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Success Mindset

THE INCREDIBLE POWER OF BEING DEEPLY VULNERABLE

And she wondered, ‘what am I actually scared of here?’

The fear-mind was quick to answer –

‘I’m scared of people losing interest in me. Of them no longer wanting me, of me not being good enough to captivate, keep their interest, BUILD this thing into what I dream of it being, you know?!’

But the soul had other things to say about that –

‘Stand in your power. BE who you are. You are fucking magnetic when you let yourself BE you. And that’s all there is to that!

Stop worrying about it 

You KNOW you are safe, loved, worthy of ALL things your heart desires, and if it’s not this venture right here, if your so-called deepest fears come true and they all just don’t WANT you anymore, then that is perfect, and aligned, and it will be something even better.

So, as always, there’s nothing you need to do, but always (when called) action to take …’

And she said to herself softly –

‘Yes. I am safe. I am loved. I know exactly what to do. So, why do I feel that needy energy sometimes, like – 

I want, I have to, I must see things growing faster, the likes and comments mounting, the PROOF that it’s working and it’s going to be okay?

Well –

Partly validation, it’s true. The desire to have EVIDENCE of being worthy or wanted.

But actually it’s also just a desire for that attention.

A desire to be seen.

A desire to be heard.

A desire to be wanted.

And actually that’s okay …’

*

Here is what you need to know and understand, about the incredible power of being deeply vulnerable:

The ONLY way you can ever have the freedom you so desperately crave, is to stop living in fear.

Money won’t give you freedom, it doesn’t matter how much of it you have.

Attention won’t give you freedom, even from the whole damn WORLD.

Being told you’re loved, wanted, cool, badass, hot as fuck, desired – none of these things will give you freedom.

If you’re looking to get to a certain level so that you then feel SAFE and like you are VALIDATED and PHEW, you clearly made it to the top, and LOOK, here’s proof, then you need to stop and understand something:

You’ll never get there.

You’ll reach each new level, the point where you thought it would be enough and you’d be able to relax, enjoy yourself, BASK in that freedom, and you’ll realise as soon as you GET there, that fuck –

I still don’t feel safe.
I still don’t feel worthy.
I still don’t feel loved.
I still freaking feel like it’s all just a house of cards, and it could be snatched away at any moment!

Right?

Right.

There’s only one way out of this, don’t you see?

There’s only one thing for it!

There’s only one POSSIBILITY here –

You gotta let go, gorgeous.

You can do this right now …

Let go of looking for likes.
Loves.
(or love)
Attention.
Being told you’re a badass, or cool, or wanted, or that you’re doing it right.
Let go of having to get to a certain point, get certain proof, get certain feedback.

It doesn’t mean you can’t desire these things, intend to have them, expect it and also of course GET it!

But it will come when you realise you don’t NEED it in order to feel complete, whole, happy, safe.

And here is what else:

You must give in to COMPLETE vulnerability.

A no holds barred life.

Imagine … just imagine – !

If you always said what was on your mind …

If you didn’t hold a single thing back …

If you repeatedly let what’s inside of you come out …

If you stopped LIVING from FEAR, on the big things but also EVERY little thing.

Moment by moment –

FULLY LETTING YOURSELF BE WHO YOU ARE

And letting what’s inside of you out

Imagine if you did this not only in business, with your message and your art, but also in every situation in LIFE!

YES it would be scary.
YES it would confront the fuck out of you at times.
And YES you will get used to it, it will get EASY to just not question yourself, to just automatically stand in your truth.

To stand in your power.

To BE who you are, and truly not give a fuck.

Doesn’t mean you don’t still want what you want 

Of course you wanna be seen, heard, noticed, or you wouldn’t be here.

But, it means you’re finally coming at it without fear.

And with the understanding that ACTUALLY, the only way to ACHIEVE any of that anyway, is to STAND IN YOUR POWER AND TRUTH, and be all that you are.

Full transparency.
Full vulnerability.
Full ‘here I am bitches’
Fully MEANING it when you say ‘take it or leave it’

And from that place?

You’re magnetic as fuck.

Doors will be opened to you.

People will be drawn to you.

You can do what you WANT.

And all you gotta do to get there?

Flick the God damn switch gorgeous.

New rule:

I say what I think, always.

I don’t hold back.

I show the world all that I am, ALL of it, and I trust that in doing so I give myself the stuff I was so desperately looking for the whole time anyway.

If you already had everything you wanted
And it was IMPOSSIBLE for you to lose it or have it taken away
THEN how would you be showing up and letting yourself live?

FULL messaging.
FULL unleashing of art.
FULL love.
FULL open communication.
FULL vulnerability and truth.

KNOWING it’s impossible for it to cost you anything, and that there is ZERO risk of shit somehow not working or getting screwed up.

Life would be so easy …

Life would be so fun …

YOU would be so fun …

And?

You’d be motherfucking POWERFUL girl, don’t you see?

I wonder how that’d impact business …

And well, everything

Hmm?

Hmmm.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!