much that it got me to thinking about why I don’t take more time to just do random spontaneous things. And I had to acknowledge that I definitely think that when I am again in a relationship one day I would probably do those sorts of things more then.

That may be true, however it’s that kind of mindset of essentially WAITING to fully press play, to fully live your life, to fully be you, which can stop you from EVER getting to live the life you want.

If you want to be in an incredible relationship with your soulmate person, have love and intimacy and fun and adventure and all the things just be a part of your day to day, then guess what?

Best you’d be making love and intimacy and fun and adventure and all the things just be a part of your day to day. Like … now! With or without anybody else being part of the picture! If for no other reason than for the fact that if you want to be interesting to others you’re gonna need to start with being interesting to YOU, but also because, well –

You deserve to have those things now.
Those things are available to you now.
And in not CHOOSING them now, you actively are PUSHING AWAY ever getting to a place where you have ’em at all.

After all, how manifestation works, how you get to ANY ‘next level’ place in your life, is through EMBODIMENT. You wanna be the person, BE the person. You wanna be at such and such point, go to such and such point, and do / be / allow / walk away from what would be true if you were already there!

You don’t get ANY place by waiting to be at said place. It’s just not how it works.

When it comes to business and money, this is huge. So many people are out there wondering why they’re not there yet, why money and soulmate fuck yes clients, and offers that just flow, are nowhere to be found, all the while not seeming to realise that every part of who they are screams NOT FUCKING ABUNDANT AND NOT IN TRUST OR RECEIVING.

If you want love … BE in love. Go to a place where you are IN love, within you, and where you are doing / being / trusting / living fully, without any sort of limitation or idea that you can’t ‘until’.

If you want to be in hot as fuck shape, with a body which looks and feels amazing, go to a place where how you move, how you eat, how you take care of yourself, reflects how you would do so if you were there.

And if you want money to flow in rivers like manna from heaven above, then for the love of God start to embody an abundance attitude in every part of how you live.

YEP, this may even mean letting go of your tight-fisted grasp over money, and spending a little, or certainly at LEAST saying yes to what soul would have you do with money rather than saying yes to FEAR, but it’s more than that.

So much more.

It’s the way you hold yourself.

The way you look around.

The way you expect life to show up for you.

The way you BREATHE even.

You either have an air of expecting life to support you and take care of you, and TRUSTING in the reality of abundance or, well, you do not.

Just as you either have an air of EXPECTING your body to work for you, and knowing you are safe to follow what feels right in the moment with food and movement, or, well, you do not.

Just as you either expect love, intimacy, affection, attention, fun and play etc to of COURSE just come along whenever you want ’em, or, well, you do not.

No matter which way you look at it there is NO denying the fact that your outcomes in life reflect your expectations. And you can argue all you like about whether or not it’s fair or whether or not you know how or are ready, but you just won’t become the person you want to be without being the person you want to be!

See, the things you don’t have yet are not there because you’ve not made space for them.

You’ve not made them part of your everyday, your expected and ‘normal’ reality.

And no, this doesn’t technically mean you need to make a list of things like ‘go on bike rides and to cute bars by myself’ or ‘go buy all the things I would buy if I were already rich’, (maybe it does though, sometimes!), it’s more about –

What energy are you putting out there?

Who are you stating and RE stating yourself to be?

And, in a practical sense, what WOULD be different for you right now if you were already there.

Look, I know it’s hard and that when resistance has got you and you just want the damn thing already you feel deflated, contracted, down, and just can’t manage to ‘even’.

But –

You can do it anyway.

You can recode at any time.

And no matter whether you like it or not you ARE ALREADY CHOOSING WHO YOU ARE –

Where you are –

And what you have.


How’s that working out for you, hmmm? And for how much longer would you love to keep waiting to live your damn life?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.