Success Mindset


You know, it doesn’t have to rock you when things don’t go the way you want, when you don’t hear from that guy you’re into, when the program doesn’t sell, when your message falls flat, when you wake up and your hair is all fucked up and just won’t seem to do what it’s told, when you can’t seem to get past 1pm without needing to have a nap or a cry or both, when EVERYONE has their shit so much shinier and more together to you and you’re just wondering at what point they all learned to adult and you somehow missed out.

It doesn’t have to sway you off balance when you don’t get the love –

The validation –

The sale –

The follow –

Or even a single like to perk you up and convince you SOMEONE is listening.

You don’t have to get sad

You don’t have to get mad

You don’t have to feel bad

And I guess what I’m really trying to say is you DON’T have to buy into the idea that these things need to MEAN something.

About who you are.

Or about what you are WORTH.

And that’s the thing, isn’t it?

We don’t hear from him
Or it doesn’t sell
Or our big idea is met with CRICKETS
Or we think we’re ROCKING our look and then nobody comments
Or we can’t seem to stop dragging our feet and just be ON

And we make it to mean something.
We go into all sorts of sorrow and woe over the fact that, essentially, whether you word it this way or not, THIS MUST MEAN I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

If I was good enough –
If I was pretty enough –
If I was interesting enough –
If I was cool enough –
If my hair look right
If I did it right
If I WAS right


So therefore –

I must not be worthy! I’m all sorts of fucked up, I’ll probably die alone and broke and sad and with TERRIBLE HAIR TOO.

Cue tears and wailing and gnashing of ALL the teeth, heck, you’re probably tearing at your clothes too, and resorting to sackcloth because hey, that’s all your worth after all, isn’t it?

When in actual fact –

In actual fact –

In ACTUAL fucking FACT my dear –

Your worth is not dependant on another person’s reaction to you.

So they didn’t message you, so what?

Not the right person, move on. Be GRATEFUL for the space made!

So the thing didn’t sell, so what?

Sure, I get that, uhhhh … ‘I NEED MONEY KAT’, but how is it possibly gonna help you to get closer to dialling in on what WORKS when you let your CORE, your BALANCE, your YOU-ness be swayed by whether or not your shit worked?


It is not.

We can play this out through every possible scenario and area of your life and facts is facts:

YOU get to choose whether or not you are grounded.


Present and fully in YOU.

Your confidence, your self-belief, your stability, your sense of self-assuredness, your inner peace, your CERTAINTY –

These are all things which come solely within and from YOU.

You have access to them always.

Nobody can take them away.

And nobody can shake or sway you unless you allow yourself to BE shaken or swayed.

The thing is –

When you give yourself the gift of being the sole bearer and determiner of your own homeostasis –

You enable yourself to be present and discerning to the now to know what to DO when these things go ‘wrong’.

You are able to then see that nothing is wrong at all anyhow.

It just is what it is.

And that’s all it is.

From a place of balance, from your CORE, you can then decide:

What is the action if any which I wish to take right now?

What would alignment look like?

What’s my next move?

You will not trigger or fear or scarcity or lack react,

the way that most people ONLY know how to do,

which of course perpetuates more of what they DON’T want!

You will be able to connect in to God and soul and higher self,

and you will be able to ALLOW yourself to be guided in truth,

rather than trigger-happy nonsense.

So really –

What choice do you have here?

What choice to you want to give yourself?!

You can continue to believe that confidence and self-assuredness are built only on a foundation of validation and approval by everyone else, something you have to relentlessly and impossibly fight to grasp hold of only to have it then slip right back away –


Step into the Queen or King energy which allows you to be the sort of unshakeable FORCEFIELD you need to be in order to create your life purposefully, and deal with grace and flow with anything that comes along which is less than ideal.

And just on a side note –

I’d say being the latter is PROBABLY gonna make you a more magnetic and attractive person to those you encounter along the way,

ultimately resulting in you, well, getting everything you want!

