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Success Mindset

ON CONFIDENCE AND SELF-ASSUREDNESSS, AND TAKING BACK YOUR PEACE

You know, it doesn’t have to rock you when things don’t go the way you want, when you don’t hear from that guy you’re into, when the program doesn’t sell, when your message falls flat, when you wake up and your hair is all fucked up and just won’t seem to do what it’s told, when you can’t seem to get past 1pm without needing to have a nap or a cry or both, when EVERYONE has their shit so much shinier and more together to you and you’re just wondering at what point they all learned to adult and you somehow missed out.

It doesn’t have to sway you off balance when you don’t get the love –

The validation –

The sale –

The follow –

Or even a single like to perk you up and convince you SOMEONE is listening.

You don’t have to get sad

You don’t have to get mad

You don’t have to feel bad

And I guess what I’m really trying to say is you DON’T have to buy into the idea that these things need to MEAN something.

About who you are.

Or about what you are WORTH.

And that’s the thing, isn’t it?

We don’t hear from him
Or it doesn’t sell
Or our big idea is met with CRICKETS
Or we think we’re ROCKING our look and then nobody comments
Or we can’t seem to stop dragging our feet and just be ON

And we make it to mean something.
We go into all sorts of sorrow and woe over the fact that, essentially, whether you word it this way or not, THIS MUST MEAN I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

If I was good enough –
If I was pretty enough –
If I was interesting enough –
If I was cool enough –
If my hair look right
If I did it right
If I WAS right

THIS WOULD NEVER HAVE HAPPENED!

So therefore –

I must not be worthy! I’m all sorts of fucked up, I’ll probably die alone and broke and sad and with TERRIBLE HAIR TOO.

Cue tears and wailing and gnashing of ALL the teeth, heck, you’re probably tearing at your clothes too, and resorting to sackcloth because hey, that’s all your worth after all, isn’t it?

When in actual fact –

In actual fact –

In ACTUAL fucking FACT my dear –

Your worth is not dependant on another person’s reaction to you.

So they didn’t message you, so what?

Not the right person, move on. Be GRATEFUL for the space made!

So the thing didn’t sell, so what?

Sure, I get that, uhhhh … ‘I NEED MONEY KAT’, but how is it possibly gonna help you to get closer to dialling in on what WORKS when you let your CORE, your BALANCE, your YOU-ness be swayed by whether or not your shit worked?

Answer:

It is not.

We can play this out through every possible scenario and area of your life and facts is facts:

YOU get to choose whether or not you are grounded.

Stable.

Present and fully in YOU.

Your confidence, your self-belief, your stability, your sense of self-assuredness, your inner peace, your CERTAINTY –

These are all things which come solely within and from YOU.

You have access to them always.

Nobody can take them away.

And nobody can shake or sway you unless you allow yourself to BE shaken or swayed.

The thing is –

When you give yourself the gift of being the sole bearer and determiner of your own homeostasis –

You enable yourself to be present and discerning to the now to know what to DO when these things go ‘wrong’.

You are able to then see that nothing is wrong at all anyhow.

It just is what it is.

And that’s all it is.

From a place of balance, from your CORE, you can then decide:

What is the action if any which I wish to take right now?

What would alignment look like?

What’s my next move?

You will not trigger or fear or scarcity or lack react,

the way that most people ONLY know how to do,

which of course perpetuates more of what they DON’T want!

You will be able to connect in to God and soul and higher self,

and you will be able to ALLOW yourself to be guided in truth,

rather than trigger-happy nonsense.

So really –

What choice do you have here?

What choice to you want to give yourself?!

You can continue to believe that confidence and self-assuredness are built only on a foundation of validation and approval by everyone else, something you have to relentlessly and impossibly fight to grasp hold of only to have it then slip right back away –

Or you can GIVE THAT SHIT TO YOURSELF NOW.

Step into the Queen or King energy which allows you to be the sort of unshakeable FORCEFIELD you need to be in order to create your life purposefully, and deal with grace and flow with anything that comes along which is less than ideal.

And just on a side note –

I’d say being the latter is PROBABLY gonna make you a more magnetic and attractive person to those you encounter along the way,

ultimately resulting in you, well, getting everything you want!

In the end, it’s very black and white and it’s VERY simple:

You can place your peace and confidence and self-belief in the hands of others,

and wait eternally to one day be allowed to enjoy your life, and feel worthy,

or you can grant it to yourself now,

and fuck what anybody thinks about any of it.

As with all things the choice is yours –

And you’re already choosing.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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