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IS SHE A HARDCORE CLOSED OFF BITCH, OR JUST CERTAIN OF WHO SHE DAMN WELL IS?

“Well, you do have a bit of that hardcore bitch energy about you, I can see why people would say that” he said.

We were walking on the beach and I had brought up how I know I have a ‘fuck off bubble’ which I put up in a lot of situations. It’s very rare that this is deliberate, although I certainly know how to absolutely dissuade a person from even considering breathing near me if I so desire, without saying or doing anything or even changing my facial expression. But no, that’s not what I was referencing. I was talking about just my general ‘normal’ demeanour, and how I am fully aware I automatically, via my energy, tell most people – okay, fine, perhaps especially men – ‘don’t even think about it’.

I replied –

“Well, okay … maybe … but actually, is it that I have a hardcore bitch energy, or is it that I’m just really fucking certain of who I am, and most people are NOT, and so they don’t know what to do with that or how to really respond to it?”

He agreed with this idea which was nice … I think that anyone who is dropped in can see pretty easily beneath the so-called fuck off bubble … but it kept playing on my mind later.

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, or something along these lines.

Kissy Denise, who I fully love and adore and who I find to be simultaneously one of if not the most entertaining people I follow online as well as one of the most smack-you-in-the-face truthful and deep with her message, posted a blog a few days ago about how a lot of true Goddesses feel frustrated that they don’t get as much male attention as should probably be valid, based on how fucking hot and amazing and next level they are. (Okay, I added the fucking hot and amazing and next level bit in myself, I’m paraphrasing what Kissy said, but that was the gist!).

Not long ago, when I had a man situation which I thought was looking like a fuck yes go suddenly belly up and all OVER the damn place, my mother pointed out that it was probably a simple matter of God blocking something that wasn’t actually aligned.

“He has a better plan for you”.

In Kissy’s blog she wrote about how God doesn’t even let the not-right men, the not KING men, SEE you. They might see you through their penis … but not actually SEE you.

I know in my heart that this is true, even though the truth is also that it’s fucking annoying at times!

And, I think it’s not just true relevant to romance.

I think in all situations that with women and men as soul-led, as highly intelligent, as gifted and ‘other worldly’ as you and I (let’s just say it as it is, hmmm?), that ONLY our true people see us.

Other people, the not right people, the ones who were NEVER MEANT TO GET US nor we them – but yet whom we do sometimes misguidedly seek validation, approval, even love from – they will come close to us at times, but ultimately they will veer away.

“She’s just a cold-hearted hardcore bitch”

“She’s too much”

“She’s FRIVOLOUS, silly”

In business I often hear these sorts of things and I also frequently hear that people have labeled me as being all about money, materialistic, or that I think all my clients need to carry Chanel and wear red-bottommed heels.

I might get triggered for a little minute by these sorts of comments, and want to fire up in response, and then I remember –

Oh.

You’re just NOT MY PERSON.

Because if you WERE then you would not need to have it explained to you –

That I’m not actually a hardcore bitch, I’m just fully fucking grounded in who I am and that is very unsettling and disturbing to someone who is not, and so they label it in a way that dissolves their own not-enough-ness, and that they can write off comfortably.

That I’m not actually too much at all … just too much for people who don’t go very far beneath surface depth.

That I’m not remotely all about money or material items, my soul truth shines BRIGHT for the right people … but hell yeah you get to have all the fancy shiz niz you want.

That I don’t have a fuck off vibe at all – unless it happens to be that you’re one of the people who I instantly know is only going to drain my soul and waste my time because at the end of the day YOU are not someone who is fully pressing play in their life, and I just don’t play with people –

Not with men, not with clients, not with friends, not with NOBODY –

– who doesn’t play life all out, and like they know that they’re alive and can have it all.

So.

Maybe I am closed off.

Maybe I am hard to get ‘in’ with.

Maybe I am socially awkward, or even rude at times!

Maybe it’s tough to get to know me, tough to get me to relax.

Or maybe you’re just not the right person for me.

And so you only see that shallow layer.

And maybe this is a GOOD thing, because you know what?

Either I can adjust my energy and cover my soul to pander to the endlessly gaping empty souls of the vacant and vacuous masses –

Or I can shine fucking bright as the true ALL out unapologetic Queen I am –

Knowing and being fully okay with that I will only be seen by few and far between –

But that THAT IS ALL I NEED.

At the end of the day, you can dim your light to fit in and know that your true soul people will never even SEE you if you do so, ’cause baby you being boring and bland as fuck and why would they even notice –

Or you can regally walk through and part the people like the red fucking sea, as you stand up tall and proud as the beacon you were always meant to be for those who were always meant for you –

And you for them.

One thing is certain –

I don’t want anybody in my space who is not fucking certain –

Of who they are.

What they came here to do.

What they want.

And the non-negotiable fact that all of it is done,

because they said so.

The End.

Remember –

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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