In the end, it’s very black and white and it’s VERY simple:

You can place your peace and confidence and self-belief in the hands of others,

and wait eternally to one day be allowed to enjoy your life, and feel worthy,

or you can grant it to yourself now,

and fuck what anybody thinks about any of it.

As with all things the choice is yours –

And you’re already choosing.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Programmed to Upgrade is happening gorgeous, and WHOOOOO MAMA is this the work that works.

25 days, you and me, 1:1, to quantum leap like you’ve NEVER leapt before.

This will be intense …

And a lil bit scary. But buckle up, because you KNOW you’re ready for it.

SO fucking ready 😉

Programmed to UPGRADE!

25 Days, 1:1, with Katrina Ruth, to SCREW the Rules, SCREW the Norm, Go So Damn Extra, So Freaking Hot, So Fully SEEN, and Snap Your Future Into the Now So Damn Fast It’d Make Your Head Spin … even as you nod in certainty that of COURSE, this is what was ALWAYS supposed to be ..

Places are already filling, and we begin next week. If you know it’s time to say yes to MAGIC, and creating your reality from the supernatural, and you’re SO ready to drop the paradigm of always having to DO (and yet still not be there!) then message me now.

I’ll get you the full overview, and talk personally with you about whether or not it’s for you.

To the supernatural baby, and beyond …



As of today, I’m opening up the doors to my Inner Circle, my private client mastermind.

This is THE most badass high level mastermind in the world for women who want it all – and are prepared to do what it takes to get it! Really what we’re talking about is being prepared to be the PERSON.

And that’s what I do. I help you remember ALL that you were, and then become it. ALL Of it.

This is my highest level private mentoring circle. The exact place where I have personally mentored dozens of this industry’s most elite female entrepreneurs to break income barriers ranging from 10k months to multiple 7 FIGURE months, and everything in between. But more importantly than that – to become who and what they always were.

But know that this is not only (obviously) not just for the masses, this is also not just for someone who can afford to invest in a high level private coach. Being willing to throw money down is something which has absolutely zero correlation to being somebody who has what it takes to TRULY go next level as a leader.

If anything, in this industry, investing in a high level coach such as myself, is a rite of passage which veers just a little too much on the side of ‘trend’. It’s become something which ‘everybody does’, almost as a way of proving they play business and life a certain way.

Maybe even of trying to prove it to themselves.

Here is the reality which those who I am truly here to personally mentor and lead KNOW, the reality which my clients and all women like me as well as of course me personally have ALWAYS known:


We are simply, smarter, faster, and have more presence. We can do more in our minds before breakfast than what most people can do in a freakin’ WEEK, a month, a year.

We are not basic ass coaches trying to heave ho our way up a few extra thou a month.

We are the ones who have ALWAYS known we are 1% within the 1% within the 1% in terms of how we think, create, operate, how and WHAT we are tapped in too.

This is not arrogance, this is fact.

And there has NEVER been any question but that we will go all the way.

My clients are high level badasses who do the work, who have a proven track record BEFORE coming to me, and a BEING-ness which unquestionably separates them from the rest. They don’t come to me to save them or lean down and hold my hand out so they can clamber up. They come because they are, quite simply, ready to go to the next level, already absolutely on their WAY there, and see in me something which they recognise because it is in them.

That ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ fire, and a level of ‘unapologeticness’ which, when truly understood and applied, can literally be the difference between 5-figure or low 6-figure and 7 or multi-7-figure entrepreneur.

So if you know who you are and it is THAT –

And you feel certain that you are ALREADY well on your way to to precisely where you’re meant to be, but that being in MY energy could help you to drop in and get there even faster, and that with a couple of simple tweaks your current revenue could be doubling, tripling, heck QUADRUPLING and beyond in months, as it has done with numerous of my clients previously, well then –

PM me here and we’ll see if it’s a fit. I’m excited to talk to you, and maybe – do biz and life with you.

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