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Success Mindset

IS FIGHTING TO STAY ALIGNED WHAT’S HOLDING YOU BACK?

Okay, so I know you guys totally GET the reality that success is not about following a series of steps, right? You know that if you look at someone else’s –

Fitness
Wealth
Business fame
Rockin’ launch
Etc

– that it’s never going to be about looking at every PRACTICAL action they take and then trying to replicate it, because something working for ONE person doesn’t mean it’s going to work for EVERY person, and even if a particular approach works for a LOT of people still doesn’t make it automatic that YOU will get those results!

We all know people who ‘follow all the rules’ from a practical standpoint, in order to lose weight / make money / build their biz / etc, and yet they still don’t have the results.

In short? Mindset matters and is in fact the HIGHEST level priority in terms of where your efforts to create new results should be focused, regardless of the supposed complexity of achieving said result or of how much ‘work’ it’s supposed to take.

As far as I’m concerned, and I know many of you agree with me, the REAL work is the work from within.

This is why in THIS community we focus FIRST (not exclusively you understand; physical ACTION definitely is still a BIG part of what we do!) on:

Alignment

Flow

Following your path from the heart

Being intuitively guided

Doing the work that MATTERS to you before and sometimes even fully instead of the work you think you SHOULD do

Giving ourselves permission to fully BE ourselves

Actively cultivating a success mindset, treating our internal work like the discipline and daily practice it should be

Focusing on who we need to BE before what we need to DO

And so on.

My favourite sort of stuff to talk about, journal about, think and live and dream and even breathe about!

You too? Cool … probably why we like each other so much!

And make no mistake, if you’re new to this community or to me, this is a‪#‎tribe‬ of women who get. shit. done. We do more before breakfast before most people manage in a week, a month, heck a lifetime if we’re being perfectly honest about it! We move so fast even our shadows can’t keep up, we do WHAT it takes, no MATTER what it takes, for as LONG as it takes UNTIL it takes and then we just. keep. going. We spin the world on it’s head DAILY and then dance on top of it naked for good measure.

We are, in short, superwomen incarnate.

And completely modest about it.

Anyway … where was I?

Okay, so yeah. You and I, we GET that it’s not about the STEPS. We GET that it’s not about following a SYSTEM.

But tell me honestly now:

Somewhere –

In the midst of all –

The alignment searching –

And flow lovin’ –

And journaling –

And figuring out what really makes your SOUL sing, and what your True Work and Art actually IS –

And learning what makes you tick, your community tick, and perhaps even what makes you MONEY –

Have you or have you not created a sort of a SYSTEM for yourself?

Now there’s nothing inherently WRONG with systems, oh God no! I LOVE having my team use various systems to market my work, pitch me to the passes, maintain order and great service and so on!

But living your LIFE by a system?

Well, here’s where it becomes a very fine line to walk:

For ME, the system I want to live by is essentially the one I outlined above. You know, the whole alignment / flow / tap into your natural guidance / cultivate a success mindset / focus on who I want to BE not what I should DO sort of a thang.

So how do I follow that system? Well, over time I’ve found particular activities that really WORK for me.

Journaling. Writing my daily blog. Writing more for my books. Creating loads of cool stuff and launching it in a fairly random manner online. Making selfie YouTube videos. Doing some Periscope streaming. Working out. Spending time in nature. Doing yoga. Reading cool stuff. Learning cool stuff. Eating a certain way. Thinking a certain way. Spending my time on particular activities and not on others.

It’s the path I’ve found by paying ATTENTION to what works from an alignment AND practical result point of view.

And it’s become –

Slowly –

But surely –

EVER so fucking boring.

It’s become a repetitive freaking system! I’m a chick who talks about getting out of the fucking box and living life on your terms, making up your own rules and not being afraid to go WAY against the grain and yet I’ve essentially created my OWN PRETTY LITTLE BOX to hop around in!

To the point where if I don’t JOURNAL or I don’t WRITE a certain WAY or it gets to a particular TIME of day and I haven’t yet done my daily video I start WORRYING.

Worrying that I’m not doing what I SHOULD do.

Worrying that if I don’t do ALL THE STUFF I’ve assigned to myself as ‘my true work’ and my ALIGNED work then, essentially, BAD THINGS WILL HAPPEN.

The underlying belief here?

If I do THIS, then I’ll get THAT result. In my case it’s been about if I do my true aligned work, create in a certain way, be a certain type of person, take care of my body, my health, my mind, then I’ll be rich, hot, happy and free. Or you know, I’ll do okay.

And therefore if OH MY GOD I don’t DO that stuff, or I don’t do it in a certain WAY, then I won’t get those results and the entire fucking thing (aka my life, my success) will come CRASHING DOWN AROUND ME!

Have a think about this and how it applies to you.

Do you have certain things, things you do essentially LOVE and that come naturally to you or that you’ve cultivated because you fully BELIEVE in them, that you’ve somehow –

Unwittingly –

Over time –

Turned into your very own pretty little system in a box?

And if you have, are you willing to explore a different way?

I can tell you that ALIGNMENT and FLOW and leading from WITHIN and doing your TRUE WORK doesn’t ACTUALLY work – ever – when you make it about conformity.

And honey even though YOUR brand of conformity might be so freaking different and AWESOME compared with what the rest of the world is doing if you’re jumping through hoops?

You’re jumping through hoops.

You know?

So here is what I’ve found:

You can actually do ALL the stuff that you know works for you.

For me everything I listed above is still my PERFECT FUCKING DAY and the foundation of my perfect fucking LIFE.

But it’s about the place it comes from.

It’s about whether you’re saying, within, ‘if this then that’, vs if you’re being truly LED from within, from alignment.

Like I said … a fine fucking line to walk.

But one that you KNOW when you’re on the right side of, vs not.

So today your challenge is simply my love:

Stop.

Listen.

HEAR what you’re listening to.

And step back, once again, into doing you.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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