Success Mindset

Expansive As Fuck

Don’t look at the women or men who you admire, look up to, consider to ‘have their shit together’ or be SO confident and self-assured, and assume that they are any less human than you.

As a prolific writer and content creator who has built a mult-million dollar / year business just by pouring out her soul each day, I can tell you that one of the states of being I most REGULARLY find myself in is feeling self-conscious and exposed as fucccccckkkk.

You know that walk of shame type feeling? I get it all the time! I’ll get off a livestream and feel this kind of conditioned response that makes me want to shrink … hide … I feel like I SHOULD contract, I feel self-conscious, I feel like ‘did I go too far?’

‘Was I silly?’

‘Do people think I’m an idiot?’

‘Why did I say THAT?!’

Ugh. I’ll often walk away from filming and have such a STRONG urge to just go bury my head under the blankets, it feels like I did something almost WRONG!

Or, I’ll publish a blog post, pour out my heart, bleed all over the damn page, and then head off to the gym feeling as though I am COATED in something I need to shake off, get away from. Some sort of embarrassment mixed with judgement of myself or fear OF judgement perhaps.

Yeah, there are also loads of times when I feel ON FUCKING FIRE with how damn awesome I AM! Haha. I publish plenty of stuff where I KNOW I nailed it and I am riding the superflow wave so hard that NOTHING is gonna get me down, not even my own crazy doubts and fears! I crave those times, I love those times, I continue to CHASE that feeling every day, like a surfer who will NEVER stop looking for the perfect wave.

It’s a huge part of why I do what I do, and will never stop. Well, that, plus the fact that the message just keeps on comin’, like it or not, right?!

But here’s the deal –

ESPECIALLY if you just nodded or smiled and said ‘yep!’, when I asked ‘right?’

ARE you letting the message be the message, the art be the art, the content OUT when it taps on the door of your soul and tells you its here?

Or are you ruled by your own insecurities, doubts, and a desire to not feel like you’re BARING YOUR NAKED SELF TO THE WORLD ALL THE TIME?

‘Cause I gotta tell you …

You’re either an artist, and therefore by definition we BETTER be seeing and feeling you raw, naked, exposed, OFTEN – !

Or you’re, well –

I don’t know. Nobody any of us will ever know, or remember.

Nobody who will ever do their true purpose work, create a legacy, leave people BREATHLESS.

Let alone make millions of DOLLAZ, impact millions of people, like you know you were born to do.

I didn’t get to where I am now – a multi-million dollar from PURPOSE content creator, who has a business and life completely on her terms and allowing FULL freedom, by doing what felt COMFORTABLE.

Even though I am now very practised at baring my soul, messaging and creating and sharing on the daily, it is STILL not comfortable! God, I would hope not! If it feels comfortable it’s a sure sign I’m not really connecting in, not really allowing true creativity and magic to come out. If I’m getting COMFORTABLE you can be certain my income is probably dropping down, my soul is NOT happy, and I’m not going to bed at night feeling fulfilled, purposeful, like I did what I came here to do!

FUCK feeling comfortable!

FUCK it being ‘easy’ … yeah I talk about ease and flow all the time, but really I mean it is SIMPLE, and I also mean – it’s a hella lot easier to DO WHAT YOU’RE MEANT TO DO EACH DAY and feel filled UP than what it is to repeatedly shirk the responsibility of being YOU, and have to live with THAT shit each day!

No wonder you can’t even look yourself directly in the mirror, if that’s how you’re living!

I know I am doing it RIGHT when, near to daily, often more than once a day, I find myself feeling like ‘oh my God … ugh … did I really say that … eek … hide!’

I also know that these are CONDITIONED emotional responses, because we are taught it’s not safe to be who we really are, we won’t be accepted, we’ll be pushed out of the tribe, and not safe!

In a general sense, this is true.

In a PRESS FUCKING PLAY ON PURPOSE SENSE, this truth can get fucked RIGHT up the ass, ’cause there are PLENTY of badass crazy creators just like you who will also honour you for BEING you, and just by the by also will not SEE you if you are not being that next level you!

Aka: this might be why you struggle to find soul aligned clients, lovers, friends – you not being the raw bloody ALL of you baby!

So,

When you pull back.

When you hide.

When you FAIL to press play, publish, repeat.

Just know that if you’re thinking it’s justified because it felt too uncomfortable, too raw, too EXPOSING –

And you’ve told yourself you need to get to where you’re SO confident and certain, like me, or like others who you see show up for their heart each day without exception –

Just know you are full of shit.

With love.

And you KNOW this, so don’t try pretending you didn’t know all this on a soul level already!!

And?

