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FAIL
Success Mindset

YOU CAN’T FUCKING FAIL AT BEING YOU

Sooner or later you’re going to have to admit that this whole quest to succeed the way you think you SHOULD or MUST is nothing but a terrible, terrible distraction from doing what would ACTUALLY make you happy, rich, aligned, successful, and FREE.

Face it: you’re doing all this STUFF because ultimately what you do WANT, is freedom.

You want to be able to be and do and have and unleash anything you desire, live your life on purpose and completely on your terms!

You want to wake up every day and KNOW that it’s going to be nothing less than amazing, filled with passion and flow, and that when you’re head hits the pillow at night you will feel FULL with the knowledge that this was a good day, a great day, precisely the day it was MEANT to be and that you’re on.fucking.track.

Well, here’s a question to sober you up:

When did you last feel like THAT, hey?

When did you last go to bed at night knowing you lived your purpose, ALL in, gave it everything and did ONLY what you are meant to be doing to ACTUALLY create the business, the life, the you it’s ACTUALLY meant to be about?

The thing is –
In your quest for FREEDOM –
You’ve done exactly what you swore you wouldn’t do.

You’ve capitulated.

Just a little –

Which day by day –

Has added up to the cold hard REALITY that your days are filled with a whole bunch of STUFF you really don’t want to be doing, but worse still than that stuff you’re really not SUPPOSED to be doing.

And it was just supposed to be a little bit … for a little while … but somehow it’s become who you ARE, what you stand for, and ultimately if you don’t change it now it will become what you’re known for and then what you DIE for.

You’re giving your life for the things you’re filling it with, that’s the reality.

The activities, the time spent, the people you spend it with, the tasks you tell yourself you’ll one day STOP … all of that stuff is a recipe YOU have created which is RIGHT FUCKING NOW carving out your destiny.

It’s not a bad thing, to admit you’re on the wrong path and that you’ve fallen – as we all do at some point! – into the trap of doing shit you don’t really want to do and that is NOT your true purpose.

It is a TERRIBLE fucking thing to acknowledge that and then NOT do something about it.

It would mean that you’re consciously choosing to allow fear to guide you, effectively stating that even though you KNOW THIS IS NOT QUITE – or at all! – the RIGHT LIFE, well, too bad, you’re just gonna keep going with it because hey! You’ve started now! And hey! What if the right life doesn’t work out for you?

The question is, do you actually believe it is POSSIBLE to fail at being you? If you stop and think about that statement it seems ridiculous that I even asked it! How can you fail at being YOU?!

The answer, my answer, my BELIEF, which I CHOOSE, and which I would love to pass on to you, is simple:

YOU CAN’T FUCKING FAIL AT BEING YOU.

Seriously!!

But here is what THAT means, and why most people will NEVER DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT:

It means that the stuff you feel inside of you is real.

It means that the shit you dream of ‘one day’ doing is exactly what you are SUPPOSED to be doing. NOWNOWNOWNOWNOWNOWNOWNOW not one day. Life is NOW. The time is ALWAYS now. When in doubt START NOW.

It means that your biggest and most CRAZIEST fantasy dreams are POSSIBLE for you, because God simply doesn’t give you a dream you can’t create, aren’t capable of, are not allowed!

It MEANS that you need to getthefuckoveryourself, and get on with it.

It means you need to look fear in the eye and decide to DANCE with it, not be COMMANDED by it.

It means you need to go all the way fucking in, baby, and not wait for a moment longer.

It means you CANNOT FAIL WHEN YOU DO ALL OF THIS, because you CAN’T fail at being you, it’s literally impossible! So any PERCEIVED failure or struggle along the way is exactly what was meant to happen, and your guiding light needs ONLY to be what is ALIGNED, what is inside of you, what you dream of, what you just KNOW it’s meant to be about.

Imagine how much easier it would be to take action, if you never again had to worry about things not WORKING, because you’d chosen to believe that any so-called failure along the way was what was MEANT to happen because you CANNOT FAIL AT BEING YOU!

I gotta tell you from personal experience … it is a HELLUVA lot easier to take action when you choose to think this way!

So what would it look like –

NOW –

If you admitted what you really want, and what your heart, your soul, your every cell tells you you’re supposed to be doing?

The thing is –
It’s NOT just about the fact that you can’t fail at being you and that you CAN create everything you dream of if only you’d just press fucking play.

The thing is –
And THIS is what you should really be scared of!
If you don’t go all in at being you, and living your calling, doing what you KNOW you’re capable of and what you came here to do –
You’ll never get anywhere, really, to get excited about.

You’ll resign yourself to a life of struggle.
Of small wins.
And flutters of excitement.
Of never quite making it.
And not being happy even when it appears that you have.

Because just as you can’t fail at being you?

You cannot win at being anybody else.

Stop fucking acting from fear gorgeous.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/