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Purpose

REACH IN AND GRAB THEM BY THE SOUL

I’m having one of those days where I feel a little disconnected, a little disjointed, a little sad, a little flat and down, and above all of that a little fucking IRRITATED at not being automatically just in the flow zone where I know exactly what to say, how to say it, how to show UP!

Do you ever feel that way? Like, as much as you want to acknowledge and if need be even process some not great energy the most annoying part of it is that it’s just a freaking DISTRACTION from doing your thang?!

I alternate between super grumpy, when I’m not ‘on’, or being super nice to myself about it, honouring my need, perhaps, to switch off, walk away, go within, etcetera. Right now I’m feeling like – fuck THAT. I spend plenty of time going within and doing my INNER shit, right now I just want to feel RARING TO FUCKING GO; is that too much to ask?!

I’m about to get my period … either that or I’m accidentally pregnant, which would be just fabulous … and I’m getting SUPER analytical about just how sore my boobs are right now and whether they’re USUALLY sore at all before my period, and if so then how much?? Apparently I go through a minor panic around this every month. According to my BF who sent me laughing-face emojis with a comment that YOU SAY THIS EVERY MONTH when I sent her a freak out ‘maybe I’m pregnant’ message. I found this slightly disrespectfully jocular of her, to laugh at me, whilst also being obviously relieved to hear it.

Yep. Add that to the drawer of things I probably shouldn’t write in blog posts!! But you know what – whatEVER. We’re all going through the same shit here, the being human stuff, in some way shape or form … no need to be coy about it, NOR to shame on ourselves about it.

So anyway – maybe that’s why the grumpy mood. The period thing. Let’s manifest my PERIOD in the next day or two, yes! Okay, done and #DONE.

Or maybe it’s just, I don’t know – sometime you wake up on the wrong side of your superhero bed and you just don’t FEEL like doing life today. But then you also don’t feel like NOT doing life.

You don’t wanna be on.
You don’t wanna be off.
You don’t wanna do ANYTHING, in particular!

You just wanna FEEEELLLLLLLL good, so you can be that You 2.0 badass now!

You know?

Yep … you know!! I know.

And here is what I think about, when I have a day like this, or at least here is what I’m thinking right now:

THANK YOU, firstly.

Thank you body, thank you mind, thank you spirit, thank you soul. For the opportunity to HAVE to press pause. For the mirror held up in front of my face. For the CONFRONFUCKINGTTATION I’m feeling oozing out of my every pore right now. For the irrational irritation I feel at every person who has so far today dared to breathe near me.

Thank you.

For the reminder of how GREAT I normally do feel.

Thank you for the deep knowledge, underneath it all, that no matter what I DO in fact still get to choose my inner state.

Thank you for the ‘wish it would shut up sometimes’ voice inside of my head reminding me right now that despite it all?

I can still show up.
I can still be me.
I can take aligned action.

And that this too, shall pass.

Oh, and that when it does or even perhaps before or even perhaps right NOW, I’ll receive whatever I was MEANT to fucking receive from this little detox, or big uplevel, or just plain and simple day of BLAH.

There’s always a lesson.

The times we feel in struggle or stuck or fear or HOLY FUCKING SHIT WHAT IF are the times for the GREATEST growth opportunity. Side note: please don’t message me to check if I’m pregnant or to inquire as to my sexual conduct etc. I will tell the world if that bit is true. I’m quite sure it’s not, because of, well, what I wrote earlier. And also just FYI my team read my messages before me, and yes, I’m happy with my contraceptive choices. lol … I know I don’t need to say this but I also know that anytime I REMOTELY reveal anything personal like this 25 people see it as an unasked for possible business / coach Kat opportunity. Anyway:

Lessons and growth opps aside, what a POWERFUL chance all of this is to remind myself of the underlying beliefs I hold to be true, about business, about life, about me, about ALL of it.

Like my belief that everything is ALWAYS perfect and just as it’s meant to be … that I always make the right choice … that I’m always on the perfect aligned pathway … that I am infinitely taken care of by God and my Self … that everything happens FOR me … that the better it gets, the better it really does get!

And so on.
And so forth.

In fact just in writing this out I’m now thinking how DAMN grateful I am to HAVE the chance to be reminded of the stuff I preach and teach each day and DO IN FACT LIVE BY AND BELIEVE!

Thank God for days when you don’t know which way your head is on, and you feel like disconnected garbage!! Haha. I’m feeling better already.

But here’s the thing, about what I just wrote on ‘I can still show up, I can still be me, I can still take aligned action, and this too, shall pass’:

You know, yesterday on a second session client call, one of my soul tribe (one of you!) confessed to me that she just doesn’t know how she can possibly do it all, do as much as I do.

Of course it’s not about doing what I do, or keeping up with me, but I got what she was saying. It seems so vast and never-ending when you’re at the start of your entrepreneur journey, or you just want to actively LEAP to the next level, or even, well, actually, ha, it always seems so vast and never-ending. Just so you know! That never goes away, there is ALWAYS more to do, always more you could do or feel you’d love to do.

And here is how I’ve done it.

Here is how I’ve taken a little built-in-a-box by myself website I set up with black background and garish neon colours in 2006 … “kickasslifetraining.com” … funny that! … and then my first ever blog which kicked off in 2007 … “Life is Now. Press Play”, I started writing at the end of every post, and I wish I could fully remember where THAT came from … and then my first ‘official’ blog which I started in 2008 – “Body Incredible: Nutrition, Fat Loss and Motivation” … which I launched because I thought it might help my business at the time as a personal trainer; help me get more clients and maybe some corporate gigs – which it did – and besides, I kind of thought maybe I wasn’t going to BE a personal trainer forever and I DID like writing a lot … here is how I’ve taken all of that and somehow created:

– A multiple 7-figure empire which 3-4x’s in revenue each year.
– A SO soul aligned and perfect soulmate client base and online tribe you wouldn’t believe it if you weren’t part of it.
– In excess of several hundred low right through to high end products, programs, membership sites and mentoring / coaching offers over the past 11 years
– A business and a life where all I do each day is wake up and be ME, and I now get to fully make money doing what I love and being who I AM, besides which living my dream life and actively having MY version of ‘it all’

Yes, here is how I DO so much and how I DID it all –

I just show the fuck up every day.

In whatever state I am.

And let whatever comes out of me, come out.

How is my RANDOM BIZARRE way of doing biz possibly able to make me the money it does, how is what I’m writing about today, for example, remotely relevant to what I’m then going to offer you to BUY?

Well –

How is it NOT.

The whole freaking business is me.

The whole freaking thing is just me –

Living my life.

And letting you in.

And oh, as to how to do that whole ‘attract in your cult fans who never wanna stop following or buying from you thing’?

You just reach in.
And grab ’em by the soul.

Best way to do that?

Show them yours.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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