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Purpose

SURRENDER

It’s time to surrender, gorgeous.

All of this stuff, you hold to so tightly, wanting and wishing and TRYING –

To make it work.

To make it be yours.

To have it now.

To FORCE into the box you think it must be in –

It’s time to let it go.

It’s time to detach, from that which you can’t control, which is to say, from everything outside of your own feelings, your own thoughts, your own state.

You get to choose how you react.

You get to choose how you feel.

You get to choose how you think.

You get to choose how you BE in this world, and as a result of WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE you also choose your reality, around you, your outcomes, received, but what you do NOT get to choose is to force –

Those things to show up how or when or as, you in your FEAR-based state, think they must.

It’s time to surrender.

What, you think by WORRYING about it you’re going to get there faster?

You think by exerting FORCE or MANIPULATION somebody or something outside of you is going to jump through your hoops?

Is that how you want it, anyway?

You got there because you TRICKED, the world, into giving you, begrudgingly, what you want?

I don’t think so.

And it won’t hold, anyway.

It’s time to surrender, because when you let GO, of fists tightly grasped, so scared you might miss OUT, you are then ABLE, to open up your palms –

Stretch out your arms –

And receive.

Do you want to know why surrender is so important, when you have a particular Thing Which You Desire?

1) It allows you to stop freaking the FUCK out, and admit what you really want

2) It gives you the freedom to ADMIT what you really want, because if you’ve surrendered the outcome you’re not trying to adjust or tweak it from fear, with the mindset that if you compromise a little here, a little more there, maybe you can get something ‘pretty close to’.

3) It allows you to be TUNED IN, in alignment, in the now, and therefore to LISTEN in, to what the aligned action is, which you can now take

The truth is that in order to ACCOMPLISH or GET a Thing, there is NEVER anything you must do (i.e., a list, of length Plans, and Actions), but yet there is ALWAYS an action to take.

Right here.

Right now.

So the question is …

How the hell are you supposed to know what the CORRECT aligned action to take in the now is, in order to create your reality from WITHIN, if you’re too busy holding on, freaking out, worrying, or trying to negotiate with God or the Universe about the terms?

You can’t.

SURRENDER, is the answer.

Surrender says –

“I believe I can create whatever I desire. I choose – this! I’ve asked for it, and so it is mine, and all I need to do now is wait for my order to be delivered!”

You don’t order food in a restaurant and then sit there anxiously waiting in fear that it might not arrive … or making bargains in your head about which slightly different version of it you could accept as a compromise!

Why would you do that when it comes to ordering what you want in life?

Ask.

Wait.

Take aligned action, if required.

Receive.

But SURRENDER the outcome.

This means, surrender also says:

“This or something better. Whatever I have asked for I believe is DONE, and I choose to receive as MINE, but I also know it’s this or something better slash more ALIGNED. So as much as I really really think I want the actual Thing and I want it just SO, and I absolutely believe and know it is DONE, I also know that if it never works out that way –

It’s cool.

It was meant to be something else. Because EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT PERFECTLY FOR ME, I always make the right decision, I am taken CARE of”

How do you surrender?

You simply choose to.

Write down desire. Write and claim and see it as done. Consciously surrender –

“I now release the outcome. I surrender the outcome. Thank you.”

And carry the fuck on with your day. Tune IN. Ask yourself – “if I fully knew and trusted and believed it WERE done, and I saw myself as ALREADY being that person, what is the ALIGNED ACTION I WOULD TAKE?”

Then take the God damn action, okay!! Every day. Take the ACTION. Every moment. What is the CORRECT ACTION for right NOW, which the BELIEVING and TRUSTING you would take.

But what if what if what if what if I CAN’T seem to surrender? What if fear is still there? What if I just can’t seem to let GO? What if I actually DO need to single-handedly hold up the entire world?!

Okay –

Practise.

Fucking PRACTISE surrendering, practise asking for what you want, practise CHOOSING to believe and see it as done, practise releasing it.

What, you thought this was a one time thing?

Is anything?!

Anything worth doing.

Is worth doing daily.

For the rest of your life.

Success is EASY.

Just be the person who does the work (inside and out).

For the rest of your life.

What else?

There are certain beliefs of course, which you must hold of course, for all this to work for you.

Of course.

For example:

You can’t very well SURRENDER, if you don’t first and foremost hold the belief that you ARE taken care of.

Here are some of the beliefs I have chosen to imprint in myself, along the way. Beliefs which make it easy for me to know that when I am clear on what I want, admit and ask for it, surrender it, and then take aligned in the NOW action, I simply cannot fail.

I believe:

I always make the right decision.

Everything always works out perfectly for me!

I am taken care of by God and the Universe.

I am worthy of excellence and living my dreams in all areas.

God doesn’t give me a dream to dream if it’s not to be mine.

If I can see it (and admit and ask for it) then it will become mine, part of my reality.

I use my mind to create the world around me.

I get to choose how I feel and think.

I get to choose my state, in any situation.

If I choose something, ask for it, take aligned action, continually, and am willing to DO so until I get there (no matter how long that might take yes even for EVER), then THAT THING OR SOMETHING BETTER WILL BE MINE.

And so on.

And so forth.

I choose beliefs to support me. I wasn’t born with these beliefs. I didn’t used to believe them. I chose them. Based on the outcomes I wanted and the life I wanted to create as a result.

I then practised them.

Fucking PRACTISE, baby. If you care.

And slowly but surely, they became my actual beliefs. They in turn dictated my thoughts. My feelings. My emotions. And also, obviously, my outcomes.

So now …

When I want something …

Or I feel called …

And I notice, perhaps, as oft still happens with a New goal, a Big goal, a Scary and Exciting goal, that I’m holding on TIGHTLY, wishing and wanting or trying to FORCE instead of flow, or alternatively starting to make bargains or compromises in my head –

I remind myself.

It’s very, very, VERY simple, to get, have, become, do ANYTHING I want.

1) Breathe in. Breathe out. CHOOSE to surrender.

2) Now: what is it I ACTUALLY want? If I could have it totally my way and have it be amazing (and I can), what would I want?

3) Admit it. Good. This is what I want! Thank you very much.

4) SURRENDER the outcome. If my order doesn’t arrive it means something better was there for me since I ALWAYS MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION AND I AM ALWAYS TAKEN CARE OF AND EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT PERFECTLY FOR ME.

5) Do the motherfucking work bitch. Aka: what is the (tune in!) aligned action to take right NOW?

Right now, the aligned action I needed to take, was to write this.

To remind myself, perhaps, of an area where I’ve been holding on tightly 🙂

Or maybe just to remind you.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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