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THESE ARE THE THINGS THEY SAY ABOUT A WOMEN LIKE YOU. A WOMAN LIKE ME

She’s too loud.

She’s too much.

She’s too demanding.

She’s too INTENSE.

She constantly wants to be the centre of attention!

She’s unREASONABLE.

She’s SO over the top.

She’s draaaaiiinniinnngggg …

She’s SO full on.

Do you think she realises how she is?

Why doesn’t she get what people think about her?

These are the things.

They things they say.

A small selection of them.

A small selection of the things they say, about a woman like you, a woman like me, women like US.

These are the things.

Just a few of the things.

Which we hear.

In a whisper –

Or a sideways glance –

Or ‘helpfully’ reported back to us.

These are the things.

A few of the CUTTING things.

Which we’ve heard, since as far back as we can remember, since we were so young, exuberantly expressing all that we are to the world, feeling excited, excited to SHARE our excitement and joy with others, excited for LIFE, and just letting it bubble over, letting it flow out, getting a little silly, a little ridiculous, and DEFINITELY loud, and then all of a sudden –

A frown of annoyance
A stare of ‘be quiet’
Or something more direct

Telling us –

You’re doing it wrong.

YOU DON’T FIT IN.

As a child, we learn –

Oh.
How embarrassing …
I didn’t … mean to ..
Was I?
Oh
Okay

And we continue on, a little compressed perhaps, but not too much, because hey – what’s inside us is inside us, and who we are is who we ARE! Sooner or later it just comes out again.

And inevitably, sooner or later, comes the feedback again, and once again, the things are said.

Do you HAVE to be like that? ALL the time?

And we learn –

To be a little quieter
To dress more compliantly
Away with the EXTRA craziness
Stand out, of course, that’s what the world will SAY to you – !
Just, you know –

Not too much.
And not so that you’re DIFFERENT to us.

And please –

A little less energy.

And eventually –

What was once so natural, so perfect, the only way it COULD be, becomes something which is wheeled out rustily, if alcohol is involved, or maybe just with our VERY best friends, where we can truly BE who we are, but mostly?

It fades away.

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I was thinking about this earlier today after hearing recently, well, some things.

I was told some things.

Things which people think.

About a woman like me.

About a woman like you.

And it’s funny …

It’s been so long. So long since I remembered or noticed that PEOPLE THINK WE’RE TOO MUCH.

I’ve SO effectively built this tribe –

This life –

My WORLD –

Around WOMEN LIKE YOU AND ME.

To me it’s normal …

It ONLY lifts me …

I would never have it any other way, and I long ago let GO of the masks I’d heaped upon me. I tapped back in to ME, and I let that wild woman out. It’s a continual process, of course, but yes –

It took me by surprise.
It took my breath away.
It SHOCKED me, actually.

To hear people say –

The things I used to hear so much –

The things I AM aware are thought –

About a woman –

Such as you –

And such as me.

I felt sadness come up, as I heard –

Too much
Too intense
I feel drained
WOW ….
Does she REALISE?

I was startled, actually, I did NOT get it! And then, as it sunk in –

Grief
Emotion
And the remembrance of a time when I bought into the BULLSHIT that it’s NOT okay
To be like this
To live like this
To be a woman like you
Or a woman like me

But here is what next, once the grief passed, once I realised, once it HIT me –

HOLY FUCK.

This is EVERYTHING.

And THANK YOU.

For the reminder

For the remembrance

That there is a REASON that we come together

There is a REASON we live this life

There is a REASON

That a woman like me

And a woman like you

Find each other

Create the businesses we do

Do all the things

And insist –

On having it all

And today, here is what I want to say to you –

THANK FUCK FOR A WOMAN LIKE YOU IN MY LIFE

And while we’re at it??

Thank fuck I get to be this woman too.

And let’s not forget what happens when they say such things, to a woman like YOU, a woman like ME:

Ultimately, however long it may take us, we speak back. And this is what we say:

Of course.
Of course we are those things.

BECAUSE WE ARE THE ONES CRAZY AND DEMANDING AND DRIVEN ENOUGH TO RUN THIS THING.

So fuck all y’all.

