Success Mindset

I’M SENSITIVE AND ANXIOUS, EASILY AGITATED, AND I KIND OF REALLY HATE PEOPLE, A LOT OF THE TIME …

A week or so back, one of my badass Inner Circle millionaire clients (soulmate clients!), said something which made me laugh out loud –

“I have this crazy thing about me, which I know that no one will understand, but you probably will.”

I wanted to write about it, and the conversation we had which followed, at the time, but I lost the momentum of it, basically, and you know what happens with ideas when you don’t act on ’em when they’re alive!

They die.

Too bad! You let it slip on away … maybe some one else will grab hold of it, or maybe it will come back to you; usually not though.

Tonight it came back.

HARD.

And it’s one of those things where you tell yourself …

“Don’t write about THAT!”

“THAT is too much. You can’t write a blog with a title that says you kind of really hate PEOPLE, when, duh, you’re supposed to be drawing PEOPLE in to you, and selling to them!”

(Except –
and you get this, of course –
depends VERY much on which kind of people, doesn’t it!! Which is why we must of course CREATE OUR OWN CULT.
And have done)

“Okay”, I said to my Self (I and my Self are, of course, two entirely separate beings … as to which one’s in charge; who knows? Not me, at least half of the time!)

“I won’t write about it, especially not WHILE I’M STILL HERE AT THIS EVENT WHICH HAS BROUGHT IT ON … people here might READ it, you idiot. Then you might meet or SEE them. Then they might think you HATE them!

The funny thing is –

It’s not INDIVIDUALS I hate; all people I interact with and give any ENERGY to are, of course, fabulous.

But yet I still hate people.

I know it makes no sense.

But who the fuck said it had to!

And besides –

Pretty sure it makes sense to who matters, aka YOU.

Thing is, when I said to my Self that I won’t write about it, my Self, or perhaps it was I, had something else to say on the matter:

I know you can’t.
But, you will.

As always!

The message must do what the message must do.

It’s a sensitivity thing, you see, the hating people thing.

And this is exactly what the conversation with my client went into the other week.

It’s sensitivity and anxiety and agitation and breathlessness of a claustrophobic and impossible to explain kind.

Impossible to explain to anybody who is NOT us, because to them, let’s just be honest:

You’re gonna come off kind of like an asshole.

I’m pretty sure I was just now starting to come off kind of like an asshole, standing at the bar talking … networking (ugh, that WORD!) … to AMAZING people, I might add … and feeling –

GET
ME
OUT OF HERE
NOW

With every moment that passed I was feeling more on edge, more anxious, more like my skin was starting to itch and I was getting the overwhelming urge to RUN and WHY does everybody or ANYBODY even WANT to talk?! Don’t they have …

Stuff inside to do??

Told you.
ASSHOLE.

Not like I don’t wanna talk to EVERYONE, and have everyone LISTEN, too!! When I’ve done my ME stuff … as much of it as needed, and as often!

Tonight, when I finally did leave, I felt viscerally that I needed to get the energy of being AROUND people OFF of me. Right now I am very conscious that I NEED TO FUCKING SHOWER, because of that feeling, but the urge to write first is stronger 

It’s funny (or not) that right after this happened, and then I DID get out of there, I checked my phone and had a message from that same client –

About feeling so sensitive and wondering about the odd things people do …

This sensitivity, this overwhelm, this bizarre feeling of the world around you not making sense, I know you’ve felt it.

If you’re like me.
If you’re like my client.
If you are one of US, and by us?

I’m talking about the ones who are not of this world …

Who can by all means dance INTO it …

But who must, sooner or later, and most often SOONER –

Dance out of it.

And back into whence we came, in the dreams, in the shadows, in the worlds inside our heads, and the ones which we are, this very moment even perhaps, creating.

I know you know of this world, don’t you?

WE COME FROM OTHER REALMS, you and I …

And we will NEVER understand them
Or their ways
Nor they us, or ours
AND SO IT SHOULD BE

The thing is … the thing is, it doesn’t matter who it is or what it is, if it is pulling us away from our own worlds, our own travels, of astral and other natures, our own CREATIONS, our own deep need to BE WITHIN, well –

It’s gonna be a problem.

We might turn into an asshole at the drop of the hat, sure. Typically, we’re well brought up enough to mask it, except for the fact that we’re UNABLE TO FUCKING MASK IT. Not really …

And everybody should FUCK OFF AND SHUT UP NOW, let me go within go within go within and PLEASE go away …

(so, of course, we take ourselves away, however we must, like THIS … if we’re smart or if we KNOW … or if we don’t know then we do it – we DID it – in other ways, less … good for us)

But also, and this is the bit my client was referencing when she talked about having this crazy side to her, which nobody will understand, but probably me …

Weird shit happens.

Have you had this?

The ground might move beneath you all of a sudden.

You might feel like you just got off a pair of roller-blades or ice-skates, and you have that odd feeling like you’re not really ON the ground.

You might notice that it LOOKS like you’re walking, but you can feel that you’re really running, slightly in the air. Through objects, also. And things. Your heart is racing, your gaze is slightly blurry, you’re really NOT quite here …

Or there …

You’re slipping …

Between worlds.

Narnia was never just a story you know.

When you’re slipping, when you’re being called back IN, things of the HUMAN world can simply NOT compute.

Numbers or words might make no sense. You might stare at the word ‘lunch’ for example, and wonder – “where on earth did THIS shit come from? THAT can’t be a word. Is it? What is even a WORD, in the first place?” And you start saying it over and over again in your head, trying to figure out why anybody would say or write something like that.

