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kick fear
Success Mindset

TIME TO KICK FEAR TO THE CURB, ONCE AND FOR ALL. IT’S ONLY YOUR LIFE!!!

Everytime I find myself resisting really locking down a higher level goal, or avoiding repeatedly claiming it in my journaling, I remind myself:

Being switched on, in the flow, on FIRE and result-fucking-based where you truly DO get to have it all, is nothing more than a tiny –

Little –

Choice.

Think about it:

EVERYTHING you actually decided to make happen in your life, has. If it didn’t, you simply didn’t decide and/or there was a bigger reason for you NOT to let it happen, something which consciously or sub-consciously caused you enough fear or uncertainty to not allow the GOOD thing to take place.

Side note: I’d look at that shit, if I were you – dig INTO that stuff and figure it the fuck out, aka DECIDE to get over it!!

The insanely exciting thing here, if you’ve not actually stopped and thought about it, is that YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU OWN REALITY.

I know we SAY that all the time here! We hell yes to that stuff in our sleep!

But seriously now: have you actually truly locked in the ALL THE WAY picture of what you want? I know for me at least that is something I need to do repeatedly! DAILY, and in fact most days more than once. Journaling, mindset work, writing my reality – that’s not just something I post artsy pictures on Instagram of ’cause I use Mont Blanc pens and pretty writing books!

That is how I create my LIFE baby. It’s the most important part of my EVERY day action. And it’s how I CONTINUE to lock in what I’m creating, because until I see | feel | live | breathe | AM it? I’m just gonna KEEP on writing it, and to be perfectly honest even once I AM it I’ll keep on writing it, and just let it continue to evolve.

So don’t imagine for a second that goal or intention setting or writing out what you want to allow in, is a ONE TIME or SOMETIME thing. If you want to bring it to life in a physical sense you need to feel it in your SOUL, it needs to consume your mind in the sense that it’s completely implanted there.

All journaling is, is thought and belief conditioning. And even every personal development HALFWAY junkie knows:

Your beliefs form your thoughts.
Your thoughts become your words.
Your words become your actions.
Your actions form your habits.
Your habits become your values.
Your values dictate your DESTINY.

That’s personal development 101, but are you LIVING by it?

I can tell you that whenever I hang around my successful friends (sorry, my friends!!), whenever I go to dinner or drinks with clients, whenever I am in a success environment – such as the very high-level hotel breakfast patio I’m sitting at right now – and just listen in on conversations around me I hear the OUTCOME OF PEOPLE WHO DECIDED WHAT TO BELIEVE.

And the PHYSICAL manifestation of that is that these are people who are rich. Healthy. Energised. Switched on. In flow. Focused. And ruling the fucking world.

THAT IS NOT AN ACCIDENT.

Yet I think that still SO MUCH we allow ourselves with our big dreams to be distracted by anxiety about HOW, or fear that deep down we CAN’T, or worst of all the question of whether we’re GOOD enough in the first place.

It is CRITICAL to not allow yourself to continue to engage in this way of thinking. It is DEADLY to imagine even for a moment that your thoughts are of little consequence. What you THINK will form your entire.fucking.future.

It spews OUT of you, and you can’t control that.

EVERYBODY who knows you can see who you are.

And if YOU stop and think about it you’ll see the future you’re creating, and I HOPE that it stops you in your tracks and wakes you up enough to want to form a new one, a bigger one, a bolder one, a more EMPOWERED one, now, by just choosing to BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN.

DECIDE that you will.

And then follow the fuck through as though you KNEW it’s a done deal.

I can tell you that I’m the same as anybody else in that fear and anxiety can get to me, I battle resistance at upleveling – man, you should have seen me freaking out at the start of my photoshoot the other day, feeling like I look TOO MUCH, too HOLLYWOOD, and I can’t DO this … even though it’s exactly what I came for! My mind wanted to RUN AND HIDE. Go back to what felt normal, comfortable, allowed!

But I rolled up my sleeves.
And I worked my thang.

Because here is where I do know I’m different from those who talk about growth, and big-time success, yet don’t manage to create it. Here is where I see my friends and clients act differently, also:

Even when I’m in fear or uncertainty or overwhelm or HIDE, I fully know and believe that if I just choose to decide ANYWAY, I can and will create it.

So I can take even the most INSANELY HUGE goal, that freaks me out like a MOTHERFUCKER, where I feel like that’s SUCH a big freaking stretch and I just have NO IDEA HOW, and then I can remind myself:

“But Kat –

EVERYTHING you ever ACTUALLY decided you’d make happen, has.

So just find a way to actually DECIDE, and put aside whether it’s POSSIBLE, because you know that no matter how full on / crazy / uber-awesome it might be –

If you decide, it will happen.

It always has.

And always will.”

(Yes. I do actually talk to myself like that – often! That is LIFE creation right there!)

So the only HARD thing, really, I’ve found, is actually NOT doing whatever you ultimately find yourself DOING to get results. The actual physical work or hustle is just work or hustle. You gotta get through the day somehow anyway, and either way you ARE going to work at something! You might as well stop working at shit you don’t love, and weren’t born for, which on the surface maybe appears LESS SCARY and therefore easier but which actually DRAINS YOUR SOUL, and instead?

Just work at the shit that’s gonna get you to where you CHOOSE to be.

The ACTUAL hard thing is not the actual work required to be famous, sexy, hot, RICH. The ACTUAL hard thing is summoning up the courage to fucking leap.

Jump off the ledge.
Say yes to the thing.
COMMIT that you are going to do it.
And then take the first step.

If only there were a way you could learn how to just get OVER yourself enough to take that first step …!

Your whole LIFE would become automated creation of whatever you choose!!

Do you see how ridiculous it is, that you – we – allow ourselves to simply not CHOOSE? Think about it … ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS MAKE A NEW CHOICE.

EVERY day, those who are boldly living THEIR dreams and maybe triggering you because you have SIMILAR dreams, are simply stepping off that ledge.

JUST AS SCARED AS YOU.

But yet we do it anyway.

And I do want to stress that that IS an everyday choice, but here’s the thing:

Success is a fucking habit.

I look resistance and fear and self-doubt in the eye every day the same as ANYONE. I just long ago programmed myself to take the fucking leap anyway. I just long ago CHOSE, not to let my bullshit be bigger than my dreams. I just long ago DECIDED that I’m the kind of person who takes action and sets GOALS based on the result I want – really want! –

Rather than whether or not I feel like it.

Here’s the thing gorgeous:

Your life will be dictated by one of two realities:

You either create the life you felt like creating, based on HUMAN FUCKING RESISTANCE, DOUBT and FEAR –

Or you create the one you were born to create and ALWAYS HAD THE CHOICE TO TAKE.

Either way –

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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