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OVERWHELMED
Success Mindset

OVERWHELMED, STRESSED, CAN’T KEEP UP? STOP IGNORING YOUR PURPOSE THEN!

So you’re tired, overwhelmed, stressed and can’t seem to keep up with your own shit let alone all the shit everybody else is up to which you THINK you need to get onto

I get it.

I’ve been there too many times to count, and if you wanna know a secret? I’m still there, always and perpetually, teetering on the edge of overwhelm and I JUST WANT TO SCREAM THEN CRY AND RUN AND HIDE, with the other side of that fine line being the reality I instead CHOOSE to hang out in 99% of the time, namely OMFG my life is insanely awesome and I almost can’t believe I get to live this way, except it’s by design and I created it so of course I do 🙂

Safe to say, I prefer THAT side of the line but here is why it IS such a fine line and here’s what you need to know about not falling off the edge and into never-ending fear and panic:

You’ll be on the right side of the line when you spend the majority of your time doing what lights you up.

For those of us in THIS community – those of us who are the 1% within the 1%, the entrepreneurs, leaders, artists, creators, performers and REVOLUTIONARIES who’ve always known we are called and that we have a message and TRUE WORK to unleash – that means:

Create
Express
Unleash
Unchain
Preach
Empower
SHOW THE FUCK UP AND BE HEARD

For me, specifically, if I don’t write | speak | create | sell every.damn.day and in fact MULTIPLE times per day, okay let’s be honest pretty much ALL day long, then I turn into a raving ranting mess and NOT in a good way.

I find myself becoming anxious

I feel REALLY freakin’ overwhelmed, panicked, and as though no matter how much I do there will ALWAYS BE SO MUCH MORE …

I start to question EVERYTHING, even my gut instinct and intuition which I’m normally SUPER finely attuned to and in fact frequently and publicly credit as being my BEST business tool …

I feel like I REALLY don’t have time to properly do my inner work, my journaling and mindset practice and so I drop back time on it, do it less regularly, or if I get really sucked in I completely stop …

Everything feels like it’s just COMING AT ME all the time and I HATE it and I can’t STOP it and WHY CAN’T YOU ALL JUST FUCK OFF AND LET ME BINGE EAT MY WAY INTO OBLIVION.

And here you thought I just write and speak and create so much and bring the sales hustle DAILY because it has created me a multi-million dollar business and allowed me to impact millions as well 🙂

Ha!

I mean sure, yes, THAT is all great. But it’s first and foremost about me, and what I need. IT’S ALL ABOUT ME BABY!

And what I need is to DAILY and indeed ALL day express myself. Be HEARD. Be SEEN. UNLEASH. And show the fuck up, just like this, or in so many other ways.

The fact it makes me MONEY to message and create all day like this? Is entirely because I got sick and fucking tired (quite literally, and overtly, in both areas) of trying to get rich or successful by doing shit I didn’t wanna do.

I always was that kid who just wanted to do things her way …

I hated to follow the rules!

I just wanted to DO WHAT I WANTED TO DO which was ALWAYS to write and speak and lead and explore. So eventually after falling the fuck down into stress and panic and bingeing and FAILURE enough times I just got done with picking myself up again.

And I decided – in my FUCK THIS SHIT moment! – to find a way to make money doing what I love.

EVERYTHING I get to do now and the fact that my business not only allows but also DEPENDS on me creating from the heart all day, was because I decided that I was simply GOING to make money that way.

The thing to understand, is not just to nod your head and think YES, me too, I too need to write and speak and create and EXPRESS, but first I need to DO ALL THE THINGS so I have space and time and then I need to know, please tell me Kat, how do YOU fit it all in, what’s your schedule how do you DO ALL THE THINGS EACH DAY and still get to do YOU so much and do what you love …

But instead, HERE is what you need to understand:

I do what I do at the EXPENSE of all that other stuff.

This is the SECRET about staying on the right side of that line, about spending your days feeling lit up and excited and ON FUCKING FIRE and LOVING what you’re doing and being in the ZONE and also making MONEY from it.

The secret is IGNORE EVERYTHING THAT DOESN’T MATTER.

Create first.
Create always.
Create until you’re done creating.

Never gonna be done? Then THANK YOUR LUCKY STARS YOU WERE BORN LIKE THIS and keep.on.creating.

Wanna make MONEY from it? Then just do as I did and decide that that is HOW you’re going to make your money, commit to it fully and then follow the fuck THROUGH whether or not you feel like it or know how, and also, BY THE WAY ..

.. if you wanna make MONEY …

…..!!!!!!!!

ASK FOR THE FUCKING SALE.

All day.
Every day.

The way I do that is simply link all my offers to the end of my writing | speaking | creating and also the offer ITSELF is always simply an extension of my message and based in its ENTIRETY on what I really want to write and speak and unleash about.

Haven’t you noticed?!

But realise that this is not something SPECIAL FOR ME. I APPOINTED myself as this leader. I DECIDED this was how I was going to make my money. I REFUSED to back the fuck down and I made it so.

And as for dealing with all that OTHER shit?

Making things look right and putting them together right and doing ‘by the book’ lead gen and marketing and sales processes up and keeping up and getting back to people and being organised and on top of things …?

Nah .. not so much!! I stamped out THOSE bad habits of KILLING MY DREAMS long ago!

I stopped WORRYING about doing everything that had to be done.

I learned to be okay with the CHAOS.

I realised that if I didn’t focus on what MATTERED now, I never would.

I also tuned the fuck in to the REALITY that the fastest way for me to impact millions and also MAKE millions is to show up, message, and SELL. And fuck EVERYTHING else, and I mean that.

On a practical level, how I DO deal with all that other shit? I do NOT give in to it, because when I do then I stop messaging and doing what matters and temporarily tell myself the answer is to DO ALL THE THINGS so I can GET ON TOP OF THEM and instead what happens is I go into meltdown.

I’ve found that taking even a DAY off my messaging basically screws me emotionally for 3-4 days and makes me also SUPER unproductive and additionally makes me energetically OFF MY GAME as far as serving and selling.

So basically – me being organised is a terrible idea for everyone!

So instead what I do? I force all that stuff to fit into the POCKETS OF TIME. I use TIGHT timed periods to speed through it, as imperfectly as possible, AFTER I have done what matters. I leave it till the LAST POSSIBLE MINUTE so I then HAVE to get it done. And where at all possible I ruthlessly delete or delegate. Anything that feels like it could become time consuming or I don’t know HOW I take it off my list and instead start manifesting it as ‘already done’, trusting that it will be sorted out for me then by someone else or by God himself, and that’s then exactly what happens.

STOP telling yourself you need to do less and find a way to be on top of things if you feel overwhelmed and stressed.

The answer is NOT less and it’s not better organisation.

The answer is simply to do MORE, always, of what actually lights you up.

Do it now.
Do it all day.
Do it every day.

And fuck everything else.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/