Or why they even feel the urge TO speak, at all, with their mouths?

You might be driving and you’re suddenly aware that you PROBABLY SHOULDN’T be. Did that car just DART at you? Are the lane lines moving?! What’s HAPPENING?

Or it could just be that every fucking thing anybody says to you or the world shows to you is irritating as fuck or simply STUPID, and what on earth is with how people WALK?

If you’re reading this and you’re NOT one of us you’re possibly alarmed for our sanity …

If you ARE of me, of this world, you’re possibly alarmed for your own sanity also … 

And as I say to my clients, when they ask if they are crazy – I FUCKING HOPE SO.

See here’s the thing, and here is what I know, about us:

We are the sensitive ones.
The empaths, is one way to put it.
The healers.
The MAGIC makers.
The ones who came here to pass on a message and to CREATE A NEW WORLD.

We are NOT DESIGNED TO EXIST IN THE WORLD AS IT HAS CURRENTLY BEEN CREATED.

No, I don’t mean not at all. We can human with the BEST of them. So long as we can stealth exit at will, and FAST.

When we are around people too much
Or industry
Or electromagnetic frequency
Or … STUFF … noise … BUSYness …
Or we’re simply removed in some way from the internal environment we desire and require –

We WILL be told about it in no uncertain terms.

From inside.

It will manifest in the ways I listed above, and many more besides.

And we will, if we don’t REMOVE ourselves, not cope. Plain and simple. And potentially the people around us won’t care to cope with us, either 

Do I think this can be overcome, or it’s a mindset, or a choice?

Of course. Of course I could choose to ‘be able’ to exist in polite society on demand. BY FUCKING NUMBING AND DRUGGING MYSELF LIKE THE VAST MAJORITY OF BORN ARTISTS AND MAGIC WORKERS IN TIME, and especially in NOW.

Or –

You and I, we can choose to not only accept and allow but to EMBRACE who we are.

To realise that we were not born to live purely, or even dominantly, in the physical world.

WE COME FROM OTHER PLACES.
WE ARE OF OTHER WORLDS.
WE COME HERE WHEN WE WANT.
AND WE LEAVE WHEN WE MUST.

If we don’t leave when we know we must, when the bell is tolling, when we’re being called to our TRUE home?

Well.
SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES.

Which, over time, are only, of course, oh – !
Your LIFE.

So yeah, I feel rude and annoyed at myself when I find my insides shriveling up like just happened tonight. Or when my mind starts playing crazy tricks on me when I’m out and about, have been out and about, or with people or things, too much. Part of me wishes I didn’t do that. I tell myself to stop it.

AND –

I also honour who I am.

I honour and am SO fucking grateful for the REMINDER, that this this THIS is what I am here to do.

I might have flown around the world – (real human flying not the normal everyday other realm flying, lol)

Spent tens of thousands of dollars total –

Be surrounded by incredible successful people who in theory I could befriend, learn from, etc –

And the ENTIRE FUCKING REASON FOR IT perhaps was to push me to breaking point to where I now sit here on a twin bed at a Disney Resort in Florida and go into my somewhat fugue-flow state and DROWN the world out and create this –

For you
For who it was meant for
For the continued unleashing
Of my art

THIS is my drug
THIS is my growth
THIS is the only thing I want, or at least, I want and need and choose it and THEN I am open to wanting and needing and choosing and also being AVAILABLE, for other things … or people
THIS is all I need in order to know what’s next for me

AND THE WHOLE WORLD CAN FUCK OFF

Until I’m ready to take my presence back to it

The truth is –

I like to learn
I like to make new friends
And I fucking love people
My tribe, my clients, my friends, my online peeps, my family, I ADORE

I love MY people …

I’m also a calm and level-headed person who does sane and rational things and can operate in polite society with the best of them 

For all intents and purposes I APPEAR TO BE FUCKING NORMAL

But, so did any magic worker over time, when they chose to play amongst the normal ones

When they were sent in, a visitor, to observe, to mesh with, and then to create from

And then, there came a time when it WAS time for them to leave

And go back to whence they came

Slip slip
Away away
Back to the REAL world; ours

To create and to dance and to twirl and to be in our OWN space or, of course, with our own PEOPLE

You and me, we are the ones who DO change the world, with art so breathless it would freeze you, in ice, like a statue

But, if we don’t DO that, if we don’t give ourselves FULL permission to go within and do and be ALL of that, REGARDLESS of what we are ‘supposed’ to be doing, then GUESS FUCKING WHAT?

You’re going to find yourself –

HATING people
Wondering why they even are EXISTING near you
And what is that BIZARRE ANNOYING SHIT they keep doing … with their mouths … their legs and arms … and what, God – now they want you to nod and smile and stuff?

It’s all so … HORRIBLE

You’ll become anxious
Irritated
SUPER sensitive
The world around will make no sense
And it will continue, until you get the fuck back to where you’re supposed to be, inside

The thing with being human and all …

Is that the physical world was only ever one part of it

And it was never supposed to be, like what we’ve made it into

Not for us, anyhow

Or, there is this:

Perhaps it was, the whole time, all leading to right here and right now

You and me

This moment

This work

This reminder

To allow us to BREATHE again

Either way …

When you think you have this crazy thing inside of you …

And you worry for your sanity, for real –

And you KNOW that nobody will understand!

Probably –

I will.

And what I will tell you, is this:

You’re simply being called home.

Answer the call.

Don’t forget

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

PS

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Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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