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Success Mindset

PLAYING SMALL, HIDING OUT? YOU EGOTISTICAL BITCH!

It’s not in integrity that you play small, and repeatedly refuse to take action on what’s inside of you.

What, you think that you should get some kind of award for not being too ‘full of yourself’, for being coy with life, for backing away from fame, impact, greatness?

That’s not how it works.

Maybe you are proud of yourself for not being so egotistical as to imagine that YOU should do something extraordinary with your life, be known in a big way, make millions and millions of dollars, be a LEADER, be somebody who others aspire to be like.

After all –

Who ARE you, indeed, to think that YOU could be so amazing, so badass, so rich, so FREE?

What makes YOU worthy of that?!

And so, you aim high – but not too high. Wouldn’t want to break away from the pack … it’s a good pack, after all! You ARE driving and succeeding and taking names … but, well, you know –

There are limits, right? To what’s reasonable to aim for? At least for right now!

Let’s just quietly push aside one of the REAL reasons you don’t NOW reach for the heights which you see inside of you, which is, that perhaps you’d end up all alone –

Floating away –

Like a cut-loose kite –

In the sky.

Maybe you’d completely lose control, and never come back down again!

But let’s put that aside, yes.

Pretend it’s not a thing, which causes you to shrink.

And let’s talk INTEGRITY, as well as EGO.

Let me tell you something about ego:

EGO ruling you, self-importance inflating you, is when you allow yourself to buy into the bullshit that YOU shouldn’t consider yourself good enough to live into your own power.

When you fail to go all in –

When you hide, and play small –

When you shy away from all that you KNOW you could be –

No, you don’t get a fucking award for not thinking too highly of yourself!

You get a smack in the face (with a cold fish, as my Dad would say!) for making your SELF more important than your MESSAGE, your calling, your soul work, your art.

Here is your ‘self’ –

And here is your ART –

When you don’t allow the latter to be all it was divined to be, to be unleashed OUT of you, from where (let’s face it) it’s KINDA TOXIFYING SHIT UP FROM BEING KEPT IN … hence sickness, anxiety, unrest, sadness, etcetera! …

Then you make the FORMER matter more.

“I” am more important than what’s inside of me, and so I won’t let what’s in me out, not fully, which is to say not at all.

“I” and my drama, my stories, my SMALLNESS, matter more than my message, my purpose, the thing which I am supposed to let from and THROUGH me.

HOW D’YA LIKE THEM APPLES, HUH?!

And here you thought you were being a BETTER PERSON somehow, by not presenting your full power to the world, by dialling DOWN your light.

Enough.

You can live your entire life, if you like, continuing to respond to the SELF.

“I” don’t feel like it.

“I” am scared!

“I” am not ready!

“I” don’t know how though!

“I” don’t feel safe, or validated, or enough!”

“I, I, I, I, I!”

Looks like some Roman numerals shit

When you think about it this way, it starts to feel a bit SQUIRMY, doesn’t it?

“Fuck me”, perhaps you’re thinking –

(or maybe it’s “fuck YOU, Kat”, but still you know I’m right!)

– I’ve been making it ALL ABOUT ME

I’ve been INFLATING THE IMPORTANCE OF MY BULLSHIT!

I’ve been KILLING or at the very least slowly suffocating what’s inside of me.

WHAT AN ASSHOLE I AM!

(I’m sure you’re thinking!)

Well, maybe you’re not quite as carefree with the compliments as I am

Perhaps you have COMPASSION for the ‘you’ who thought she or he mattered more than what’s inside of you –

And which is the real you –

Anyhow?

There’s a question!

But either way, right now –

Do you SEE how it’s not in integrity for you to keep on this way?

Do you see how out of alignment this is?

Do you see how freakin’ OBVIOUS it is, that if you got out of your own way, and just GAVE WHAT’S INSIDE OF YOU LIFE –

You’d be writing | speaking | creating | unleashing like a whirling DERVISH, and you’d be just EXPECTING the fame | impact | legacy | MONEY to show up.

It’s so crazy –

If you think about it –

Or even if you don’t!

How we make it SUCH A BIG DEAL.

Make millions?
Impact millions?
Be famous?
Go viral?
Be COOL AND HOT AS FUCK?

These things are NOT more special, nor are they any harder to ATTAIN, than the life you have right fucking now.

You can choose a life of sitting back and watching others rise, while you continue to show up just enough ahead of the norm that you are unarguably ‘successful’, but never so far ahead that it ACTUALLY MEETS WHATS INSIDE OF YOU –

And you can continue to tell yourself a BULLSHIT story that reaching further would be HARDER, or in some way threaten you, because WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU GOOD ENOUGH FOR THAT?

Or you can look around –

And realise that everything you already have and have achieved and created and become –

Is ALREADY A FUCKING MIRACLE

You’re ALREADY manifesting, all the time

And you’ve ALREADY created a life which less than 2% of people in the world even know is POSSIBLE, or believe could be

So

When you think that it would somehow be WRONG or BAD or SELF-SERVING or EGO-FUELLED of you to imagine you could BE ALL THAT’S INSIDE OF YOU

Allow me to remind you of something:

WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE NOT TO?

Your art came here to do great work in the world.

QUIT GIVING YOUR LIFE TO DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO STOP IT.

And decide –

Finally –

To get your damn ego out of the way, and be the damn VESSEL for this incredible thing the world is waiting on you to reveal.

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/