YOU HAVE THE POWER OF CHOICE TO CHANGE, RIGHT NOW.

The ONLY way to be a soul-led artist, creator, YOU, and also allow yourself to build the multi-million dollar biz and PURPOSE FILLED LIFE, is to GET COMFORTABLE WITH BEING UNCOMFORTABLE.

Feel the feelings of ‘eek!’

And show the fuck up anyway.

And I wonder …

Where d’ya think you’d be,

A year from now,

6 months from now,

a MONTH from now,

If you just decided to be the you who acts from outcome, and for the damn art, rather than who lives for excuses, and bullshit?

I know where.

It’s where I live.

There is space for you, we’re waiting!

And I’ll tell you –

It’s PRETTY DAMN FUCKING WORTH ALL THE SQUIRMY DISCOMFORT YOU WILL HAVE TO KEEP FACING,

To show up for your art.

To show up for your LIFE.

To show up for you.

Really,

Were you actually ever convinced there could be another way?

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

PS

Programmed to Upgrade is happening gorgeous, and WHOOOOO MAMA is this the work that works.

25 days, you and me, 1:1, to quantum leap like you’ve NEVER leapt before.

This will be intense …

And a lil bit scary. But buckle up, because you KNOW you’re ready for it.

SO fucking ready 😉

Programmed to UPGRADE!

25 Days, 1:1, with Katrina Ruth, to SCREW the Rules, SCREW the Norm, Go So Damn Extra, So Freaking Hot, So Fully SEEN, and Snap Your Future Into the Now So Damn Fast It’d Make Your Head Spin … even as you nod in certainty that of COURSE, this is what was ALWAYS supposed to be ..

Places are already filling, and we begin next week. If you know it’s time to say yes to MAGIC, and creating your reality from the supernatural, and you’re SO ready to drop the paradigm of always having to DO (and yet still not be there!) then message me now.

I’ll get you the full overview, and talk personally with you about whether or not it’s for you.

To the supernatural baby, and beyond …

PPS

I HAVE SOME BIG NEWS TO SHARE!

As of today, I’m opening up the doors to my Inner Circle, my private client mastermind.

This is THE most badass high level mastermind in the world for women who want it all – and are prepared to do what it takes to get it! Really what we’re talking about is being prepared to be the PERSON.

And that’s what I do. I help you remember ALL that you were, and then become it. ALL Of it.

This is my highest level private mentoring circle. The exact place where I have personally mentored dozens of this industry’s most elite female entrepreneurs to break income barriers ranging from 10k months to multiple 7 FIGURE months, and everything in between. But more importantly than that – to become who and what they always were.

But know that this is not only (obviously) not just for the masses, this is also not just for someone who can afford to invest in a high level private coach. Being willing to throw money down is something which has absolutely zero correlation to being somebody who has what it takes to TRULY go next level as a leader.

If anything, in this industry, investing in a high level coach such as myself, is a rite of passage which veers just a little too much on the side of ‘trend’. It’s become something which ‘everybody does’, almost as a way of proving they play business and life a certain way.

Maybe even of trying to prove it to themselves.

Here is the reality which those who I am truly here to personally mentor and lead KNOW, the reality which my clients and all women like me as well as of course me personally have ALWAYS known:

We are VERY VERY DIFFERENT.

We are simply, smarter, faster, and have more presence. We can do more in our minds before breakfast than what most people can do in a freakin’ WEEK, a month, a year.

We are not basic ass coaches trying to heave ho our way up a few extra thou a month.

We are the ones who have ALWAYS known we are 1% within the 1% within the 1% in terms of how we think, create, operate, how and WHAT we are tapped in too.

This is not arrogance, this is fact.

And there has NEVER been any question but that we will go all the way.

My clients are high level badasses who do the work, who have a proven track record BEFORE coming to me, and a BEING-ness which unquestionably separates them from the rest. They don’t come to me to save them or lean down and hold my hand out so they can clamber up. They come because they are, quite simply, ready to go to the next level, already absolutely on their WAY there, and see in me something which they recognise because it is in them.

That ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ fire, and a level of ‘unapologeticness’ which, when truly understood and applied, can literally be the difference between 5-figure or low 6-figure and 7 or multi-7-figure entrepreneur.

So if you know who you are and it is THAT –

And you feel certain that you are ALREADY well on your way to to precisely where you’re meant to be, but that being in MY energy could help you to drop in and get there even faster, and that with a couple of simple tweaks your current revenue could be doubling, tripling, heck QUADRUPLING and beyond in months, as it has done with numerous of my clients previously, well then –

PM me here http://m.me/katrinaruthofficial and we’ll see if it’s a fit. I’m excited to talk to you, and maybe – do biz and life with you.

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