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Purpose

HOW TO BE UNMEMORABLE AND BARELY EVEN NOTICED

The details don’t fucking matter. People aren’t going to pay you because your thing is all pretty and has all the right bells and whistles and SO many cool features and extras. Just like they’re not gonna date you because of your bonus reel, and the fact that all your moving parts are fancy as fuck, and triple insured too.

In the end, it’s not gonna happen because of how you look –

What you got going on –

ANYTHING to do with how well you can prove of your awesomeness –

Or the promise of a foot rub a day with sale.

In fact, the more you’re trying to MAKE YOUR SHIT WORK by adding on extras and pretty-ing it all up, the more likely it is that you’re so far away from truth you’ve forgotten what truth even IS, if you ever knew at all.

It’s like the girl who leaves the house every day with every part of her polished and gleaming and making sure she is ALWAYS the most in shape / well dressed / happy and sweet and funny / bleugh. What happens to her? Exactly, you don’t know. Nobody knows. BECAUSE SHE IS NOT MEMORABLE OR EVEN REALLY NOTICED.

Just like when you show up in the news feed all day yapping and yipping and offering and promising and jumpin’ up and down with the fanciest bonuses and add-ons and “OMG YOU WON’T BELIEVE IT / MY TEAM TRIED TO STOP ME / THIS IS INSANE / YOUR MIND IS GONNA BE BLOWN / EXCITEABLE EMOJIS VOMITING OUT EVERYWHERE” BULLSHIT, what happens?

You’re not memorable.

And you’re not even really noticed, except for the occasional ‘who the hell let Mz Shopping Channel in here?’ miffy kind of wonderment.

I don’t know who told you that he or she who is shoutiest and shiniest wins, but girl that’s not how it works.

Look, there’s nothing wrong with being pretty as fuck (why would you not; it’s a choice!), and there’s also nothing wrong with adding on random extras for fun (for FUN, and ’cause it was truly a fuck yes for your soul, not for please-God-spare-me-some-pennies-I’m-about-to-drown), but that shit works when it is on the back of WHAT now?

ENERGY baby.

It’s not the girl who has it all goin’ on all of the time who is magnetic, pursued, UNARGUABLY the Queen.

It’s the one who carries herself a certain way where she could be rolling up in a legit actual trash bag, naked face and messy scrunched up hair, and everyone would be asking where they can back-order it from.

It’s the one who is so fucking grounded and present and certain in who she is that NOBODY would question her and EVERYBODY wants to be around her. To absorb of her BEING-ness.

Where’s your BEING-ness been baby, where’d it go? That’s what I wanna know, when I look at the way you’re shouting and TRYING to shine and forgetting that TRYING to do anything –

Is not a thing.

Who stole her PRESENCE, who took her CERTAINTY, when did she lose sight of who the fuck she WAS?

There is nothing more instantly unattractive than a person who shows themselves to be not certain of who they are.

CERTAINTY sells.

Certainty in BUSINESS (and in life!) does not mean that you have to be all about just this one thing, box yourself in to some kind of niche or something. No! The niche is and always has been YOU. It’s not about worrying whether or not you confuse people, girl do you really think the QUEEN is worrying whether or not she’s confusing people, or being too much for them?

Hell to the NO.

She is Queening around all over the place doing what damn well SUITS her, SERVES her, and by definition she knows that if it suits and serves her? It’s good stuff for everyone, because it is her very PRESENCE which shifts people, calls them to action, and helps them also to be all that THEY always were.

^^^ can’t very well be shifting people with your presence when you refusing to be fucking present with yourself, CAN you now?!

You can’t very well be BEING anything much at all when you refuse to BE with yourself.

Dropped in.

Connected.

Grounded in YOU baby.

So if right now it’s feeling a helluva lot harder than what you really believe is appropriate, well, guess what?

It’s not because you need to fix something, or fancy it up.

You don’t need to ADD more GOODIES, you’re not fucking Santa come to keep all the kids quiet for a minute with promises of candy.

What you need to do, is to strip back.

Let things drop away.

Let your FEAR SELF drop away, and all of the things you’ve told yourself you need to be, in order to be seen, and heard, and loved.

The answer was always you.

And if you don’t go back to that, and bravely and unapologetically own it, UNADORNED to begin with at least, then you will continue eternally to fight for likes –

Fight for love –

Fight for pennies –

Fight to be able to BREATHE.

I know it’s scary, but it’s also fucking obvious:

The way you’re gonna get there is by being more you.

They can’t very well respond to your core,

If you refuse to connect to or show your core.

Don’t forget –

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!