Sit back.
And watch.
Get the value.
Or don’t.
Either way, admit –

You can’t look away 

That’s just how it is.

With a woman like me. A woman like us.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

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You know when something just comes through you?

And it’s HOLY FREAKING FLOW YES and all the things?

And you FEEL the fire and the gold and the energy and the NOW?

Well,

this is that.

AND THEN SOME.

I’m so proud to invite you in to this brand new course with me! I will be teaching this in a LIVE Facebook group with twice weekly livestream trainings (+ more!) – something I have not done in a very long while.

When you say yes to soul-

life says yes to you.

Fired up and Financially Ready to Explode is the NEXT level wealth and mindset strategy for the already successful woman who is done playing small!

Here’s the thing –

There are very clear reasons why you never quite get to that FULL inhale-exhale state of money freedom, even as your income and lifestyle goes up.

You can bet your sweet ass we gonna talk about those reasons. Understand them. And learn how to roll with them. BECAUSE YOU GET TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE FULLY BEING YOU.

And OMG. So much more. And a LOT of it comes down to understanding that the MONEY WORKS FOR YOU WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW TO ROLL WITH YOUR OWN CHANGING NEEDS.

And? That there are a million freakin’ ways to make money and there is ALWAYS money there that gets to come from flow. So for women like us … one of the biggest FOOLHARDY AF things we can do .. is try to make our business flow respond to things we think should work, things that did work, things that are working for others, etc!

What we need instead is simple:

A clear freaking understanding of where today’s money is at. This week’s. This months. The long-terms. And how to do it all in a way where true wealth growth becomes automated and inherent to who you are. Where you can breathe fully in your creative needs each day. AND, where it’s ALL fun and yes whilst making a crazy impact on those you want to help!

In short?

You need to get FIRED UP AND FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE with me.

And that’s what we’re gonna do here:

FIRED UP & FINANCIALLY READY TO EXPLODE

– Next Level Wealth Mindset & Strategy for the Already Successful Woman Who is Done Playing Small –

We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

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30 days together.

Bi-weekly livestream trainings in our closed Facebook group. (Yes! I have not done this in absolutely AGES!)

Q&A sessions after each live training (times will vary to account for the multitude of timezones, all sessions recorded)

Daily conversation and asskickery and added learning in the Facebook group (I can’t wait!)

Journal prompts + homework to follow each training

Complete understanding of the different ways money should be coming in, covering over 30 different considerations for where money comes from and why it’s NOT coming in when it’s not!

Tailored to you pathway for understanding your blocks, setbacks, why you would NOT want what you say you want, and exactly where the biggest ‘bang for your buck’ moves are to be made in order to open up receiving.

Tailored to you pathway for understanding how to flow with the above based on your changing needs, energies, goals, and desires!

I’m teaching you exactly how I always know how to roll with my OWN ebbs and flows, and the exact way that I do that. This is why it’s tailored! I teach you how to design the process for YOU, and how to always know when things need adjusting or fine-tuning

Here is my all in all purpose and intent for you with this brand new course:

1) You understand how to get money to show up from you via automated and systematic ‘cash machine’ sources, in a way that is fully aligned and flow yes for you and your brand AND your peeps

2) You understand how to roll with the day to day living breathing moving changing multi-passionate VIBE of the thing, namely how to pluck down money from the great beyond like the supernatural badass you are DEPENDING ON WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND WHAT IT IS YOU NEED TO BE DIALED IN AND SWITCHED ON THAT DAY. Etc.

I can’t wait to spend these 30 days with you! We begin We begin Thursday Feb 18th, US time.

This? Is the fire and gold and holy freakin’ rainfall you’ve been waiting for. LET’S GO.

https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/firedup

PPS.

The pre-work is hands on and practical AF! 🔥 Join today and receive immediate access to a 1 hour+ previously private client only audio I recorded on the 11 Ways We Make More Money Consistently in my company. You can implement all of this now, it’s one of the most powerful trainings I ever recorded.

And!

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Every day up til our start date I will be emailing out a photo of my journaling from that day, and an insight into why / what I journaled, plus a prompt or three for you. This is a join today bonus on TOP of the pre-work! Fun!

Psssst there are other badass bonuses as well. But you’ll have to read the page to see 😉

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